Why do you want a partner? (for those who want a partner)

[raindrops]

Someone to cuddle at night, someone to lay in bed with and just talk about the world and our day, someone to achieve things with like getting a home, someone to take care of, someone to look good for, someone to be intimate with, someone to hold hands with until we're old & grey, someone to laugh & joke with, someone to trust with my life, someone to eventually make our own little family, someone to have holidays with, someone to snuggle watching the tv at night or have lazy sundays in our home, someone to go on beach days and picnics and walks to the forest, someone who I can call my bestfriend and partner all in one.

I thought you were talking about a romantic partner...

Yeah I thought this sorry I didn't read the posts.

 

[RedDEE]

LOL. This thread was an epic fail.

I tried guys - I tried.

 

[Ghost2211]

LOL. This thread was an epic fail.

I tried guys - I tried.

Reading this brightened my day for getting a good laugh. Also helps I'm stoned af. Sometimes it doesn't take much to improve a day, ty!

 

[Nymph]

I need someone to help me get through it, plus I have enough stuff so I can share it
I'm scared of finding a parent tho cause I don't trust random people I meet on the internet. So I think I'll probably just end up doing it alone

 

[bravotess]

LOL. This thread was an epic fail.

I tried guys - I tried.

LOL. I can't get enough of it!

 

[Deleted member 17949]

I don't really want one because making it work practically is hard, but in theory it would be nice to have someone to share my last moments with. It would be nice for death to not be lonely and to have someone that understands me and can relate to me in that moment.

 

[AlreadyGone]

It would be nice, but I believe that having a partner for ctb would complicate things. It is already tough to ctb alone so working out the logistics with a partners would be even more daunting.

 

[SadGuyWannaDie]

I think some of us want a partner for the same reason we congregate on this site.. support. Others mentioned the obvious, loneliness. Knowing the person there is from here and they are like minded no matter how different. I just don't see it as viable because it complicates things now requiring two different constitutions to cbt and two different survival instincts to overcome. With the right person I would prefer it but I don't really believe it's likely more like a romanticized version of CTB.

 

[Deformationalplagio]

To overcome si

 

[LetsGosam]

I'm hoping for an exciting experience not just passing out and going. A partner to plan and help make it happen would be good and sharing the experience would be powerful.

 

[OrdinaryDay]

Comments in this thread are so very diverse.

 

[airboy_a380]

Speaking for myself I would never would like to do it with a partner. That's something to do on your own, almost a romantic ending to your life. Your way.

 

[Masonfight]

I would prefer to do it with a partner. Just knowing someone else is there would make it so much better.

 

[karaboudjan]

I can really see the appeal of holding someone's hand at the end, or hugging each other even. But I agree with people saying that a partner creates too big a risk of complication.

 

[Rue89]

I really want a partner; I don't want to die alone, but none of my potential partners have worked out. I think I'm meant to die alone. Oh well, it's probably for the best. As others mentioned it could complicate things. There's still a tiny part of me that's hoping though.

 

[LittleJem]

To help me get it done.The Japanese 6 or 7 in a car suicide pact with CO - that sounds amazing. I'm in!
Also... I don't have a car to do that in, so a partner or 2 or 5, a car and some CO. Springtime next year ideally.

 

[Mimi79]

Life is lonely enough... to feel someone in the last minutes must be wonderful.

 

[greebo6]

For me - I live with my Sister. I have a shotgun, and every night I consider shooting myself. But my Sister's been through tragic shit - her husband committed suicide by cop in this very house I'm living in now. I wasn't here when that happened, it happened four years ago, and I've only been living with my Sister a year. But it was a very tragic event for her, and she has been on heavy psychiatric medicine and hasn't been the same ever since.

I want to blow my brains out, but I don't want to traumatize her even more by doing it in her house. At the same time, I don't have transportation or any money. There's nowhere near me where I could take my shotgun and do it alone. At the same time, I don't want to die alone. I want a partner, so I could commit my suicide away from here. And so I can have somebody to comfort me in my last hour.

ANYWAYS - for those wanting to find a partner, why do you want a partner?

Because I am very lonely and life is empty. It would be nice to love and be loved back .

 

[TooConscious]

This might sound cynical but at least half the men I know have ideals that they're going to happen to find a partner who happens to be an attractive female and spend their last days making love to pass time till they're ready to go whilst questioning if they should carry on because the sex is so good.
Women are stronger than men I don't care what anyone says, the only women you see here asking for partners are angst teenage girls, I know suicide success rates are low in women. Hence genuine women that aren't crying for help are warriors.

 

[albino_elk]

I had a partner when i was 17 i end up saving him. I think its the best to do it alone:c
This.. "This might sound cynical but at least half the men I know have ideals that they're going to happen to find a partner who happens to be an attractive female and spend their last days making love to pass time till they're ready to go whilst questioning if they should carry on because the sex is so good" xd thanks

 

[OrdinaryDay]

This thread has not gone any better over time lmao

 

[sadbadpsychogirl]

lots of reasons.. someone to talk to until the end, being with someone with the same goal, just the comfort of having another person there even if they chose not to go through with it.

 

[Ghost2211]

Seeing this topic again made me both smile at how funny and fail this was and sad to see op name. Miss you op.

 

[Deleted member 22650]

For anyone reading this, y'all can always DM me and we could do it via Discord togheter, I don't mind doing it alone but if I can help someone before I die, I'd be happy to :)

 

[Georgii]

I had a period of time when I thought a partner would help me overcome SI ,that it would be nice not dying alone .
But this ,this is something personal for me , something I have to do on my own .

 

[Donewiyhitall]

I would love a partner to SN for prep and checking our preparations, support and things like, deleting clouds & online history. Also for measurements for my weight, location security check and timing the steps. But not sure i want to have a working phone on me at that time. Plus, my time is this week.

 

[AJ95]

I want a partner mostly because I don't want to be alone in my last moments. I don't think anyone should die alone, to be honest

 

[x~Sophia~x]

This thread has not gone any better over time lmao