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BodyOfDaffodil

BodyOfDaffodil

Member
Jun 14, 2023
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It's too late. He got what he wanted from me tonight. I told him no, several times. He pinned me down, and took what he wanted. No protection, no reassurance. Just him.

I wonder if it's my fault.
 
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_Broken_alice

_Broken_alice

She/Her
Nov 19, 2023
226
It is not your fault. So worry he did that to you. Can you safely get away from him so he doesn't have another opportunity to hurt you like that?
 
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The Schizoid

The Schizoid

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Oct 24, 2023
306
Report him to the police immediately.
 
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rozeske

Maybe I am the problem
Dec 2, 2023
4,225
Am so sorry this happened to you. This hellish world is full of monstrous sickos. Know that this is never your fault. In any way you slice it and whatever the case know that it's NEVER your fault and NO ONE deserves this. Report him ASAP. Better before the evidence is destroyed, but report him nonetheless. Am so sorry 🫂
 
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Deleted member 65988

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Jeez that sounds awful, report him.
Also it's easier to select a thread with a title and perhaps this is better labelled as NSFW and not venting due to the sensitive nature of it.
Agreed. Right now is the time to go to the Police Op, he cannot get away with this @BodyOfDaffodil.
 
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FundamentalAspect

Member
Apr 8, 2023
67
This is horrible, I am so sorry this was done to you; you absolutely DID NOT deserve this and it is absolutely NOT your fault!

I have been where you are - trying to navigate in the aftermath of that kind of violent act - it is excruciating and terrifying, and extremely lonely. Please, please report this as soon as possible so that the evidence isn't lost and there is a better chance of this guy being arrested. I couldn't, and it has only made the years since so much harder.

You are not bad, dirty, wrong, or tainted because of this. It is not your fault
 
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The Schizoid

The Schizoid

Specialist
Oct 24, 2023
306
1) It is NOT your fault
2) REPORT HIM. HE WILL HAVE OTHER VICTIMS
3) IF YOU DON'T REPORT HIM, OTHER WOMEN WILL SUFFER.
 
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lostmind38

Member
Mar 1, 2024
46
I am so, so sorry! It's absolutely NOT your fault! You did NOTHING wrong! Don't be afraid to report him. He did it this time, he has probably done it before and will do it again if not to you, to someone else.
I have been where you are and at the time, I couldn't find the courage to report it, thought no one will believe me. I will always regret this decision as he went on to live his life while I am broken.
Please, go to the Police!
 
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