why should i even bother improving myself if women are going to reject me due to my penis size anyway? i should just end things there is no use trying

[HermitLonerGuy]

i was watching a podcast on Youtube with the Pornstar Nicole Aniston.
She spoke about a guy she was dating, he said he was perfect, handsome face, good job, own apartment, sweet, loving, good body.
He pushed off sex with her until she came to find out he had a micropenis just like me.
She broke it off immediately with him and said she can never date someone so small it disgusted her.

Theres also many women on Reddit and other forums says they will end things with a man right then and there if they find out a man has this problem.
I dont blame them as its so small we cant even penetrate.
Dont give me that nonsense about sex doesnt matter and relationships dont matter. im lonely and it would have been nice to have sex, love and validation.

This is a huge dealbreaker for 90% of women.
I rather be dead, whats the use of working on myself and my life. I can become perfect, rich, successful, loving etc but i will always lack the main part of a man.
Then you get bums who cheat, lie and dont even work and because their dick is big the lady stays with them.

Life is unfair i didnt ask for this , what is this life as a man. Fucking Eunuch Dickless freak, someone put me out of my misery.

 

[myownpetvirus]

i was watching a podcast on Youtube with the Pornstar Nicole Aniston.
She spoke about a guy she was dating, he said he was perfect, handsome face, good job, own apartment, sweet, loving, good body.
He pushed off sex with her until she came to find out he had a micropenis just like me.
She broke it off immediately with him and said she can never date someone so small it disgusted her.

Theres also many women on Reddit and other forums says they will end things with a man right then and there if they find out a man has this problem.
I dont blame them as its so small we cant even penetrate.
Dont give me that nonsense about sex doesnt matter and relationships dont matter. im lonely and it would have been nice to have sex, love and validation.

This is a huge dealbreaker for 90% of women.
I rather be dead, whats the use of working on myself and my life. I can become perfect, rich, successful, loving etc but i will always lack the main part of a man.
Then you get bums who cheat, lie and dont even work and because their dick is big the lady stays with them.

Life is unfair i didnt ask for this , what is this life as a man. Fucking Eunuch Dickless freak, someone put me out of my misery.

I have a really big dick so I don't understand your struggle, but most women do not really care that much about size. I mean maybe a little but it's low on their list.

 

[Zegers]

Just another problem, like some people are destined for loneliness.

 

[Seekingawayout]

I understand why you would feel this way, but honestly there are women out there who wouldn't care. There are lots of ways for women to be satisfied sexually besides P in V. 90% of women can't even orgasm that way anyway.

 

[Zegers]

most women do not really care that much about size

Wrong.

 

[Seekingawayout]

Wrong.

It's not, though. Skill matters way more.

 

[LastFlowers]

i was watching a podcast on Youtube with the Pornstar Nicole Aniston.
She spoke about a guy she was dating, he said he was perfect, handsome face, good job, own apartment, sweet, loving, good body.
He pushed off sex with her until she came to find out he had a micropenis just like me.
She broke it off immediately with him and said she can never date someone so small it disgusted her.

Theres also many women on Reddit and other forums says they will end things with a man right then and there if they find out a man has this problem.
I dont blame them as its so small we cant even penetrate.
Dont give me that nonsense about sex doesnt matter and relationships dont matter. im lonely and it would have been nice to have sex, love and validation.

This is a huge dealbreaker for 90% of women.
I rather be dead, whats the use of working on myself and my life. I can become perfect, rich, successful, loving etc but i will always lack the main part of a man.
Then you get bums who cheat, lie and dont even work and because their dick is big the lady stays with them.

Life is unfair i didnt ask for this , what is this life as a man. Fucking Eunuch Dickless freak, someone put me out of my misery.

I am very sorry you are experiencing this, I would be what many consider "asexual" as I lack an interest and also have both a cognitive and visceral aversion to ever having intercourse.
So I'm certainly not the best to empathize with this exact bodily function issue..although from an aesthetic perspective and being trapped by unfortunate immutable characteristics, I can absolutely understand your suffering.
Even with things considered unattractive "under the belt" (there are things many people make fun of about womens' private areas too..the names of which I would rather not repeat).
And I also do not deny how important this can be for some people or how cruel others can be when you're far from the ideal or even the norm.

Have you looked up the average and made sure you're actually not just that?
I mean..I'm the last person who would know.
I'm also not a man.
But I think it wise to at least be certain of these things before a moment of crisis takes over.

