Resource Archiving examples of violent/dangerous/creepy SaSu members

[U. A.]

With all the talk I'm seeing of safety lately, I thought this could be a useful reminder that YES, THIS SHIT HAPPENS ON THIS SITE.

New members should be able to be easily informed of this reality, and, if they choose, see the evidence. This site has rules and people break them. Some people are just shitty and may not get reported or banned fast enough if at all, because they break informal rules. Some only make their shittiness known in private or off-site.

Incidentally, I don't like the idea of people being on the receiving end of this kind of behaviour and perhaps feeling as if they have no one to tell or nowhere to go. We are all vulnerable, but we are far from equally vulnerable. Some of us are inherently more likely to be targets, or fall prey to predatory behavior, than others.

Those below should be enough given, but if you know of an incident and want to add so others can know it happened, please post a relevant direct link - whispers of events are one thing but I hope to bring together original "sources" of this info. This is a forum and we likely won't usually have sources outside it, but given we coexist here and here alone for the most part, it's mostly all we can hope for.

May 2020 - extreme violent threats:

Dangerous people on the forum

Watch me get banned for this. Although this forum is a safe space for so many of us, there are dangerous people here who use our vulnerability to their own advantage. Even though they are a minority, they still exist here and still aim to manipulate or harm those of us who are unsuspecting and...

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August 2022 - all kinds of fucked:

How do I cope with not having a single friend?

I don’t know.. I’m fucking trying.. 21 now and I still don’t have a single friend.. I know I’m grateful to have a bf but honestly our relationship is going south.. I live at home and rn my older brother is going thought stuff, my other brother comes and goes.. they are on the phone talking to...

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August 2023 - inappropriate, unsolicited advances:

be wary of potential suicide 'partners' with an agenda

i'm getting sick of the fake intentions these people have -- pretending they also want to die with you when they clearly have something else in mind. be careful of people who responds to your suicide partner request as they may only be after one thing and that's not to die with you. these are...

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August 2024 - member attempts mass stabbing:

Forum member attempted a mass stabbing

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[noname223]

You forgot to include the state terrorist. Thus far the most insane person. Lol.

 

[U. A.]

You forgot to include the state terrorist. Thus far the most insane person. Lol.

I am not an authority; those were the only ones I know of/could find easily.
Please edit your comment to include the relevant link(s) while you still have time to do so - I want to get these all in one place.

 

[noname223]

I am not an authority; those were the only ones I know of/could find easily.
Please edit your comment to include the relevant link(s) while you still have time to do so. I want to get these all in one place.

It was in some way a joke. But the person really existed. I am not sure whether people would like it if I named that member. I think shedding too much light on the perpetrator could backfire and people might glorify him. Maybe it is better if he is forgotten. Terrorists want exactly that kind of fame. It just feels surreal to me that there was one on here.

 

[EmptyBottle]

this is scary:

first.. note how he, unsolicited... say "by pming me" vs something less, pushy (sus).
then, note the signs of domestic violence (strangling to scare) and excess justification of his creepy behaviour.

"It's extremely unlikely that I ever would strangle my worst enemy; and I would only do it to frighten her,"

How do I cope with not having a single friend?

I don’t know.. I’m fucking trying.. 21 now and I still don’t have a single friend.. I know I’m grateful to have a bf but honestly our relationship is going south.. I live at home and rn my older brother is going thought stuff, my other brother comes and goes.. they are on the phone talking to...

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[Pluto]

Dangerous and shady guy openly promoting a Sanctioned Homicide forum.

Sanctioned Homicide (black humour)

Warning: this is a parody of our beloved forum for those of us who use black humour to cope with the insanity and absurdity of life. Please do not read if this is a trigger or offensive, and please do not ever think of seriously harming anyone else. For therapeutic laughter only. Hi...

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[EmptyBottle]

Dangerous and shady guy openly promoting a Sanctioned Homicide forum.

Sanctioned Homicide (black humour)

Warning: this is a parody of our beloved forum for those of us who use black humour to cope with the insanity and absurdity of life. Please do not read if this is a trigger or offensive, and please do not ever think of seriously harming anyone else. For therapeutic laughter only. Hi...

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good news, dns doesn't resolve. still, the humour is a bit dark.

 

[EternalHunger]

It's a bit surprising there isn't more examples

 

[EmptyBottle]

It's a bit surprising there isn't more examples

I think most examples are buried in unreported PM (on and off this site)... users with suspicious entry stories denied (reducing the pool of creeps a bit), and moderation systems auto removing a small amount too.

Maybe more searching needs to be done to find the sus threads? idk.

 

[U. A.]

It's a bit surprising there isn't more examples

As @EmptyBottle says I'm sure there are but this all I knew of / could find on a cursory search. As I said others are free to add but there doesn't seem to be much interest. I do know of at least one more account of a sexual nature quite recently shared, but given the recency and vulnerable nature of it didn't feel right including.

Honestly those in OP should be enough on their own to compel people to keep their guard up.

