NSFW Why is being a cuck so popular these days?

[noname223]

Kanye likes being a cuck he even called his new album cuck. Trump made his friends cucks when he fucked their wifes. I joked with my friends about this phenomenon. And then we all agreed that we don't get the appeal of getting cucked? Is it about status? What do these people (the cucks) get from it?
I sort of get what the participant (,e.g., Trump) gets from it. But the cuck?

Maybe this is an inappropriate question for a suicide forum? But this is more or less the only outlet I visit where I can put this question. And maybe someone gets a good old chuckle from it.

 

[bankai]

Make no mistake, it's a very small subset of people who want to do this. Being a cuck isn't popular by any means.

Most people are jealous,they want to keep checking their partners phones all the time etc.you know the drill.,keep track of them.

 

[lamy's sacred sleep]

i got a chuckle

 

[Unbearable Mr. Bear]

i got a chuckle

Don't you mean a cuckle?
...I'll see myself out...

 

[GlassMoon]

I guess it's just their fetish? Maybe being even lower than a sub, or even the pleasure of being humiliated when the partner says that the replacement performs better than them.

As we say in German: "Jedem Tierchen sein Pläsierchen" (to everyone whatever they enjoy).

 

[lamy's sacred sleep]

Don't you mean a cuckle?
...I'll see myself out...

behold the cuckumber

 

[Forever Sleep]

I don't get why it would feel good. Maybe it shows they have a wife who's desirable to other men. Especially attractive or, powerful men.

Maybe it gives them an 'excuse' to behave abusively to their partners in revenge. It's kind of degrading for the woman to be called a 'slut'. Maybe they enjoy demeaning their partner.

God knows what turns some guys on. When you have some that let other guys rape their partners, who knows?

Maybe they're just swingers! Who's to say they're being faithful either? Maybe they let her sleep around because it condones their own unfaithful behaviour- if they have been. Couples are all different I guess.

 

[Unbearable Mr. Bear]

I guess it's just their fetish? Maybe being even lower than a sub, or even the pleasure of being humiliated when the partner says that the replacement performs better than them.

As we say in German: "Jedem Tierchen sein Pläsierchen" (to everyone whatever they enjoy).

I always thought it was like "I love my spouse but can't sexually please them, and I want them to be sexually pleased, so I'll get someone to do it, and I'll watch so I can also please myself not only by watching them, but on the feeling my spouse is feeling great sexual satisfaction on it."

May be a weird take, but honestly is the most healthy take I have.

 

[Forever Sleep]

I also wonder if it's a parallel to another phenomena I've noticed. That some previously insulting words are then approproated by those who used to feel insulted by them. So 'n*gger' became 'n*gga', and the response to it varies.

Some people hate it being used full stop but some use it to create a feeling of brotherhood. More- some would deem it racist if a white person used it (so would I,) but they're fine with other black people using it. It is kind of weird- to me anyway. Even if a white person used it in an endearing way- it would jar with me but, if it's black people- I tend to think- it's up to them. They usually seem to do it in a friendly, comradery way.

I wonder if it's similar. Will these cheated husbands tolerate just anyone calling them a 'cuck' or, is it only for their use and some select others?

I really don't know though. I'm just grasping for straws because- thinking about it, it does seem weird. It's also one thing to accept it- as Unbearable Mr. Bear suggested. I thought that was a lovely reason. It's another to kind of boast about it. Maybe it's a form of overcompensating because they do feel embarassed about it. Better to come out boasting in a way maybe, rather than being pitied.

 

[Unbearable Mr. Bear]

I also wonder if it's a parallel to another phenomena I've noticed. That some previously insulting words are then approproated by those who used to feel insulted by them. So 'n*gger' became 'n*gga', and the response to it varies.

Some people hate it being used full stop but some use it to create a feeling of brotherhood. More- some would deem it racist if a white person used it (so would I,) but they're fine with other black people using it. It is kind of weird- to me anyway. Even if a white person used it in an endearing way- it would jar with me but, if it's black people- I tend to think- it's up to them. They usually seem to do it in a friendly, comradery way.

I wonder if it's similar. Will these cheated husbands tolerate just anyone calling them a 'cuck' or, is it only for their use and some select others?

