Anyone else enjoy picturing their own funeral?

[unloveable27]

There's something morbidly calming about it. It feels more real than most daydreams.

 

[kju]

Back when my dreams were still vivid, I often dreamed of what would happen after I passed. My funeral and how life would pass on without me. Those were always the most pleasant parts of the dreams. I wonder how that would translate to my reality

 

[Enyan]

Iunno, it honestly just makes me sad. I don't want anyone to cry over me.

 

[peacebenow]

No I truly can't stand the thoughts or images. Too morbid. Opposite of calming for me. Also don't want a funeral so there's that.

 

[unloveable27]

Iunno, it honestly just makes me sad. I don't want anyone to cry over me.

Understand what you mean but I want to see them cry so I know they really cared. I want people to think about me being left behind and me being alone I CTB. Make them see life is the rigged game it is and maybe give them an idea of what grief is

 

[DeathSweetDeath]

Nope. My note says no burial, no obit, no funeral or service of any kind.

 

[isthisthingon]

I'm not even sure anyone will show up. I'll probably just get cremated and my urn will be donated to Goodwill.

 

[violetforever]

what do u enjoy about imagining it??? asking as someone who doesnt enjoy the thought of my own funeral because i dont want one.

 

[fadedghost]

no

i envision picture a room that's essentially empty and a party of people celebrating my death in another part of town...

 

[hmnow]

My suicide note will say no funeral

 

[meiherasayuri]

Sometimes I've imagined it and I always end up crying for some reason

 

[Passenger4224]

The idea I have for my "funeral" is throwing my body in the middle of the woods and getting eaten by bears.

Getting buried is overrated, I want to help the hungry animals.

Too bad I wouldn't dare suggest it to anyone, because they will just be selfish and ignore my wish completely.

 

[singingcrow]

no because i don't want one

 

[unloveable27]

what do u enjoy about imagining it??? asking as someone who doesnt enjoy the thought of my own funeral because i dont want one.

That my family might finally understand the pain I was in, and the thought of being a single kissless virgin at 28 is a lot scarier to me than death. I want the funeral to make them reflect on the things they could've done to prevent this.
I also enjoy the mental image of before I was born and the nothingness after death. It comforts me to plan my own funeral too since I see no sign of my life improving.

 

[failedmind]

i don't want a funeral but sometimes i do imagine it and it brings me a sense of peace, knowing everything would be over and i wouldn't exist anymore

 

[Forever Sleep]

I don't want a funeral. I intend to prepay for a direct cremation. But then, I do wonder how people will react to hearing that. Will they- in fact wish they'd had the chance to say goodbye. Or, will they feel relieved that I spared them the discomfort of saying they weren't going to come? It would be hundreds of miles for them to travel. I doubt anyone would really want to do that. I haven't seen most of them in many years too. I wouldn't expect them to come.

Plus, I kind of hate funerals too. Most of the ones I have attended felt really impersonal.

 

[SoLowHollow48]

There's something morbidly calming about it. It feels more real than most daydreams.

I derive such an odd feeling of contentment when I think about it.

I planned a short showing before my cremation--2 days at most; then a dinner party/lunch party for those who came. I thought about leaving them my will. I imagined someone writing me a eulogy because only when I'm dead that I get to know how much I'm missed.

I think about how many people will regret my leaving. I think about what sort of friend I'd have to have to be able to organize all of this after I die.

I visualize my funeral like I'm supposed to visualize my own wedding.

 

[tomame]

sadly yes. absolutely

i daydream about it often

 

[itsgone2]

No. I want nothing. Erase me asap

 

[Cauliflour]

I'm too hung up on what'll happen to my body when I die. When I think about funerals, I just keep thinking about if I'll look pretty enough in the coffin. I've had thoughts about freezing myself so I'll be preserved for centuries, but that costs money. The thought of just being cremated and turned into a jar doesn't sit right with me.

I actually have a doodle already for this because I've answered a post like this (hopefully it'll load . __.)

 

[tehdragonguy]

I don't want a funeral. I think about this a lot. I just want to be gone, and everyone pretend like I never existed in the first place. I don't want them to care about me when I'm dead when they couldn't manage it while I was alive.

 

[buriedinmyhead]

There's something morbidly calming about it. It feels more real than most daydreams.

I used to, but I don't want a funeral anymore, I just want everyone to forget about me