Anyone else angry that a family member you know will talk shit about you after you’re dead?

[Quinlor]

well I will be dead right, so i give a shit if they will talk shit about me !

 

[Brink]

I wish I had someone there to smash his face in after he runs his mouth.

I used to have strong feelings like that too. But now, with each passing week, I drift closer to apathetic acceptance.

 

[Fish Face]

Couldn't care less. Just call me a liar. Deny I was abused. I have everything ordered. Only problem is getting a will wrote due to COVID-19 because they have to be witnessed and I have nobody to ask. I do not want them to get anything. Don't care what they say about me. I will be dead. They've said everything already. Let their sponging relatives take them for everything but they are not getting my money.

 

[TAW122]

I used to feel that way when I was younger, like wanting to defend my honor. However, in the last few years, I realized that no matter what I do and say, people will choose to believe what they wish to believe in and react how they wish, outside of my control. Therefore, I've only learned to find my own peace and then focus on just exiting this horrible world so that I won't have to suffer longer than necessary.

In short, I suppose you could say that while I want to be angry about it, the end goal and ultimate goal is to find peace and CTB successfully so that I won't have to suffer decade after decade.

 

[Bct]

I sometimes can be a shitty person, so it's no surprise if someone (family members, friends, acquaintances, etc.) will talk shit about me. Since I won't know who & what they say when I'm dying, it won't be matter at all.

 

[selfhater]

i just talked about this on my post days ago i can't stop thinking about it. so ya i feel many will especially my family

 

[rikamonie]

no im more annoyed that i know they will be nice to me and say nice things and act like they miss me when im dead (: even though when im there and alive im constantly verbally abused and mocked and told to fuck off etc