I really don't know though. I'm just grasping for straws because- thinking about it, it does seem weird. It's also one thing to accept it- as Unbearable Mr. Bear suggested. I thought that was a lovely reason. It's another to kind of boast about it. Maybe it's a form of overcompensating because they do feel embarassed about it. Better to come out boasting in a way maybe, rather than being pitied.

Well, maybe fetishes have communities around it: BDSM stuff, for example, has a whole community and vocabulary for them. I never heard of a Cuckmunity (I'm so sorry) around cucks, their spouses and the ones that cuck them (Cuckers?), but I'm sure it exists somewhere. Furry/anime/cartoon communities also almost always have a lewd side. It's natural for most humans to want to explore their sexual sides, and find out they have paraphilias, and the more popular ones get communities.

Disclaimer: Not a fetish expert...ok maybe furry fetish expert.

 

[Namelesa]

I always thought it was like "I love my spouse but can't sexually please them, and I want them to be sexually pleased, so I'll get someone to do it, and I'll watch so I can also please myself not only by watching them, but on the feeling my spouse is feeling great sexual satisfaction on it."

May be a weird take, but honestly is the most healthy take I have.

Not a weird take at all. I would say I would probably get off from seeing my partner have sex with others cus I just want them to pleasured in whatever way they want and different people are going to have different sexual experiences so by having them have sex with people other than me will bring them more sexual variety. I don't really feel jealous with the idea of my partner having sex with others really as I don't like the idea of restricting what my partner can do with others. To me the most important thing in a relationship is the mutual special feelings you have for one another, not that you specifically do these things with each other only.

Tho @GlassMoon is also true with that for others its a submissive humiliation fetish. People can sexually like the feeling of being of less worth and disposable.

 

[locked*n*loaded]

It is? I never knew that. If that's the new way, I really need to get the fuck out of here.

 

[Unbearable Mr. Bear]

Not a weird take at all. I would say I would probably get off from seeing my partner have sex with others cus I just want them to pleasured in whatever way they want and different people are going to have different sexual experiences so by having them have sex with people other than me will bring them more sexual variety. I don't really feel jealous with the idea of my partner having sex with others really as I don't like the idea of restricting what my partner can do with others. To me the most important thing in a relationship is the mutual special feelings you have for one another, not that you specifically do these things with each other only.

Tho @GlassMoon is also true with that for others its a submissive humiliation fetish. People can sexually like the feeling of being of less worth and disposable.

The dom/sub fetish is very curious. No doubt some of us have the feeling that we're less and should be treated like such, or at least I assume. Well, the dom/sub fetish is all about acting out that subconscious need of being inferior/superior to someone, without the bad side effects that would entail in real life. the dom punishes the sub, but there is a trust between, there is consent. It's one of the most complex and yet most human fetishes I've encountered.

Paraphilias, in general, are more complex than just the weird or superficial look they usually have.

 

[alwaysalone]

Kanye likes being a cuck he even called his new album cuck. Trump made his friends cucks when he fucked their wifes. I joked with my friends about this phenomenon. And then we all agreed that we don't get the appeal of getting cucked? Is it about status? What do these people (the cucks) get from it?
I sort of get what the participant (,e.g., Trump) gets from it. But the cuck?

Maybe this is an inappropriate question for a suicide forum? But this is more or less the only outlet I visit where I can put this question. And maybe someone gets a good old chuckle from it.

I'm no expert but here's my take: a "true" cuck is usually involved with swinging with their partner. They enjoy watching their s/o with others but they usually still engage in sex themselves as well. They also usuallyhave a "normal" relationship with their s/o out of the bedroom. "Cuck" has also become a slang type term for "wimpy" men. Men who allow their s/o to run all over them and don't say shit. Men who seem to have zero self esteem or self respect in AND out of the bedroom.

 

[Unbearable Mr. Bear]

I'm no expert but here's my take: a "true" cuck is usually involved with swinging with their partner. They enjoy watching their s/o with others but they usually still engage in sex themselves as well. They also usuallyhave a "normal" relationship with their s/o out of the bedroom. "Cuck" has also become a slang type term for "wimpy" men. Men who allow their s/o to run all over them and don't say shit. Men who seem to have zero self esteem or self respect in AND out of the bedroom.

The second Cuck word is mostly used by far-right and alt-right people. It has the same meaning as "loser" for them, and is probably intense projecting on their side hahahahah. They also never use the full word "Cuckold", which is used almost exclusively by fetishsts.

