soft-flower345
🌸I'm ashamed of who I've become🌸
- May 15, 2023
- 93
When it comes to romantic love, I've always been the type to fall hard and fast. I know what I want in a lover, and when I meet someone who I can really deeply connect with and understand/be understood by, I fall in love.
But anyone I've ever revealed this to has run away from me. What is wrong with me? It seems like everyone else takes their time to ensure they are falling in love, are they scared? Are they unsure of their feelings? Is it an unspoken game you're supposed to play with each other, concealing your true feelings to create a rush from uncertainty to be romantic? I don't understand. If I feel confident I understand most of the fundamental nature, behavioral patterns, preferences, quirks, and negative aspects of a person, and I choose to accept them and what I'll have to do to accomadate for their individuality, I want to throw myself in head first. I'm opening myself up to heartbreak but I don't care, I want to dive into us with no remorse or trepidation. I want to let those feelings wash over me entirely, allowing that person a permentent place in the space of my mind. But if I actually communicate this, the intensity and depth of my feelings(not just romantic but in general) they run away. Am I too emotional? Am I supposed to be scared to love? Scared to get hurt? Does this mean I'm definitionaly desperate? I don't understand why my experience is so different from others. What do you think?
This has become such a problem with dating for me that I'm more scared of the person I'm interested in finding out that I love them than I am anything else because I know that the moment they discover I love them, how much I love or am starting to love them, they leave. Is my love that disgusting? Are my feelings fundamentally wrong?
But anyone I've ever revealed this to has run away from me. What is wrong with me? It seems like everyone else takes their time to ensure they are falling in love, are they scared? Are they unsure of their feelings? Is it an unspoken game you're supposed to play with each other, concealing your true feelings to create a rush from uncertainty to be romantic? I don't understand. If I feel confident I understand most of the fundamental nature, behavioral patterns, preferences, quirks, and negative aspects of a person, and I choose to accept them and what I'll have to do to accomadate for their individuality, I want to throw myself in head first. I'm opening myself up to heartbreak but I don't care, I want to dive into us with no remorse or trepidation. I want to let those feelings wash over me entirely, allowing that person a permentent place in the space of my mind. But if I actually communicate this, the intensity and depth of my feelings(not just romantic but in general) they run away. Am I too emotional? Am I supposed to be scared to love? Scared to get hurt? Does this mean I'm definitionaly desperate? I don't understand why my experience is so different from others. What do you think?
This has become such a problem with dating for me that I'm more scared of the person I'm interested in finding out that I love them than I am anything else because I know that the moment they discover I love them, how much I love or am starting to love them, they leave. Is my love that disgusting? Are my feelings fundamentally wrong?
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