i have an update, i think my "miracle" happened, i dont know what to do im shaking and crying, the person who made me happy and want to live messaged me saying they want to try again but in a years time because she wants to be together but later, it looks like ill be sticking around with you guys for a while incase things dont work in a year, i opened the seal on my powdered N i hope its ok.. man i deleted everything from my phone already, 8000 photos, all of my apps, all of my passwords except ones i wanted to keep for family, im in shock i called it a mircale because thats what i thought it was, an impossible outcome, but iv been given another chance, itll be really hard because my mental health is obviously awful and to be alone hurts me, but i have to give it my best shot, id like to thank everybody for their kind messages to me, id also like to apologise that i cant contribute to the N method at this time (ik its dumb to think that but im not helpful any other way) (': wish me luck