EDIT: Ok, no joke, I just searched for "Cuckology" for shits and giggles, and in the end there IS a website called cuckology.com...and a reddit community...the community seems bigger than I thought.

 

[Dejected 55]

I don't think it is very popular. I think the popularity of it is an illusion. As someone else stated, I don't think very many people are doing it. Then of those few, you have the people who enjoy it, for whatever reason, and the people who are doing it unwillingly.

I couldn't say why someone would enjoy it. Not in the slightest. I try not to judge, but I don't get it.

But the unwilling partner? I have a guess... if a guy feels like his girl is going to cheat on him anyway... at least this way he is in the room and can make sure she is ok + it keeps her from running off in secret.

 

[Unbearable Mr. Bear]

I don't think it is very popular. I think the popularity of it is an illusion. As someone else stated, I don't think very many people are doing it. Then of those few, you have the people who enjoy it, for whatever reason, and the people who are doing it unwillingly.

I couldn't say why someone would enjoy it. Not in the slightest. I try not to judge, but I don't get it.

But the unwilling partner? I have a guess... if a guy feels like his girl is going to cheat on him anyway... at least this way he is in the room and can make sure she is ok + it keeps her from running off in secret.

I don't think it's very popular either, Just popular enough to have a website centered on it and a subreddit.

 

[alwaysalone]

The second Cuck word is mostly used by far-right and alt-right people. It has the same meaning as "loser" for them, and is probably intense projecting on their side hahahahah. They also never use the full word "Cuckold", which is used almost exclusively by fetishsts.

EDIT: Ok, no joke, I just searched for "Cuckology" for shits and giggles, and in the end there IS a website called cuckology.com...and a reddit community...the community seems bigger than I thought.

I don't think it's a republican thing. I heard it from lots of comedians and podcasts non of which were conservative or Republicans.

 

[wham311]

Dated someone who was into it, jealousy is the turn on. They also got uncomfortable the way any normal person would about other people, theyd just deal with it in a different way.

 

[The Actual Devil]

To cuck or to be cucked: that is the question!
-Ramlet, by Shake-Spear-Her

Society RN, FR:

(OK, maybe it would have been funnier the other way around, but I made my choice, lol)

Also, let us not forget about the Cuckoldresses, HotHusbands, Bulls, Cuckqueans, and Cuckcakes of the world.

Alright, here is a serious take: double standards and gender norms.
It is a double standard that society views a Cuckquean as a loving partner, a HotHusband as an "alpha male", and a Cuckcake as a good friend; meanwhile, it views a Cuck as pathetic, a Cuckoldress as a slut, and a Bull as a homewrecker (though often still an "alpha male").

And yes, I knew all of those terms off the top of my head.

 

[Unbearable Mr. Bear]

I don't think it's a republican thing. I heard it from lots of comedians and podcasts non of which were conservative or Republicans.

I don't watch many podcasts or comedians so yeah probably did not know about that. Thanks for being informative.

To cuck or to be cucked: that is the question!
-Ramlet, by Shake-Spear-Her

Society RN, FR:
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(OK, maybe it would have been funnier the other way around, but I made my choice, lol)

Also, let us not forget about the Cuckoldresses, HotHusbands, Bulls, Cuckqueans, and Cuckcakes of the world.

Alright, here is a serious take: double standards and gender norms.
It is a double standard that society views a Cuckquean as a loving partner, a HotHusband as an "alpha male", and a Cuckcake as a good friend; meanwhile, it views a Cuck as pathetic, a Cuckoldress as a slut, and a Bull as a homewrecker (though often still an "alpha male").

And yes, I knew all of those terms off the top of my head.

I wasn't aware of the double standards either. I just thought it was a fetish...aw, man, the more I know, the less cool things become. bummer, dude...

 

[penguinl0v3s]

Kanye likes being a cuck he even called his new album cuck. Trump made his friends cucks when he fucked their wifes. I joked with my friends about this phenomenon. And then we all agreed that we don't get the appeal of getting cucked? Is it about status? What do these people (the cucks) get from it?
I sort of get what the participant (,e.g., Trump) gets from it. But the cuck?

I see these people so far removed from the average of society that I wouldn't say it's mainstream. Not just because they're rich, but like Kanye has untreated bipolar and is constantly doing insane things because of it. These are eccentric personalities.