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Xaxysh

Xaxysh

Member
Oct 28, 2020
99
I feel like i will be unless i find an island all for myself, i always wanted to live on a warm island.
i feel like only in a place like that i would be at peace
 
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Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
Feb 10, 2020
21,373
Maybe there are some cute girls HERE that want a guy who understands their stuff
?? Ladies??
Few months ago I was contacted by this girl on reddit and she was nice to me. We have some things in common which she liked. She was indirectly suggesting a relationship with me. It was like the "1 in 14,000,005" chance but it was ruined probably by my continuous suicidal and self loathing posts. I sometimes ask what if I didn't say those things? Would she visit me in my country like she suggested if we become close? Life is very bad for some of us.
The girl I was referring to was actually from here. She was only a member for about a week or two before she self banned but she opened my heart only for me to muck it up for myself as usual. I wish I hadn't told her I'm INFP because apparently that was enough to inform of the very true possibility that I would get too attached. My own personality is disqualifying me from love by making it so that love is the only motivation that will sway me in any possible way.

Needless to say, I'm far more wary now about any girls even on SS. Being more receptive to the same ideals seems like a promising trait but it becomes a drawback when I realize that anyone smart enough to be on SS wouldn't be stupid enough to want to get involved with me anyway especially knowing I will always have this other girl to compare them to. She really made it impossible for me to fully move on by being so close to perfect.
 
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Deleted member 8579

Enlightened
Apr 28, 2021
1,323
Once you realize that suicide is an option there is no turning back.
It's akin to discovering you've been taking a placebo:
A placebo only has a chance of working if you're unaware of its ineffectiveness; once you become aware of it being a placebo, it's useless.
This is why ordinary people don't like to be reminded of the possibility of suicide.
 
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puppet_nihilist

puppet_nihilist

cogito, ergo sum
Jan 8, 2021
227
I have no idea, because neither have I ever been 'happy' nor have I ever accomplished anything I had wanted to.
This is so relatable. Would be cool to test myself out and see if I would still be suicidal if my life went financially smooth or had been allowed to pick a major that I'd enjoy. The fact that isn't even an option at this point makes me even more miserable. Guess some of us will never know. I feel bad for whoever has a stable life and is still suicidal and I feel equally bad for those who will never know whether they're suicidal merely because of their shitty circumstances or that they'll always be that way no matter what their status in life was.
 
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death137

miserable
Jun 25, 2020
1,166
The girl I was referring to was actually from here. She was only a member for about a week or two before she self banned but she opened my heart only for me to muck it up for myself as usual. I wish I hadn't told her I'm INFP because apparently that was enough to inform of the very true possibility that I would get too attached. My own personality is disqualifying me from love by making it so that love is the only motivation that will sway me in any possible way.

Needless to say, I'm far more wary now about any girls even on SS. Being more receptive to the same ideals seems like a promising trait but it becomes a drawback when I realize that anyone smart enough to be on SS and wouldn't be stupid enough to want to get involved with me anyway especially knowing I will always have this other girl to compare them to. She really made it impossible for me to fully move on by being so close to perfect.
That's sad. I'm familiar with your story because I remember reading about it in another thread. Some of us will die without experiencing romantic love. There is nothing we can do about it :(
 
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Symbiote

Global Mod
Oct 12, 2020
3,099
Had it for so long it's a part of me now and I feel if I ever get better, the urge to suicide will only grow stronger or the expectations to suicide will be stronger. I've also used suicide as an ultimatum to self-motivate myself into doing things. It has worked so far and I have had a few close calls. I've set up two goals this year as ultimatums,
 
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Beachedwhale

Mage
Mar 3, 2021
526
Had it for so long it's a part of me now and I feel if I ever get better, the urge to suicide will only grow stronger or the expectations to suicide will be stronger. I've also used suicide as an ultimatum to self-motivate myself into doing things. It has worked so far and I have had a few close calls. I've set up two goals this year as ultimatums,
Could you explain how you used suicide to motivate yourself? For me I think it sucks my motivation out
 
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Symbiote

Global Mod
Oct 12, 2020
3,099
Could you explain how you used suicide to motivate yourself? For me I think it sucks my motivation out
Suicide for me is the failure of life, so since I hate failure or have a fear of failure, I use the one thing that could make me try harder or I just die. Kinda like having someone put a gun to my head at all time and if I fuck up, I die.
 
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Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
Feb 10, 2020
21,373
That's sad. I'm familiar with your story because I remember reading about it in another thread. Some of us will die without experiencing romantic love. There is nothing we can do about it :(
You're right. It certainly hurts to know that but at least I can die knowing the inevitability of it all instead of trying to fight fate for a miserable few decades.
 
