I don't have an anime avatar but my stupid little phrase under my username is some obscure reference to an abridged version of an anime I didn't even enjoy watching (but the parody is hilarious).
I think anime, like other forms of media and entertainment/fiction/story-telling is simply just another form of escapism and rare enjoyment for many who feel lost, depressed, rejected or ostracized in daily life, it may also be a nostalgia thing, as many of us have fond memories of shows we watched when we were younger (sometimes these are animes), and anime often has a unique blend of childish antics and very adult themes which can also make it feel particularly comforting and unlike anything live action/"real".
It's also become more acceptable and popular in recent years, so you're going to see more and more people advertise their fanaticism or love for the medium openly.
Not just here, but in plenty of other corners of the internet as well, even mainstream sites.
As for a link to suicide..there's plenty of anime that never address the subject, but I suppose anime (and cartoons) in general can address related topics (and taboos) more readily and freely than live-action series or movies where there's too many faces/names attached to a project and endless amounts of trepidation in getting too involved in controversy. (Being a voice or animator in a more esoteric field can mitigate high amounts of backlash, and there's more of a barrier between them and the public.)
As someone else mentioned too, most anime characters are "aesthetically pleasing" (and neotenous) but not too real to feel creepy in growing attached to them.
This is one of the more unfortunate possible reasonings..as it is indicative of the overall superficiality and shallowness of mankind, I rarely see anyone swoon over an anime character that is drawn to mimic an unattractive human being, even if their characterization is arguably superior to the characters who are "easy on the eyes".
Take the recent series "Demon Slayer" for instance, people go crazy over the character of "Nezuko", they are downright obsessed, some fans want to marry her, some fans want to BE her, all because she looks and acts cute, but really has no personality to speak of…besides the sibling bond with the main character, otherwise she's like a guard-puppy.
I can guarantee you that if she was drawn to be less attractive, I would have probably never heard of her character in the first place. (Even the anime itself makes a big deal of her beauty).
This upsets me, and sometimes I do become disillusioned with the whole thing, as well as the fandoms, just like I've become critical of the entertainment business in general and who they most often allow to grace our screens (and who they bar from doing so, and why).
Yes, suicide didn't exist before anime.
People like aesthetically pleasing things and people usually like people (whether 3D or 2D). Anime characters are often aesthetically pleasing. There are ugly anime characters and old anime characters and severely disfigured anime characters yet people almost always use young pretty boys and girls. I swear to you if every anime character looked like an old burn victim, almost no one would be using anime character avatars. People will say "I relate to that character" and while that is true, you pretty much never see people relate to those ugly or old or severely disfigured anime people no matter how much they resemble them.
That's like 99% of the reason, the last 1% is that there are so many different anime characters that it's easy to find one who resonates with you. People who are on the Internet instead of partying/socializing/exercising/etc. are often lonely or introverted or sad or depressed or shy or misunderstood or bullied etc. Those kinds of people really want to find someone, anyone - even just a character in an anime - who understands them. They most often have no or little meaningful/good social lives outside of the Internet, so they live through the anime characters or perhaps with them. And in anime/manga there are lots of shy or introverted or sad or bullied or lonely people with whom many Internet users can relate. And even if you had a bit better social life, you can still find anime characters that feel very dear to you.
And because people often bond with anime characters, people often remember them easily. The brain gives priority those characters. Most people when they are told to think of something they'll automatically think of their family/friends. For many people whose life is on the Internet, the anime characters are their family and friends (subconsciously often). And lots of people have the first or one of the first things that comes to their mind be their avatar. Most people don't give much thought to anything.
Remember that watching anime is often passive. For some people it trains the brain and activates it, but for many it just shuts down their brain. For those kind of passive people it's normal to just go with the first thought that comes to their mind instead of thinking hard "What kind of avatar do I really want?" and "How will people react to that avatar?" and "What would that avatar symbolize?".
Note: When I said "no or little meaningful/good social lives" I didn't necessarily mean "a complete basement dweller". A person can have three "friends", go to movies and restaurants and cafes with them three times a week and still hate it and seek better social life in an anime.
I feel like I could have worded this better, but my brain doesn't work.
Spot on, especially your first paragraph, I read your first two sentences as I was finishing my own reply and was glad someone else recognized
that as a common reason people gravitate toward anime characters. They are often exaggerated versions of what we already find physically attractive in living, breathing human beings…then we project all these other relative and appealing traits onto them, whether they actually possess them or not.
Although this isn't technically an anime, even Zuko (a burn victim) in Avatar, is still drawn to be handsome despite his partial face burn, and so people are still likely to have him pop up as their profile picture as well.
Anime puts what would otherwise be seen as unattractive or easy-to-disparage personality traits and life circumstances all behind a cute little face and some of us see that and think "finally, an attractive representation of what I've been suffering with"…but this only happens because the majority of anime characters, by default, are attractive (even when they're a little off looking or drawn in a strange style).
Even the anime characters who refer to themselves as "ugly" are difficult to actually see that way, because, again, most of them are just as "cute" as all the other characters (so we end up having to take them at their word as an audience member, suspend our disbelief).
It's like seeing our torment and torture expressed by a plushy toy.
However in real-life, people who suffer to that degree don't usually resemble an anime character, so sympathy and empathy from others will wane.
I suppose this happens outside of anime as well, as I often see attractive actors/actresses given parts to play which come across as if a privileged person is wearing the disenfranchised's skin for a day, they
are playing a part afterall.
I actually think it's harmful in the long-run, though I still appreciate the creative effort that goes into these pieces of work behind the scenes, and I am somewhat grateful for the escapism they have offered me in my times of suffering.
It's simply not without caveats.
Because I'm a Johan Liebert enjoyer.
Can someone explain to me the "fan versus enjoyer" meme lol..? I feel old.