Anyone else hate babies?

[a.n.kirillov]

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You can let it all out this is a safe space for baby-haters

 

[ctbUniquectb]

Yes.

 

[Kassender]

Me too.

Human babies are so...gross...
I dont understand how anyone can find them cute, seriously

They are like screaming meatbags

 

[Deleted member 1465]

LOL I never got along with babies, I always felt insecure around them. I really don't know what that says about me. Dogs though? Love em. Seldom met a dog I wasn't instant friends with.

 

[Soulless_Angel]

We all have our own opinions, but wow!!
My viewpoint as a parent, any other baby other then my own or closely related is ugly!
Secondly we were all babies once, does this mean you should have been hated as a baby, I know I was and I know the profound effect it has had on me since.... and you wonder why society is fucked up!

 

[TAW122]

I don't necessarily "hate" babies, but I would say that I'm not good with children or babies for the matter and I'd rather not be around them if that makes sense.

 

[Deleted member 1465]

I certainly don't hate them, just don't go googoogaagaa at them like I see so many other people doing. I like children once they are old enough to talk to and engage with. Some of the things they say (from being without all the adult conditioning) can make me stop and think. But I never wanted kids. Always had enough trouble taking care of myself, let alone a baby. I would never have wanted to bring someone into the world if I didn't feel responsible enough to look after them properly.

 

[a.n.kirillov]

We all have our own opinions, but wow!!
My viewpoint as a parent, any other baby other then my own or closely related is ugly!
Secondly we were all babies once, does this mean you should have been hated as a baby, I know I was and I know the profound effect it has had on me since.... and you wonder why society is fucked up!

well.... Hate is too strong of a word. For me it's 1. insecurity around them, as @Underscore said (I also always wondered what that says about me) 2. like you I find them repulsive/ ugly (the only thing that's worse is people who have a baby fetish ...like in a sexual way, adults who dress up as babies) and 3. what it does to people, how they talk about them, interact with them; I don't have that reaction to them I'd rather run for the hills when they're around haha. I even stay away from family gatherings because I'm afraid people will hassle me with their newborns; they do that and then they want you to hold them and so on, it's too much for me.

 

[Soulless_Angel]

well.... Hate is too strong of a word. For me it's 1. insecurity around them, as @Underscore said (I also always wondered what that says about me) 2. like you I find them repulsive/ ugly (the only thing that's worse is people who have a baby fetish ...like in a sexual way, adults who dress up as babies) and 3. what it does to people, how they talk about them, interact with them; I don't have that reaction to them I'd rather run for the hills when they're around haha. I even stay away from family gatherings because I'm afraid people will hassle me with their newborns; they do that and then they want you to hold them and so on, it's too much for me.

again I speak as a parent, those parents who force their baby on you and go oooo you so want a cuddle, bet you are broody now and all that shit.. I want to throat punch them!!
My own are more then enough thank you! Even then I spend my days thinking fuck this shit!

Children, aged 5 and above I can get on with but anything younger,no, they are kinda boring as babies too....
the people with fetishes are sick, sorry but why?!!

 

[Deleted member 1465]

I'm afraid people will hassle me with their newborns; they do that and then they want you to hold them and so on, it's too much for me

Ohhhh yes, ooooooh yes that freaks me out. At those meetings you would find me in the kitchen rolling around on the floor with the family dog.

 

[Jessamine]

Probably voicing an unpopular opinion on this thread but I bloody love babies!!!

 

[mesohappy]

Babies don't move the needle for me.I hate when people want to show me pictures of some new baby in their family.Like "oh, isn't she/he just the cutest?" Im like uh yeeeah,its a baby alright..They all look the same.I went to a co worker/neighbors home once shortly after their baby was born and his wife asked me to hold it..I said "Why? Do I have to? I don't think Im comfortable with that"..After that she never liked me or wanted me invited to any of their "functions".

 

[Root]

I don't hate babies but making children is bad in my opinion since they will just suffer.

 

[faraway_beach]

I wouldn't say hate, but I don't like babies or dogs. So many people seem to think theirs is exempt somehow. No, I don't like babies or dogs, that includes yours. I will leave them alone, so you get them to leave me alone.

