Anyone here who hates being a virgin

[thruDeathPeace]

I remember feeling that same way when I was young. What secretly held me back more than anything was that I didn't feel like I was worthy or deserving of someone wanting me that way.

Once that path was crossed it really sank in that I was a fool for thinking like that and I realized how many lonely people are out there just because they never cross paths with the people they're compatible with. Social media seems to be making it worse. Lots of people who would have good relations together if only they knew they existed.

 

[walsun]

No I don't feel anything regarding it.

 

[N-methylamphetamine]

Not so sure about the women part bro let's be real

it kinda is to a degree

 

[EmployedHikikomori]

I don't know how to answer that.

One one hand, it hurts me that I missed out on that experience before turning 30. While most had already gone through it in their teens and 20s. (I missed out a lot in life actually)

One the other hand, I didn't do anything to seek it out. I only ever pursued one relationship in my life. And sex wasn't always unavailable to me, I know of a few prostitutes. If I wanted, I could just buy my first time. But I never did, never really had the motivation to do it.

Yeah, I don't know about this.

 

[N-methylamphetamine]

title, its self explanatory. I wished I wasn't a virgin but because the dating scene is cooked for both men and women well.... I don't really have a choice and people tend to abhor us indians so yea.

i did not expect this to blow up

 

[makebelieve]

It does suck but at this point its the least of my problems.

 

[N@te]

title, its self explanatory. I wished I wasn't a virgin but because the dating scene is cooked for both men and women well.... I don't really have a choice and people tend to abhor us indians so yea.

I have a very low libido, and also porn exists so I don't care. Sometimes I feel kinda sad about the idea of never being able to experience romantic affection, but most of the time I'm pretty apathetic about that as well.

 

[dearn]

I am actually scared of sex.
1. growing up in a religious household didn't help, I don't want to lose it
2. I am extremely insecure and ugly I don't want anyone to see my naked body. ( and yet I bodycheck regularly everyday online how ironic )

I think the thing that affect me the most is not being attractive, more than being virgin. But I am a religious NA woman . The pressure around the virginity is probably different