Help Would you guys tell anyone you're suicidal and you plan to CTB?

[Old Friend]

I told my girlfriend a couple of hours ago. She cried. Then we watched The Dictator.

 

[hermestrimegistus]

Dont tell anyone. If you truly plan to CTB and if you genuinely love these people you don't want to have them carry the weight of your decision. If you give them a heads up they might think there was something they couldve done to prevent it. If you dont want to be alive anymore the last thing you should want to do is put this on the shoulders of the people youre leaving behind. Especially if you care about them. I know you might want to warn them but all theyre going to do is try to stop you. So unless this is just a grand gesture I would advise against it

 

[Rouge4000]

I was planning on telling my ex and seeing how that would go. I mean I'm not telling her to try and convince her to do anything I just kinda wanna see what happens as a lil experiment of mine. Don't worry I have made up my mind and plan on doing it soon

 

[Old Friend]

A "grand gesture". ffs

 

[girlsboysthems]

i told a little to my friend and it was okay. no big deal. will not tell her the whole plan tho.

 

[Praestat_Mori]

Outside of the SS community I wouldn't tell anyone about being suicidal or about my plans. However very very few people irl know I'm suicidal but they don'rt take me serious most of the time anyway.

 

[Is0lated]

I don't know if I want to tell my friends I'm planning to do it soon. I generally try to not care about others feelings when it comes to my very own inner peace, even if that's selfish, but I still think goodbyes would make me too emotional and hold me back. At the same time I don't want to go with no warning, no unusually kind subtle gestures or anything that could lead to my death being misunderstood as not-intentional. I currently haven't told anyone, yet I'm so tempted to warn my best friend I won't be around for much longer. I don't know what to do. I don't really want to distance myself from others especially in my last months.

It'll just get things complicated so for me I'd rather keep it a silly little secret and pretend like I'm not planning anything