Will you say goodbye?

[spectraltease]

Do you will say goodbye in any form? (Letter, video, social media posts etc..)

My thoughts
I thought a lot about leaving a letter to my family/ppl I liked, I don't think so. I don't really know what to say, but even if I said anything, words could never explain my feelings and I don't think it alleviates anything.
I also thought about making a video about my life and why Im will do this and upload it to YouTube, but that wouldn't interest anyone, so I will leave without a goodbye.

 

[MissLisa]

I have thought about his lots. I don't want to go into details about my life but I have people that will be effected by my death and I don't know if they would want an explanation or not. I don't know if they will want the pain of reading how much I loved them. It is really tricky to know. I think mostly though here in the UK that if you don't leave a note detailing your wish to die then they say it was accidental death rather than suicide, especially if been drinking or taking drugs.

 

[StolenLife]

Not in real life because no one that's responsible will care and people closest to me already know my reasons. I might open a goodbye thread on SS but that's about it.

 

[Huntfish34]

I've thought about writing a note / letter but I'm not really sure honestly. I guess it all ultimately depends on the situation at the given time.

 

[spectraltease]

I have thought about his lots. I don't want to go into details about my life but I have people that will be effected by my death and I don't know if they would want an explanation or not. I don't know if they will want the pain of reading how much I loved them. It is really tricky to know. I think mostly though here in the UK that if you don't leave a note detailing your wish to die then they say it was accidental death rather than suicide, especially if been drinking or taking drugs.

I understand, I think you have to decide. If you don't want leave a letter, you could just write one for the police, that this was a intensional suicide or something.

 

[makethepainstop]

Do you will say goodbye in any form? (Letter, video, social media posts etc..)

My thoughts
I thought a lot about leaving a letter to my family/ppl I liked, I don't think so. I don't really know what to say, but even if I said anything, words could never explain my feelings and I don't think it alleviates anything.
I also thought about making a video about my life and why Im will do this and upload it to YouTube, but that wouldn't interest anyone, so I will leave without a goodbye.

Hey bro before you go why not talk with some of us here? Id love to listen if your interested.

 

[spectraltease]

Not in real life because no one that's responsible will care and people closest to me already know my reasons. I might open a goodbye thread on SS but that's about it.

Yes, same.

 

[Forever Sleep]

Yes, I would definitely want to leave letters (although I've now heard they don't always get passed on). I know words aren't really enough but I feel like they're better than nothing. I would want people to know that they were in my thoughts and that there's nothing they could have done to prevent me doing it. Some of my family members left me letters (after natural deaths) and they were a great comfort to me.

Kind of defeats the object if they are confiscated as 'evidence' though- so now considering delayed emails if I ever summon the guts to do it.

 

[FuneralCry]

I think that I would personally see it as being a good idea to leave a note to give those left behind some form of explanation and understanding, even if they are never able to fully understand no matter what is written, I would still see it as being better than leaving nothing for those left behind.

 

[onetapgandhi]

At one point, yes. When I was tired with life, I wrote goodbyes to a lot of people. I didn't go through with it then. Now, no. Now, I m pissed at life. angry and bitter. No one wants to read a goodbye that is just fuck you to like 15 people

 

[notmuchtimeleft27]

I've got a few notes in my pocket. Some genuine messages filled with thank yous, love yous and fuck yous, depending on who I'm talking to. Sometimes multiple. I know it won't really change what people feel, but they might find something out of it when I'm gone. Use is it as a reason to move on with their own lives.

 

[Hope:-)]

I am leaving a note. I wasn't going to before, but I've decided I will.

 

[spectraltease]

At one point, yes. When I was tired with life, I wrote goodbyes to a lot of people. I didn't go through with it then. Now, no. Now, I m pissed at life. angry and bitter. No one wants to read a goodbye that is just fuck you to like 15 people

Same. I just hate life and the most of the ppl. My suicide will be my last "fuck you"

 

[Winterreise]

No, words has always been my problem.

I never said the right things in my life.
I dont think i write anything

 

[Елена]

No...

 

[ForeverLonely82]

No. CTB or not. Got to have people who give a shit about you first. I don't have that. So there really is no reason.

 

[akirat9]

no is noone to say goodbye to.