Disappointered
Enlightened
- Sep 21, 2020
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In the past I had half joked on more than one occasion that I wished I was homosexual as it would make it easier to find a partner. Turns out snobbery and exclusiveness are so fundamental to human nature that even men looking for men are just as demanding as everyone else.
If sex is the highest valued life experience yet everyone also wants to impose exacting standards when deciding who will be allowed to "commune" with them, then most people's lives will be worthless. I wonder if being asexual is the best. It's probably really boring. Still better than being trapped in the world of sex to serve as the one who validates the happy end of the curve by being the reject on the other end. Maybe for the other 80%, being boring, clean and asexual is the next best thing to being dead. Or maybe the state should fund plastic surgery and whatever else is needed so that everyone can become a physically attractive member of a society in which a porn star lifestyle is the most fulfilling achievement to be had. That would probably work better than funding prostitutes as part of a basic right to mental well-being. This forum would probably still be pretty active though. Because then people would lose interest in sex and find some other way of creating exclusionary social networks to make themselves feel superior. And in any case, you can't fix shortness with surgery.
If sex is the highest valued life experience yet everyone also wants to impose exacting standards when deciding who will be allowed to "commune" with them, then most people's lives will be worthless. I wonder if being asexual is the best. It's probably really boring. Still better than being trapped in the world of sex to serve as the one who validates the happy end of the curve by being the reject on the other end. Maybe for the other 80%, being boring, clean and asexual is the next best thing to being dead. Or maybe the state should fund plastic surgery and whatever else is needed so that everyone can become a physically attractive member of a society in which a porn star lifestyle is the most fulfilling achievement to be had. That would probably work better than funding prostitutes as part of a basic right to mental well-being. This forum would probably still be pretty active though. Because then people would lose interest in sex and find some other way of creating exclusionary social networks to make themselves feel superior. And in any case, you can't fix shortness with surgery.