 

[Soulless_Angel]

I don't hate babies but making children is bad in my opinion since they will just suffer.

How can we be sure they willsuffer, its 50/50 at the end of the day! a chance some want to take without realising the risk, a chance others will take knowing the risk and the result is one of those that will never truely be known!

 

[Root]

How can we be sure they willsuffer, its 50/50 at the end of the day! a chance some want to take without realising the risk, a chance others will take knowing the risk and the result is one of those that will never truely be known!

Yeah not all people suffer but I'd say very big part of human population do. If no one made children no one would suffer. And as I already said I don't hate babies. I like them. I just don't think it's good to make them. Not trying to offend you or make you feel bad.

 

[veren4h92l]

I love babies.
They're pure human and good love, respect and care you give them is never wasted.
I wished every baby could thrieve to become a happy child become a happy adult and after a happy life die without regrets.

Also sufferings could be good or bad.

Every child is full of love and life.
Just don't bereave them.

 

[Aonewayticketplease]

Can't stand to be around them.......so needy. Their crying goes through me like a knife.

When you pick them up they are such a dead weight....uuurgh

 

[Suicide_vampire]

I hate babies because as a species we are over-populating an already over-populated planet. But also why so needy, you look at other species and days after birth they are walking etc, plus animal babies are soooo much cuter

 

[veren4h92l]

Can't stand to be around them.......so needy. Their crying goes through me like a knife.
When you pick them up they are such a dead weight....uuurgh

I'm sorry you feel like this.
I'd immediately pick up a crying one and reflexively help out whatever it is so the little one can make happy sounds again.

Then again, old people bleating or shouting goes through me like a knife, idk.

Plus when I carry a baby, I don't feel my own dead weight

 

[Cutepoison]

Me too.

Human babies are so...gross...
I dont understand how anyone can find them cute, seriously

They are like screaming meatbags

This made me laugh :D

 

[Xaphous]

It just means theres another 2 selfish fucks that made it

 

[Aonewayticketplease]

I'm sorry you feel like this.
I'd immediately pick up a crying one and reflexively help out whatever it is so the little one can make happy sounds again.

Then again, old people bleating or shouting goes through me like a knife, idk.

Plus when I carry a baby, I don't feel my own dead weight

Are you trying in your own special way to say that you like children?

 

[a_strange_day]

Screaming, smelly and useless little things. I never understood why do most people think babies are cute. A kitty is cute and funny yes, a baby rabbit is cute, a baby pig is cute, even lambs are cute, but human babies are so gross :)

 

[Suicide_vampire]

Awww the baby pig is the cutest I want one.... NOW!!!
When I was a kid I always wanted to invent a shrink spray, that I could spray on baby animals so they always stayed that size. I would spray that piglet haha

 

[veren4h92l]

Are you trying in your own special way to say that you like children?

No, I wondered how different a Homo S. baby affects people.

As I'm outgrown I'd love make someone else feel lifted up (only works with lightweight babies for me) , then imagine it could be me and share the joy immediately. I know I'm totally egoistic at this point.

Then I thought it way natural to give the new own kind advantage and rather mock the outworn.
That's what other animals do as well. Intuitively pick the baby when they hear' em crying. Could be another species' baby, too.

But I missed that of course, it could be right the other way around.
So I don't think it's unusual humans dislike human babies but feel good with cute, more independent animals or no babies and no animals and whatsoever at all.

Well I should have said I like how babies make me feel when I hear them or carry some.
But I feel sorry it's dead weigh on and knife through you I'd hate that feeling, too!

 

[MrOptions]

Not just babies but kids under 18 are a pain in the ass too.

 

[Finis Autem Spero]

I can't stand the shrill screeches that sound like a thousand-armed god rasping forks along every surface of my skeleton with joy and enthusiasm which only small children seem capable of producing.

 

[sadgirl2002]

I'm not good with babies, I can't stand the constant crying. I had to quit my old job in a day nursery after a week because I couldn't handle it. I love kids though, the ones that are 3-5 years old. Also, I don't know how people find babies so cute, it pisses me off more when people want to have babies only because they're "cute". They're alright, I guess... but kids and baby animals are the cutest.

 

[ForensicallyAware]

I just think pity he's gonna grow into be just another selfish moaning useless human