 

[EmptyBottle]

not to mention, take vigilance against risks like:

• Risk of scams (eg: nembutal links are usually scam nowadays)
• Risk of doxxing (eg: someone shares an SN 'source' upon request... but it is a website they control and they can get the shipping address if entered... I will NEVER do something like that. It is also trivial to make a website with website builders)
• Risks of discovery (eg: failing to guard your phone/computer screen against nosy ppl irl, while here)
• Risk of causing harm to others (eg: If I fail to think when replying, leading to me accidentally hurting someone :| )
• Risk of being harmed (eg: by trying and failing a method leading to injury)

There are probably other risks besides mentioned in the thread. Try to think critically before taking actions, and avoid taking actions (like posting) when too tired to do so responsibly.

PS: I may have told some ppl I'll sleep soon. Oops, it is 1:22am. (but I don't plan on using PC until 2am)

 

[ABadPerson]

not to mention, take vigilance against risks like:

• Risk of scams (eg: nembutal links are usually scam nowadays)
• Risk of doxxing (eg: someone shares an SN 'source' upon request... but it is a website they control and they can get the shipping address if entered... I will NEVER do something like that. It is also trivial to make a website with website builders)
• Risks of discovery (eg: failing to guard your phone/computer screen against nosy ppl irl, while here)
• Risk of causing harm to others (eg: If I fail to think when replying, leading to me accidentally hurting someone :| )
• Risk of being harmed (eg: by trying and failing a method leading to injury)

There are probably other risks besides mentioned in the thread. Try to think critically before taking actions, and avoid taking actions (like posting) when too tired to do so responsibly.

PS: I may have told some ppl I'll sleep soon. Oops, it is 1:22am. (but I don't plan on using PC until 2am)

Ah, I been pulling the site up more often in public spaces due to it being so comforting…

 

[EmptyBottle]

Ah, I been pulling the site up more often in public spaces due to it being so comforting…

Me too, I've used the site on the bus, and in a lecture room (tho I think in both cases there was enough distance to make the text unreadable by 3rd parties, who probably weren't even interested in reading).

Tho when at home, I keep a keyboard shortcut to blank the screen (and can Ctrl + W before unblanking)

 

[Dejected 55]

For what it's worth... creepy people are everywhere, and lots of people out there NOT with your best interest in mind... so it pays to be wary and stay on your toes. But beware of your confirmation bias. For context.

A woman I knew many years ago told the romantic (in her eyes) story of how she met her husband in college. They briefly met at a party near the end of a year... then she went home for the summer. This man found out where she lived, traveled to her home, and showed up to surprise her at her door. They ended up going out and got married.

The above story was only related to me as a romantic one because she found the man attractive. Had she not found him attractive when they first met, everything else about the story was stalkery and would have been told very differently.

The lesson here is... the exact same behavior of a man or a woman pursuing someone they like is received completely differently depending on whether the object of the pursuit finds the person attractive... and if YOU are the pursuer, you likely do not have a clue until you have gone too far. So, benign intentions can be misconstrued and you become a predator by default in one scenario OR a fondly remembered romantic in another... and you aren't going to know which one you are until you are fairly far down the path.

My point here is... point out all the bad behavior and call attention to it for the sake of everyone... but be aware that you aren't mislabeling someone just because you don't like them. People I don't like do all kinds of things I wish they wouldn't do... but I recognize their actions are colored by how I perceive them as people and I weigh that against how I'd perceive them if they were someone I liked doing the same thing.

Kind of how like in sports or politics, you will celebrate and defend people on YOUR team while denouncing and ridiculing people on the OTHER team for essentially saying and doing the same kinds of things. Beware your own confirmation bias when throwing someone under the bus, and make sure under the bus is truly where they belong.

 

[U. A.]

For what it's worth... creepy people are everywhere, and lots of people out there NOT with your best interest in mind... so it pays to be wary and stay on your toes. But beware of your confirmation bias. For context.

A woman I knew many years ago told the romantic (in her eyes) story of how she met her husband in college. They briefly met at a party near the end of a year... then she went home for the summer. This man found out where she lived, traveled to her home, and showed up to surprise her at her door. They ended up going out and got married.

The above story was only related to me as a romantic one because she found the man attractive. Had she not found him attractive when they first met, everything else about the story was stalkery and would have been told very differently.

The lesson here is... the exact same behavior of a man or a woman pursuing someone they like is received completely differently depending on whether the object of the pursuit finds the person attractive... and if YOU are the pursuer, you likely do not have a clue until you have gone too far. So, benign intentions can be misconstrued and you become a predator by default in one scenario OR a fondly remembered romantic in another... and you aren't going to know which one you are until you are fairly far down the path.

My point here is... point out all the bad behavior and call attention to it for the sake of everyone... but be aware that you aren't mislabeling someone just because you don't like them. People I don't like do all kinds of things I wish they wouldn't do... but I recognize their actions are colored by how I perceive them as people and I weigh that against how I'd perceive them if they were someone I liked doing the same thing.