I've got to be honest though, I don't think a "big dick" is a priority for most women..unless it's the porn industry, for many it may even be uncomfortable or painful.
I have rarely seen someone go on about how big someone's dick is above the other traits you listed, unless it was a joke or a meme..or the person had little else going for them.

 

[Zegers]

It's not, though. Skill matters way more.

Skills for what? if you have a micropenis or small penis is a problem and it's definitely something the girls care about, as well as height.

 

[LastFlowers]

Skills for what? if you have a micropenis or small penis is a problem and it's definitely something the girls care about, as well as height.

I've observed the height preference quite a bit, it's hard to deny.
And if your body part is woefully undersized, then I can see how that would be a problem for intercourse and thus the other party may react negatively.
That is unfortunate, I'm not sure I'm aware if there's a medical procedure that could alter it safely and successfully.
Could have sworn something like that existed but just the idea of it seems like it would be very invasive and risky.

 

[Seekingawayout]

Skills for what? if you have a micropenis or small penis is a problem and it's definitely something the girls care about, as well as height.

As I said in my other post, 90% of women can't even orgasm with P in V sex. So skill would refer to clitoral manipulation skills. Fingers and tongue are usually used for that.
Overall, though, it sounds like you are just meeting shallow women. I guarantee you it wouldn't matter to me if I loved the person. My main crush through high school was shorter than me, and I'm 5'3". No idea about his other sizes, though... But honestly dick size never mattered to me. It mattered if I clicked with them.

 

[LifeCanBeCruel]

I'd imagine most straight girls do care about size. Not large necessarily but at least bigger than micro size. I'm sure there are girls out there who wouldn't mind micro but let's be honest here, finding them would be tricky.

 

[GasMonkey]

What's the size of your willy?

 

[Zegers]

My main crush through high school was shorter than me, and I'm 5'3"

Height is important for females, not for males.

 

[Seekingawayout]

you said you have a big dick what are you talking about.

Height is important for females, not for males.

You might want to check who actually said that, because it wasn't me. I'm female, always have been.

 

[Fulminare]

Frankly speaking, women do not care about your dick size. This is coming from a woman. But it all depends on the person, so yeah.

 

[Zegers]

That is unfortunate, I'm not sure I'm aware if there's a medical procedure that could alter it safely and successfully.
Could have sworn something like that existed but just the idea of it seems like it would be very invasive and risky.

Unfortunately there is no penis enlargement operation, the one that is available is quite expensive and the results are simply not worth it.

You might want to check who actually said that, because it wasn't me. I'm female, always have been.

My wrong. Anyway, if you have a micropenis its a problem.

 

[Rainy_days]

Have you guys actually gotten women interested in sleeping with you and then rejected for penis size? If so then I am sorry, but if not then stop stating this imagined scenario as if it were universally true or even common.

 

[LastFlowers]

Height is important for females, not for males.

Well idk about that, I've seen it go both ways.
As in most things aesthetically.
Women desiring taller men and men desiring shorter/petite women.
There's exceptions in both cases, but I've noticed the trend.
I especially find it odd that some of the shortest women are with some of the tallest men..
I'm not exactly surprised since there's a lot of scientific and psychological reasoning behind people's superficial desires, which is not all that hard to read up on or assess.
As unfortunate as it all may be.

Unfortunately there is no penis enlargement operation, the one that is available is quite expensive and the results are simply not worth it.

My wrong. Anyway, if you have a micropenis its a problem.

I figured, sorry to hear it for those dealing with this issue.

 

[Seekingawayout]

Unfortunately there is no penis enlargement operation, the one that is available is quite expensive and the results are simply not worth it.

My wrong. Anyway, if you have a micropenis its a problem.

I'm not saying I don't understand the insecurity. Well, I mean I don't understand this specific insecurity, but I understand insecurity about appearance/physical issues. I haven't been with anyone in years because I'm insecure about my illness and the symptoms it causes. And looking like I've been repeatedly gutted like a fish. Even before all that, I was insecure about my body. But I do know that there are women who aren't going to care if they click with you on other levels. That was always more important to me than physical stuff.

 

[Spyware]

Micropenis is a medical condition. A person with this disability has 2 possible solutions. Seek asexual relationships, or surgery

I can relate to your struggles. I'm slightly below the average length in my country. Not tall either. The situation in the dating scene is bleak for the average male. I've never had any major success with women in my life, and decided that it's a lost cause for me. It's better for my mental health and my wallet to just stay away. If the right opportunity occurs, that's wonderful. But I'm never chasing women ever again

 

[Zegers]

more important to me than physical stuff.

For you but for females in general such a problem will be a no-no and you know that.

