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pinkribbonscars
She’s lost control
- Oct 7, 2021
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Since when did I romanticize autism?I'd like to see honest conversations about quality of life and euthanasia options. Including for people who cannot speak for their own suffering.
I don't think forced abortions. but also not gooey romanticised isn't life great with autism etc.
I've argued that there are some individuals and some families of autistic people who are able to live happily with autism. My argument is that we cannot assume autism inherently causes suffering, and that the medical and social service field is behind in providing solutions and supports for autistic people and their families.
Kim Peek was an autistic man who was told by his parents to put him in an institution and that he would never walk or talk. They refused. He was never fully independent, but it was clear from the documentaries and talks I have watched that both Kim and his father were happy with their predicament despite the challenges.
If autistic ppl find their autism to be too much and want to ctb, that is their right. If a pregnant person wants to abort a child who screened positive for a disability, they should have the right. There are also many parents who fought their entire lives for their children to be included and they ought to be supported.
I agree that romanticizing disability is a disservice and that individuals or families who are suffering should not be silenced like they often are. Being told "it's a blessing!" does not solve the problems disabled people and their families face. Yet I don't think a counter solution is the idea that disability inherently equals suffering. I am arguing for nuance, as it seems most people either have rose colored glasses or believe disability should be eliminated. I disagree with both views.