Venting Your 20s

[fox_wannabe]

Chronological age is just a meme, an idea like fiat money - it has some value only because most of people believe that. And if you treat this so seriously, you are unwittingly strengthening this system. What does this mean to be of some age? You might as well say that the matter that you are made of is 14 billion years old.

Yes It is a meme like most stuff but It is good measure of passed time. I don't want to get into us vs system dynamic here. I am here to relate to people

 

[PinkSakura]

You know, they say your 20s are supposed to be the "Best years of your life!"…. This is the BEST?! So according to that my life is going to get worse. I guess I'll just CTB…‍ :/

Haha I feel the same as you

 

[Alwaysbadtime]

What are you talking about.? Like I literally have no idea.

Dude what is your problem? You have said this to Genes multiple times. They are saying with age comes less pent up testosterone. It's not for them to explain every fucking thing to you. You repeating you 'literally have no idea' makes you look like you are enjoying being a jackass to them. This is a public forum. Why do you repeatedly want to call them out on their fucking opinion?

 

[Versailles]

Who says this? Most of the statistics online state that life satisfaction increases in the second half of life View attachment 72847

Source: The Vice Ministry of Supreme Happiness

 

[draw a circle]

Nobody cares

It's,, a joke? Because nothing else in my life worked out except this body that i got when i was born and happen to look okay? I didn't control this face to be cute man

 

[motel rooms]

Dude what is your problem? You have said this to Genes multiple times. They are saying with age comes less pent up testosterone. It's not for them to explain every fucking thing to you. You repeating you 'literally have no idea' makes you look like you are enjoying being a jackass to them. This is a public forum. Why do you repeatedly want to call them out on their fucking opinion?

OP is not being a jackass at all, I'm sure they're telling the truth when they say they don't understand. Why should they understand? Not everyone is familiar with Buddhist fantasies about creating an Übermensch impervious to suffering. I'm genuinely surprised that someone saying that you can separate your pain from your suffering doesn't drive you insane with rage.

 

[A_miStake_of_NATURE]

I totally misspent my 20s…… Those years must have been the most pathetic a human can have…….. I fucked up my life and now I'm living in a small bedroom that is full of my own regrets…….

 

[ITSCHRISHERE123]

Dude what is your problem? You have said this to Genes multiple times. They are saying with age comes less pent up testosterone. It's not for them to explain every fucking thing to you. You repeating you 'literally have no idea' makes you look like you are enjoying being a jackass to them. This is a public forum. Why do you repeatedly want to call them out on their fucking opinion?

Lol, calm down

OP is not being a jackass at all, I'm sure they're telling the truth when they say they don't understand. Why should they understand? Not everyone is familiar with Buddhist fantasies about creating an Übermensch impervious to suffering. I'm genuinely surprised that someone saying that you can separate your pain from your suffering doesn't drive you insane with rage.

Lol, exactly like I don't know why they getting mad

It's,, a joke? Because nothing else in my life worked out except this body that i got when i was born and happen to look okay? I didn't control this face to be cute man

What? Lol

 

[My_name_is_Luka]

they were the worst years (if I don't consider health related problems that I got later).
Once I started university, my emotional decline started. I was not doing much more apart from studying. Being a commuter (3 hours a day), I had poor connections with my classmates and professors. The lack of any empathetic bond and the hard requests of good performance from my parents had a bad impact on my emotional stability.
I had no guidance at all from them, and poor talk.
At the same time I started having affection needs, I started dating and the refusals / offenses that I received made me even more fragile. I started being suicidal because of this (constant pressures for academic success and high dissatisfaction with my expectations on my private life).
I also did the coming-out as gay with my parents and this caused our relation to become more difficult. They never spoke about it with me, after I told them.

It's true anyway that as you get older, the sexual needs decrease (unless you have developed a dependency) and so you become less vulnerable to the negative outcomes of dating.

 

[motel rooms]

It's true anyway that as you get older, the sexual needs decrease (unless you have developed a dependency) and so you become less vulnerable to the negative outcomes of dating.

Oh yeah? Well, you're just making sense & I hate you

Oh, it's the animal in me, but I'd rather be a beggar than on the shelf.
-- D. Bowie

 

[My_name_is_Luka]

Oh yeah? Well, you're just making sense & I hate you

Oh, it's the animal in me, but I'd rather be a beggar than on the shelf.
-- D. Bowie

why? :)
I'm totally happy with it.
Anyway, I think that it all depends on how you have lived your sexuality. Since it releases dopamine in your brain, it creates dependency (your brain demands for more). So if you refrain from doing it as you get older, you will not feel it as something necessary.
On the opposite, the ones that practice it, keep feeling the need.

 

[motel rooms]

Anyway, I think that it all depends on how you have lived your sexuality. Since it releases dopamine in your brain, it creates dependency (your brain demands for more). So if you refrain from doing it as you get older, you will not feel it as something necessary.
On the opposite, the ones that practice it, keep feeling the need.

I'm no longer interested in damage control, much less fantasizing about recovery. Even if you manage to eliminate one need/addiction, you just find yourself forced to replace it with another. My head has always been & always will be on fire, I may as well squeeze as much pleasure as I can out of my penis & other guys before I kill myself.

 

[hʚll]

everyday is miserable. i don't remember ever wanting not to die or not hating life. but i can say i'd never want to switch place with a normie who thinks their life is gift or worth living.