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Opera

Opera

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Nov 16, 2024
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Anyone here have any phobias? I have a few that feel childish or just dumb at times, so I'll start!

Acrophobia (Fear of heights)
Nyctophobia (Fear of darkness) (I've gotten better at trying to overcome it though!)
Philemaphobia (Fear of kissing)
Entomophobia, Insectophobia (Fear of bugs)

No judgment! Just curious if people here have any phobias they struggle with.
 
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mattoman

mattoman

Member
Nov 26, 2024
96
Fear of spiders, can't remember what the phobia term for it is. Arachnophobia or something? Well, I'm too afraid to google because fuck those 8-legged shits. Don't want to see those on my laptop screen.

Out of curiosity, how does philemaphobia work? Do you get like anxious when thinking of the idea of kissing someone or is it during the act?
 
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Alo97

Alo97

Member
Oct 25, 2024
30
ants, spiders and most of this weird creatures and ofc peoples :)
 
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LilyLaroux2000

LilyLaroux2000

fairy
May 5, 2024
63
I have socialphobia (fear of humans) qwq
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
48,191
What I fear is existence, I see existence as an abomination that just causes endless amounts of suffering and harm, it terrifies me how a human can exist for so long in this reality where there is no limit as to how much agony one can feel just to be tortured by old age, existing can easily get way more unbearable at any moment which is just so terrifying to me.

And this is certainly a reason as to why I only hope for non-existence as only in non-existence will I be safe from all cruelty and suffering with all finally forgotten about for me, death is the only peace for me, I have no interest in suffering in this horrific world anyway and see existing as deeply undesirable. To me existing truly is just pointless, unnecessary suffering, human existence will always feel like a terrible mistake to me, I personally see it as so terrible to be conscious in this existence capable of suffering to unlimited amounts, I suffer so much from being enslaved in this existence without the option to just painlessly free myself from it in peace.
 
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passedawayinapril

passedawayinapril

Burial
Nov 25, 2024
271
Anyone here have any phobias? I have a few that feel childish or just dumb at times, so I'll start!

Acrophobia (Fear of heights)
Nyctophobia (Fear of darkness) (I've gotten better at trying to overcome it though!)
Philemaphobia (Fear of kissing)
Entomophobia, Insectophobia (Fear of bugs)

No judgment! Just curious if people here have any phobias they struggle with.
Yes, scopophobia
I also have Entomophobia, I detest insects
 
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cloudyskye

Student
Nov 11, 2024
161
Fear of spiders, can't remember what the phobia term for it is. Arachnophobia or something? Well, I'm too afraid to google because fuck those 8-legged shits. Don't want to see those on my laptop screen.

Out of curiosity, how does philemaphobia work? Do you get like anxious when thinking of the idea of kissing someone or is it during the act?
Me too severe arachnaphobia
 
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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
15,360
Pyrophobia (fear of fire.) I don't know whether it is as bad as a phobia but, it's pretty severe.

There's also one person from my childhood (who caused me to become suicidal in the first place) who I feel a deep level of fear about. I don't expect there's a name for that though. I reckon the prospect of seeing them again might be enough to push me through the SI barrier to CTB. Maybe I'll end up being grateful for that.

I believe them to be a narcissist so, I'm very paranoid of others who may be also- in case they end up acting the same way I suppose. (I expect we all have narcissistic traits of course.)

Phobias can be so weird though- right? Someone on one of my college courses had something like trypophobia- a disgust or phobia of repetitive patterns or clusters of things. They said it started seeing frogspawn I think. Someone else I knew had a phobia of blades of grass. Even that is recognised as: agrostrophobia. I guess it makes sense if we have particularly bad associations with a certain thing.
 
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CatLvr

Enlightened
Aug 1, 2024
1,698
Claustrophobia --just the thought of being stuck in a tight space leaves me hyperventilating. It's quite the adventure when I have to have a MRI.
 
