Would you crossdress out in public/school/work?

  • Yes, I would

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  • No, I wouldn't.

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nigelhernandez

nigelhernandez

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He's an American man living in Germany who decided to take up crossdressing as he wanted both a masculine/feminine look. Would you be brave and do what he's doing?
 
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Well as a woman, I'm speechless, dunno what to think of this. Certainly the world is becoming crazier by the day. Being gay and all the rest is fine, but a so called heterosexual man wearing heels. No comments....
 
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Deleted member 19654

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It's not hurting anyone so I don't have an issue with someone wanting to cross dress out in public but they are certainly brave to do so though.
 
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Good4Nothing

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No, but my friends and I used to have cross-dressing parties.
I miss being young and having friends.
 
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nigelhernandez

nigelhernandez

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Well as a woman, I'm speechless, dunno what to think of this. Certainly the world is becoming crazier by the day. Being gay and all the rest is fine, but a so called heterosexual man wearing heels. No comments....

Don't be afraid of commenting what you really think. Do you think it's ridiculous? Are you for it, against it, or neutral?
 
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Lupgevif

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I wouldn't do it, but I absolutely support who does.
 
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Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

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I'd only do it as a joke like my friends who did so last time we all went to an anime convention. I would have joined them but I had other business to do and even if I wanted to, finding women's clothing that fits me would be difficult since I'm both tall and overweight. I wouldn't want to have to buy anything expensive that I'd wear just for a gag.
 
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TessB

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He's an American man living in Germany who decided to take up crossdressing as he wanted both a masculine/feminine look. Would you be brave and do what he's doing?
I think he looks amazing. He's not conforming to society's ideals of how men should dress but why shouldn't they dress like this really? He looks better than I would in those outfits!
 
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sufferingalways

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Apr 26, 2020
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The outfit with skirt and heels .. really suits him. I can't see the small one on my phone but the larger photos .. wow. Brave for sure but as someone else said he's not hurting anyone so why shouldn't he. Wow.
 
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Soul

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Apr 12, 2019
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There's an American teaching at my university who cross dresses. In this queerphobic society he's extremely brave to do it. I have no idea what his reasons are, but anyone in high heels on cobblestone streets is courageous indeed, whether they have a full beard or not.

Mick Jagger says crossdressing is "just something English guys do". You have guests for the weekend and nothing to do, just crossdress and go down do the pub for laughs.

I'm all for it!
 
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Ghost2211

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Jan 20, 2020
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I live somewhere liberal. Nobody would care at all, and might even be like "right on man!". To me, I don't know why anyone would choose bras and heels. I get it in respect to the look, but even as a woman I won't ever wear heels.
 
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Bootleg Astolfo

Bootleg Astolfo

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Other than for Astolfo purposes at conventions no lol
 
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Mm80

Mm80

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May 15, 2019
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Id do it but still wear boxer shorts under the skirt. Not sure why though
 
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Soul

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Hm: Do people assume this man is gay and/or on his way to being transgender?

What's brave about the teacher at my uni who wears dresses and high heels on a daily basis is that he's challenging stereotypes and risking getting the shit beaten out of him by jackasses, also on a daily basis.
 
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greebo6

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Yes ,I'd do it if I felt confident enough or brave enough .

I'd do it anyway if it was for charity / a charity event.
 
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NeverGoodEnuff

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I'm not a man. Born a female and identify as one. But

Women wear pants, which have traditionally been menswear. Nobody thinks anything of it now.

I wear men's pants all the time. They fit me better, they're better quality, cheaper, and they have real pockets so I don't have to carry a purse which leaves me both hands free. I wear baseball caps. I wear men's shirts. Boyfriend shirt? No BF but like the shirts. Nobody even notices.

I see no difference here. But ditto RoseyBird. -- you can keep the heels, fellas. And the bras.

As for bras on women, I bet if men had to wrap their privates in tight elastic and wires that made it hard to breathe, so those parts would look young and...perky...bras would go away! Same thing for mammograms. Here, sir, just place your testicles between these two cold plates, while we smash them flat. Yeah, right.

So all you guys who like to wear women's clothes, I say go for it! Oh! And too bad you can't experience menstrual cramps and child birth, too! Take it away, gents! I have no problem with it, lol! If I can wear your pants, you can have my skirts and heels. What size?

Oh! Hey! Wanna trade pay checks, too??
 
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Symbiote

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Did anyone else think that was Patrick Stewart (Capt. Picard), in those pictures? No I wouldn't cross-dress in public unless I'm ready to be tortured and lynched by a bunch of rednecks.
 
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Panna

Panna

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Aug 31, 2020
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No way, that would be spitting in the face of my parents. I've always been old fashioned in that respect, keep the old and get rid of the new. To add, I believe that we are born into these and to go against that norm is pure degeneracy. It's ironic though considering that it's this idea that makes me want to die.
 
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Fragile

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Jul 7, 2019
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I did it a couple of times as a joke during Halloween, one time with makeup and a dress because I used to study fashion design with a lot of women, and they were quite knowledgeable about makeup and hairdressing... the joke was on me that day. Definitely not something that I would do in any serious way, much less on a regular basis. what I'm about to say may be controversial, but I don't see beauty in a man wearing a dress, it just looks odd. Of course, I have nothing against the people who do these kind of things.

Also, I don't think that this is brave, or at least not as much as they think this is. This is not a grand statement on gender or muh patriarchy, it is just a different fashion choice.
 
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StringPuppet

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Oct 5, 2020
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I like boy clothes so I wouldn't do it personally but clothes are just pieces of fabric so there's really nothing wrong with crossdressing.
 
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nigelhernandez

nigelhernandez

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Apr 14, 2020
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I live somewhere liberal. Nobody would care at all, and might even be like "right on man!". To me, I don't know why anyone would choose bras and heels. I get it in respect to the look, but even as a woman I won't ever wear heels.
I did it a couple of times as a joke during Halloween, one time with makeup and a dress because I used to study fashion design with a lot of women, and they were quite knowledgeable about makeup and hairdressing... the joke was on me that day. Definitely not something that I would do in any serious way, much less on a regular basis. what I'm about to say may be controversial, but I don't see beauty in a man wearing a dress, it just looks odd. Of course, I have nothing against the people who do these kind of things.

Also, I don't think that this is brave, or at least not as much as they think this is. This is not a grand statement on gender or muh patriarchy, it is just a different fashion choice.

What do you mean that it looks odd?
 
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greebo6

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Sep 11, 2020
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I'm not a man. Born a female and identify as one. But

Women wear pants, which have traditionally been menswear. Nobody thinks anything of it now.

I wear men's pants all the time. They fit me better, they're better quality, cheaper, and they have real pockets so I don't have to carry a purse which leaves me both hands free. I wear baseball caps. I wear men's shirts. Boyfriend shirt? No BF but like the shirts. Nobody even notices.

I see no difference here. But ditto RoseyBird. -- you can keep the heels, fellas. And the bras.

As for bras on women, I bet if men had to wrap their privates in tight elastic and wires that made it hard to breathe, so those parts would look young and...perky...bras would go away! Same thing for mammograms. Here, sir, just place your testicles between these two cold plates, while we smash them flat. Yeah, right.

So all you guys who like to wear women's clothes, I say go for it! Oh! And too bad you can't experience menstrual cramps and child birth, too! Take it away, gents! I have no problem with it, lol! If I can wear your pants, you can have my skirts and heels. What size?

Oh! Hey! Wanna trade pay checks, too??
Often heard women say that we should have to fully dress as a woman for a day ,including the uncomfortable bra and heels , to know what they have to go through.
It'll probably happen one day.... !
 
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