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Busticket

Busticket

Student
May 18, 2021
185
No.
If I had enough money to never work again another second in my life I would not want to ctb.
 
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jusbug

Member
Apr 19, 2019
63
no i'm not sick and i'm not depressed, i just want my fu,,,,ing life back
 
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Empty gas can

Member
May 3, 2021
34
This can-do attitude is gonna get you in a lot of trouble on here :))
I did expect that kind of reaction. Personnally, it's what has been most effective at keeping suicidal ideation at bay. Not judging the reasons of anybody, though. Deciding when it's enough is a personal choice.
 
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Symbiote

Global Mod
Oct 12, 2020
3,099
I did expect that kind of reaction. Personnally, it's what has been most effective at keeping suicidal ideation at bay. Not judging the reasons of anybody, though. Deciding when it's enough is a personal choice.

Nah, you won't get any trouble. A lot of us are aware of solutions to fix our issues, but we either lack the energy or do not have any hope of getting better.

A: If I go to CBT or EMDR therapy, I can live a better life
OR
B: I'm unmotivated to get help because I know I'll fuck it up later in life and plus I don't want to spend money on something that may work 10% of the time.

I don't want help, they never work for me and I'm just vegetating through time and space until I say "I'm done"
 
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Empty gas can

Member
May 3, 2021
34
B: I'm unmotivated to get help because I know I'll fuck it up later in life and plus I don't want to spend money on something that may work 10% of the time.
Oh yeah, totally. That's the breaking point I was referring to. When 90% of your life has been shit, you just lose all interest and the motivation to get better, you're broken and it's practically over.

I did CBT and talk therapy for a decade. It did help a lot but it was quite a ride and finding a good therapist is hard man. Can't say I enjoyed life during that time. Recently, I've reached a culminating point where I just couldn't progress anymore, with each new therapist just rambling over the same subjects and not helping at all, I just lost trust in the process.
 
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NormaJeane

NormaJeane

Member
Mar 24, 2021
648
No, I will not always be suicidal no matter what because I am not suicidal because of mental problems. Young people who are suicidal because of mental problems will be more suicidal when they get old because when people get old, they will also have age-related ailments and diseases - the hole human body will decay. It is best to enjoy time in life when you are young.
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
42,394
I think so. These types of thoughts are wired into my brain. I've been like this since a young age as I was born with neurological issues which made it hard for me to cope with life. I don't have the mental capacity to deal with life's problems, if anything bad has ever happened to me, I have fell into despair.

I just don't like living and life isn't for me and I've accepted that fact. Even if I got rid of my health problems I would find life boring and pointless. I have a fear of ageing too. The idea of not being alive comforts me. I don't understand why we have to exist in the first place as we just die anyway.
 
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heretogethelp

Specialist
May 3, 2021
311
i can't hang myself so i'm stuck here... i don't have any other options :(
 
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Numbtopain97

Numbtopain97

deader than dead
Aug 10, 2019
443
as long as i'm in this planet i'll be suicidal.
 
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Rustysoupcan

Rustysoupcan

I'm sensitive
May 2, 2020
242
I think so. Even when my life is going well, I still think of suicide.
 
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Largeletters

Largeletters

Alone
Jan 21, 2020
640
Yes, unless there's a life redo button, or rather, undo button...
 
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xkonstantinexx

xkonstantinexx

Member
Jun 11, 2021
78
Nah, you won't get any trouble. A lot of us are aware of solutions to fix our issues, but we either lack the energy or do not have any hope of getting better.

A: If I go to CBT or EMDR therapy, I can live a better life
OR
B: I'm unmotivated to get help because I know I'll fuck it up later in life and plus I don't want to spend money on something that may work 10% of the time.

I don't want help, they never work for me and I'm just vegetating through time and space until I say "I'm done"
I agree with you. I'm actually aware of the solutions that I need to fix my problems but I've just given up completely. In fact, I even doubt that these are holistic and long term solutions. So there's always a chance that things might go back to the way they were.

I want to CTB because I'm tired of putting up a front, I'm tired of fighting, I'm tired of facing this cruel mundane life.
 
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filthyrottendirty

Experienced
Feb 20, 2021
222
Yes I will. I will always have my memories, my life and my disability I will always want out of this life even when it's good
 
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Cronetappingout

Member
Feb 13, 2020
55
Yes. It is always the 1st thought when things are stressful.
 

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