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ben_

ben_

I'm Ben.
Oct 31, 2023
82
- Herpetophobia (snakes, toads, ...)
- Fear of intimacy
- Social anxiety

I used to have fear of paying with card (in public, not online) and that's gone. Also solomangarephobia (fear of eating out alone) is mostly gone.
 
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Warlord's Pulse

Warlord's Pulse

Time to end this endless war
May 27, 2024
248
I have my fair share of fears (as anyone), but I don't think theyre intense enough as a phobia
Either way, I have fear of driving and fear of swimming as the most intense ones
 
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savory

Student
Nov 25, 2024
120
social phobia / agoraphobia that waxes and wanes
 
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Opera

Opera

Member
Nov 16, 2024
93
Fear of spiders, can't remember what the phobia term for it is. Arachnophobia or something? Well, I'm too afraid to google because fuck those 8-legged shits. Don't want to see those on my laptop screen.

Out of curiosity, how does philemaphobia work? Do you get like anxious when thinking of the idea of kissing someone or is it during the act?
I've been working on not getting too triggered on it, but I get extremely uncomfortable when they do it in movies, irl, or even mentions in books (if it gets too descriptive). It started as a kid with general discomfort, and now I feel extremely scared when it happens. It's a phobia I feel ashamed of because of how rare it is and... kissing is everywhere.
 
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TheHolySword

TheHolySword

empty heart
Nov 22, 2024
1,266
Fear of heights
Fear of open water
Fear of being on boats
 
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MelancholyMagic

MelancholyMagic

For my next trick, I will disappear
Dec 12, 2021
235
I really don't like driving. I can't think of it for more than a few seconds before my thoughts transfer to thinking about CTB to avoid it. I also am absolutely terrified of big cities. So, it is a really difficult spot to be in, and is significantly debilitating. (It substantially limits where I can work, makes grocery shopping a once-a-week-or-so nightmare of carrying 20 pounds over a few miles, etc.).
 
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WhiteRabbit

WhiteRabbit

I'm late, i'm late. For a very important date.
Feb 12, 2019
1,796
claustrophobia - not a fan of tight spaces, but I can deal with them when I need to.
Submechanophobia - pictures of things like shipwrecks and underwater airplane wrecks gives me the creeps. I didn't know other people felt this way until a few years ago.
acrophobia - like tight spaces, I can deal with heights when I need to.
 
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Arachno

Arachno

oh no :(
Apr 10, 2023
267
I have a phobia of dogs, I've already wrote about this somwhere else, I had a lot of bad expeirences with them :(
 
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SMmetalhead36

Ready to have my forever date with suicide
Oct 6, 2023
339
Fear of frogs and bets.
 
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GlassMoon

GlassMoon

😶‍🌫️
Nov 18, 2024
389
Also afraid of swimming in lakes with murky water. I used to be able to do it, but I guess something overwhelmed me during that vacation, and now I'm stuck with this fear.
I'm afraid that I might breaking things.
 
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Custos

Custos

Martyr
May 27, 2024
410
I feel that some people don't understand the difference between phobias and extreme dislikes.
 
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dumbnhappy

dumbnhappy

just say it ditto
May 22, 2024
65
centipedes... cant even move when I see those. Ik they are necessary but ugh they are so creepy
 
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GlassMoon

GlassMoon

😶‍🌫️
Nov 18, 2024
389
To be honest, I am also afraid that I share too much information here and somebody, especially my therapist, will find me here. Maybe that's paranoia already, but I did not list some specific fears because of it...
 
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Ligottian

Enlightened
Dec 19, 2021
1,279
Fear of losing my wallet and/or keys! I constantly check my pockets when in public. Fear of any kind of car trouble, especially flat tires. My list of "simple" phobias is longer, but will stop now for the sake of brevity.
 
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human909

human909

Banned
Dec 30, 2024
590
I have fear of spiders and i have a fear of rejection.
 
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