 

[WhiteRabbit]

I read about how guys that had to have their dicks removed because of penile cancer use strap-ons to penetrate their partners.

Hermit, have you ever tried to search for something like a Facebook support group for mircopenises? It might be helpful to see how other men are dealing with this kind of thing.

 

[SadJessu]

A few thoughts.

As someone else itt mentioned, it's very difficult for women to achieve orgasm with vaginal penetration alone. Your size really doesn't matter in this regard. The only thing that a well endowed man can do differently is hit the vaginal fornix, and while it is an erogenous zone, it's still not going to stimulate her to an orgasm, and some women find anything probing around the cervix to be painful anyway. The g-spot is also an erogenous zone, and it's located very shallowly inside the vagina behind the pubic bone, which makes it easier to stimulate for guys on the smaller side. Clitoral stimulation is what women need, and frankly, you don't even need a penis to offer that.

Some women are shallow, some men are shallow, but for many women this is not a deal breaker. If my husband were injured in a way that he lost his completely, I would not leave, would not cheat. People are worth way more than the sum of their parts. Speaking of parts though, they do make penile extenders these days, they can be obtained at most novelty shops. Don't get discouraged OP. The size of your penis has absolutely no reflection on who you are as a man, you are not lesser than any other man out there.

 

[Fulminare]

A few thoughts.

As someone else itt mentioned, it's very difficult for women to achieve orgasm with vaginal penetration alone. Your size really doesn't matter in this regard. The only thing that a well endowed man can do differently is hit the vaginal fornix, and while it is an erogenous zone, it's still not going to stimulate her to an orgasm, and some women find anything probing around the cervix to be painful anyway. The g-spot is also an erogenous zone, and it's located very shallowly inside the vagina behind the pubic bone, which makes it easier to stimulate for guys on the smaller side. Clitoral stimulation is what women need, and frankly, you don't even need a penis to offer that.

Some women are shallow, some men are shallow, but for many women this is not a deal breaker. If my husband were injured in a way that he lost his completely, I would not leave, would not cheat. People are worth way more than the sum of their parts. Speaking of parts though, they do make penile extenders these days, they can be obtained at most novelty shops. Don't get discouraged OP. The size of your penis has absolutely no reflection on who you are as a man, you are not lesser than any other man out there.

Couldn't have worded it better myself! It is super difficult for the majority of women to achieve an orgasm with penetration. I feel like some men just don't know about this. So, there is no need to break your head about the size of your member :)

 

[Seekingawayout]

For you but for females in general such a problem will be a no-no and you know that.

I don't know that, actually. Would it be an issue with a lot women? Maybe... Is it universally true? Definitely not. I'm not some freak of nature where only I think it wouldn't matter if I loved someone.

 

[Fthis]

I've come to realize I'm lesbian now, but as a girl, I have had many friends who are girls and we talk about all kinds of things. Yes, height matters, but most my friends don't care about 6'0+. They just don't want to look down at their boyfriend. As far as dick size? They couldn't care less. When they obsess about boyfriends it's about his hair, his smile, his laugh, the flowers he bought. If you find a girl and you both love each other she won't care.

 

[Lone_Traveler90]

I understand what you are saying. After long relationship which ended I had no self esteem. I spent 2 years alone, I have no friends, no family.
I met this amazing girl, we started to date she was really into me and really wanted to date for who I am. When it came to our first time, I couldn't perform, I was so anxious about our first time that I couldn't get it to work. She was very understanding and said all the right words that she date me for who I am not for sex. Few days later she ghosted me. Sex is extremely important and size deffo matters.
I am good looking, I workout every day, I am fun to be around but thats not enough. at this point having depression and no self esteem what so ever I just want to go. I can't keep the mask on anymore.

 

[Forever Sleep]

Sorry- this is a really personal question- so feel free to ignore it if you want to... Has a girl rejected you for your penis size?

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

Sorry- this is a really personal question- so feel free to ignore it if you want to... Has a girl rejected you for your penis size?

Yes multiple times.

 

[Forever Sleep]

Yes multiple times.

Oh, I'm really sorry. I don't think it would bother me (I have plenty of orgasms on my own- I don't actually need a guy for one) but I have to admit- I'm far from a typical woman I suppose.

I'd like to think there were more women out there who didn't care about stuff like this but- perhaps not. I've always felt like men were more obsessed with penis' than women are but I guess it depends on the woman. You likely know more than me and I'm sorry.

I don't suppose there are dating apps for men with micro penis'? That way- women know what to expect- so really shouldn't be disappointed. Did a quick Google search and there do seem to be some- although- maybe not where you live.