Kind of how like in sports or politics, you will celebrate and defend people on YOUR team while denouncing and ridiculing people on the OTHER team for essentially saying and doing the same kinds of things. Beware your own confirmation bias when throwing someone under the bus, and make sure under the bus is truly where they belong.

Truly I cannot ascertain the purpose of this comment in light of the behaviour given in the examples of the threads I posted. This blackpill trash really doesn't benefit this thread or member safety on this site but whatever man. I'm not looking for a reply to this message either. Just please consider the topic of the thread next time, do me a favor.

 

[Dejected 55]

Truly I cannot ascertain the purpose of this comment in light of the behaviour given in the examples of the threads I posted. This blackpill trash really doesn't benefit this thread or member safety on this site but whatever man. I'm not looking for a reply to this message either. Just please consider the topic of the thread next time, do me a favor.

And, as I guess I should have expected, an attempt to make a post ensuring that actual threats to forum members were exposed (as they should be) without demonizing people just for being different... was immediately interpreted as being hostile somehow. No worries, I'm adding you to my ignore list now so you won't see me further replying to you as I have no reason to believe your efforts are sincerely about protecting people as much as bringing your own bias against people who may not deserve it.

 

[EmptyBottle]

Truly I cannot ascertain the purpose of this comment in light of the behaviour given in the examples of the threads I posted. This blackpill trash really doesn't benefit this thread or member safety on this site but whatever man. I'm not looking for a reply to this message either. Just please consider the topic of the thread next time, do me a favor.

I'm also a little confused, I think the person means that sometimes, potentially creepy behaviour is overlooked, or interpreted differently... tho since the meaning is a bit unclear, this thread wasn't the place for that post.

I disagree with the other point of how it is hard for one to tell if they went too far. Erring on the side of caution is better in those circumstances... and for the story of the woman who was pleasantly surprised, the couple was likely on good terms and understood that both would be ok with surprise meetings (they likely exchanged addresses too). If that understanding wasn't there, then the man, wouldn't/shouldn't be at her place.

 

[Dejected 55]

I'm also a little confused, I think the person means that sometimes, potentially creepy behaviour is overlooked, or interpreted differently... tho since the meaning is a bit unclear, this thread wasn't the place for that post.

I disagree with the other point of how it is hard for one to tell if they went too far. Erring on the side of caution is better in those circumstances... and for the story of the woman who was pleasantly surprised, the couple was likely on good terms and understood that both would be ok with surprise meetings (they likely exchanged addresses too). If that understanding wasn't there, then the man, wouldn't/shouldn't be at her place.

If you read what I posted about the story the woman told me of how she met her husband. They literally had only met the one time briefly at a party and he didn't see her again until he had tracked her down and followed her to her home during the summer. He had not been invited nor had she given him any contact information to find her. He did that all on his own. As I noted, she related it as a romantic story since it led to them dating and marrying at some point... but in most cases that same action taken by a man who had just met a woman that one time and then tracking her down and following her across the country would have not had such a happy ending. He either would have been labeled as a creep OR he in fact might have been a stalker who meant her harm. She thought he was cute, so she overlooked the creepy/stalkery nature of it... but that doesn't make any of it correct... and yet, that guy would get a pass for his creepy behavior which may not have been warranted.

 

[EmptyBottle]

SS Member Arrested for Rape & Attempted Murder of 2 SS Members

A man in Glasgow has been charged, and being held without bail, for the rape and torture of two women he met on SS. His name is Craig McInally. TRUST NO ONE https://www.thescottishsun.co.uk/news/scottish-news/6965974/glasgow-court-trial-attempted-murder-assisted-suicide-website/

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PS: credit to a user in chatzy for linking.

 

[NormallyNeurotic]

Not sure if someone essentially saying Nazi talking points belongs here. The comment is deleted now though (thanks mods!), I just have a screenshot and that's it.

 

[U. A.]

Not sure if someone essentially saying Nazi talking points belongs here. The comment is deleted now though (thanks mods!), I just have a screenshot and that's it.

Nazis are violent and dangerous even if they're maybe less inclined to target other forum users so yeah, I personally think that kind of thing should be public knowledge.

 

[NormallyNeurotic]

Nazis are violent and dangerous even if they're maybe less inclined to target other forum users so yeah, I personally think that kind of thing should be public knowledge.

I'm Jewish and I did respond with a snarky comment, but they're both gone now. I understand that the genocide in Palestine inspires intense feelings (for good fucking reason), but this was just... no. Hating/harming one group in response to hatred/harm towards another is literally useless for our cause.

EDIT:
This is the thread it was on.

If you could listen to the take of a dead public figure about the current state of the world, who would you choose?

I would like to listen to the take of David Foster Wallace. He was a good contrarian but not a political commentator though. What would Marx, Stalin or Hitler say? There is a German book I read it as teenager "Er is wieder da."/ He is back again. A book that envisioned that Hitler came back...

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