Venting why the hell do therapists say things like this??

[CuriousAboutThis]

Personally, I don't like therapists waste of insurance money I rather come here, sure, my mother wants me to go to one and knowing her she will say that "it helps" and what not but I don't like them I rather come here I believe this is more of a therapist than anywhere else because I don't like giving them a paycheck while they give me words of encouragement or whatever bullshit they give me how does therapy even help with this suicidal people like us?

 

[Jodes]

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She went on to say that she has read lots of accounts of NDEs and as a person is drifting off towards death they always encounter a heavenly angel, full o light, ready to take them into their arms. "BUT" she said, and she gave me a very grave look, "the accounts of NDEs of people who attempted suicide are terribly frightening. They don't encounter an angel, instead they get stuck in an endless limbo and the thoughts and feelings that pushed them towards suicide are repeated over and over and over again... that doesn't sound very pleasant, does it?"

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That therapist is insane beyond diagnosis

 

[CuriousAboutThis]

Honestly, don't waste money on therapist they don't care yeah sure there are some good therapist but I find them all useless you pay someone to talk to you? Really, sorry but I find the trash, not to demonize them, the way I see therapist they just want to make money off of your problems don't do that unless it truly helps I rather come here because nobody is trying to force therapy on me. "Oh sounds like an excuse not to talk to a therapist" fuck off with that crock of shit. People like that don't even know what it is like to be a suicidal person.

 

[TAW122]

Honestly, don't waste money on therapist they don't care yeah sure there are some good therapist but I find them all useless you pay someone to talk to you? Really, sorry but I find the trash, not to demonize them, the way I see therapist they just want to make money off of your problems don't do that unless it truly helps I rather come here because nobody is trying to force therapy on me. "Oh sounds like an excuse not to talk to a therapist" fuck off with that crock of shit. People like that don't even know what it is like to be a suicidal person.

Yeah, this is why I don't ever seek therapy or counseling anymore. Also, whenever people suggest it to me, I just quickly dismiss their advice as trivial and useless. If they insist, then I just simply explain that I don't have the money, time, and it hasn't been helpful.

 

[ThinkingAboutThis]

One of the worst things for a sucidal person talking to a therapist is that therapists are usually mandated reporters and will write down those suicidal thoughts and feelings and/or any possible plans. I was seeing a theapist who basically told me to call a helpline. Then, the helpline would tell me to discuss those thoughts with my therapist.

But nobody really wants the liability. A therapist doesn't want to hear about suicidal thoughts and will refer to a helpline and a helpline worker will refer back to the theapist.

I think therapy is great when the issues are not life shattering. Once they do become life shattering, it's hard to find a good therapist because of liability reasons alone.

 

[CuriousAboutThis]

One of the worst things for a sucidal person talking to a therapist is that therapists are usually mandated reporters and will write down those suicidal thoughts and feelings and/or any possible plans. I was seeing a theapist who basically told me to call a helpline. Then, the helpline would tell me to discuss those thoughts with my therapist.

But nobody really wants the liability. A therapist doesn't want to hear about suicidal thoughts and will refer to a helpline and a helpline worker will refer back to the theapist.

I think therapy is great when the issues are not life shattering. Once they do become life shattering, it's hard to find a good therapist because of liability reasons alone.

See this is one of the reasons why I like coming here because you'll be more truth about I know when people say we won't break confidentiality of you will you tell all your family and friends your coworkers and your boss and report back to the state or some else.

 

[Taylored]

They give you a choice then say lies to hope you change your mind to the choice they want.

 

[CuriousAboutThis]

They give you a choice then say lies to hope you change your mind to the choice they want.

Pretty much how I see it too but honestly I don't think I will truly able to CTB I may want to not await about wanting to die but also about not wanting to live within this life.