Are you a fighter?

[Ambivalent1]

?

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

No. I'm a coward.

 

[Pluto]

 

[Ambivalent1]

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A true "ss" warrior

 

[destinationlosangel]

Used to be.

 

[TheGoodGuy]

No. I'm a coward.

Same

 

[derpyderpins]

?

I'm a lover, not a fighter

 

[Dead Horse]

I was many many years ago. I'm also a nihilist and when I realized that no matter how much you fight, you always lose in the end, I just stopped fighting.

 

[4am]

no, i'm a flighter

 

[sserafim]

no, i'm a flighter

I'm a freezer

 

[4am]

I'm a freezer

i thought you didn't like the idea of meat being inside you

 

[sserafim]

i thought you didn't like the idea of meat being inside you

I meant like the freeze trauma response. Ice ice

 

[surroundedbydemons]

Rogue.


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What should I fight against? or for?

 

[jujujr]

I want to get into some Martial Arts might help get some stress out, not an expert was thinking of doing one sparring fighting style and one grappling that should be fun

 

[xinino]

Yes, it is fun.

I'm a lover, not a fighter

Why not both?

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

no, i'm a flighter

I'm a freezer

I'm also a folder.

 

[xinino]

I was many many years ago. I'm also a nihilist and when I realized that no matter how much you fight, you always lose in the end, I just stopped fighting.

We all gonna lose, so why don't we fight to make us lose faster? Like no speed limit

 

[sserafim]

I'm also a folder.
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Lol at least you're not a fawner

 

[soulkitty]

No I'm a big quitter at almost everythinggg. And I HATE conflict

 

[sserafim]

I meant like the freeze trauma response. Ice ice

@4am this is me lol

"A freeze response has been triggered when (a person) suddenly numbs out into dissociation, escaping anxiety via daydreaming, oversleeping, getting lost in TV or some other form of "spacing out".

The Freeze Type and the Dissociative Defense

Many freeze types unconsciously believe that people and danger are synonymous, and that safety lies in solitude. Outside of fantasy, many give up entirely on the possibility of love. The freeze response, also known as the camouflage response, often triggers the individual into hiding, isolating and eschewing human contact as much as possible. This type can be so frozen in retreat mode that it seems as if their starter button is stuck in the "off" position.

It is usually the most profoundly abandoned child - "the lost child" - who is forced to "choose" and habituate to the freeze response (the most primitive of the 4Fs). Unable to successfully employ fight, flight or fawn responses, the freeze type's defenses develop around classical dissociation, which allows him to disconnect from experiencing his abandonment pain, and protects him from risky social interactions - any of which might trigger feelings of being reabandoned.

Freeze types often present as ADD; they seek refuge and comfort in prolonged bouts of sleep, daydreaming, wishing and right brain-dominant activities like TV, computer and video games. They master the art of changing the internal channel whenever inner experience becomes uncomfortable. When they are especially traumatized or triggered, they may exhibit a schizoid-like detachment from ordinary reality."

 

[rata1]

"If you fight you might lose, if you don't you have already lost." Bertold Brecht

 

[Dark Moon]

I can confront yes, not easy to do with my condition but I can do it and I used to be a fighter nowadays physically I'm definitely not weak so probably.

I want to get into some Martial Arts might help get some stress out, not an expert was thinking of doing one sparring fighting style and one grappling that should be fun

I'm thinking of going to the gym but I have weights at home.

 

[thenamingofcats]

I used to be a fighter then learned the hard way that there will always be someone bigger and stronger and to never do that again. Then I started the freeze/fawn thing. Now I'm probably still freeze/fawn but with a special interest in GTFO and will take any opportunity to bail.

 

[Meteora]

If I wasn't, I'd be long gone. But I'm so deeply exhausted.Just longing for peace and silence (in my head).

 

[Ambivalent1]

I meant like the freeze trauma response. Ice ice

Ice immigration

 

[sserafim]

Ice immigration

[Chorus: Hyunjin, Felix, All]
(Freeze)
Unfreeze
Ice, ice
Ice, ice
Unfreeze
Unfreeze

 

[Ambivalent1]

[Chorus: Hyunjin, Felix, All]
(Freeze)
Unfreeze
Ice, ice
Ice, ice
Unfreeze
Unfreeze

I don't listen to kpop. Sorry

 

[sserafim]

I don't listen to kpop. Sorry

Ddaeng

 

[Dark Moon]

If I wasn't, I'd be long gone. But I'm so deeply exhausted.Just longing for peace and silence (in my head).

Yep that too, if I wasn't I would have been dead long ago.

No I'm a big quitter at almost everythinggg. And I HATE conflict

Oh no.

 

[bookgirl]

I'm a fighter who has given up