RussianRoulette

RussianRoulette

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Oct 17, 2023
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I have an abnormally large libido and I always feel the need to fap , I tried nofap ,but the urges freaking kill me and then I end up depressed and feeling like crap, or uter useless shit with suicidal thoughts. I need more advice to get cured, trying to block porn , go outside ,socialize more but so far nothing works . All I think is sex and when the climax ends I get overthrown by suicidal thoughts, I feel tired and helpless.
 
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itsraining

itsraining

Sleep With A Baseball Bat
May 18, 2023
64
I had this same problem until I started hrt and went on estrogen. Masturbation is the one thing that would make me feel good especially when I was having a terrible time so I don't blame you for turning to that but it does overtake most aspects of your life. I'm about to dip into NSFW territory I think but whenever I wanted to make the urge go away I'd get a cloth of damp with ice cold water and hold it up to my crotch until the urge subsided (for some reason this works?).
 
avoid

avoid

Jul 31, 2023
294

I don't have any personal experience with a high libido so I hope this article is helpful. An alternative solution to reducing your libido yourself is visiting your general practitioner.
 
Shiva_Story

Shiva_Story

Student
Mar 12, 2023
134
i was hooked to it since teen age, its very destructive and it's an addiction like any other.
i did the nofap challenge and it had me buzzing with energy but i dont think it's sustainable.
what helped me to get off porn was to stop viewing women as sexual objects but rather as living beings with their stories and start to respect my own sexual energy and its life giving force.
i'd recommend you to shift to gradualy shift to soft porn and try injaculation, which it lets you experience an orgasm like climax without expelling your life force.
 
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Green Destiny

Green Destiny

Life isn't worth the trouble.
Nov 16, 2019
867
Yeah I've been hooked to Porn and Masturbation for years now. Crazy as it sounds today marks 30 days since I've last Masturbated to porn, sad part is I can't remember the last time I've gone this long without doing the act. And it hasn't been easy, I still have urges to go back and do it all over again. Finally on a deeper level years of porn usage has gotten me into some rather unpleasant stuff that I'm worried I won't be able to truly walk away from.
 
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__noknok

Member
Mar 1, 2023
8
Have this problem too. I'm even on prozac which is suppose to decrease your sex drive and haven't noticed any changes. I think keeping yourself occupied is probably the best way to avoid PMOing, especially if you tend to do it whenever you're bored or got nothing else to do.
 
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Notwinnernotawin

Notwinnernotawin

Specialist
Apr 4, 2020
341
Me. I think I exaggerated a little bit yesterday. But I'll try to stop otherwise I'm going crazy.
 
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NoHorizon

Experienced
Nov 22, 2022
276
Have this problem too. I'm even on prozac which is suppose to decrease your sex drive and haven't noticed any changes. I think keeping yourself occupied is probably the best way to avoid PMOing, especially if you tend to do it whenever you're bored or got nothing else to do.
I actually found the opposite on prozac and another SSRI. I know decreased libido is a common symptom but I was definitely the other way while on them.
 
Enlighten

Enlighten

I am here for you
Sep 29, 2023
310
Nofap is fucking bullshit. Omg by day 60 of Nofap you'll achieve the ability to levitate!!! absolute horseshit. I've stopped jerking off for 2 months at one point and all it did was make me nut in 30s the first time i had sex after that. Really nice for the lady to be Max Verstappen of the bedroom.
Just try to not go over once a day and at max twice a day and you're fine.
 
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