Venting Why are people so fake

[Cirno]

I discussed today with my friend, about the relationships, because one more time I met a guy and he turned out to be just some fake fucker. She's in a long term relationship and has a lot of men around her all the time, she's popular, pretty, smart. She told me that a lot of sad moments comes from relationship too, and I know I'm overreacting, but- It hit me a little. She doesn't know how I feel. I feel like ugly trash, when every girl surrounding me have some guy around her, someone who appreciates her. And I don't even get a single message, from anyone the opposite gender... I really feel bad about that. They're all so happy with them. And I'm just drowning in depression.

(Please don't tell me to go to parties and meet new people. I do that all the time, and they either come out to be some fuckers, or see me only as a friend, because I'm not canonically pretty enough...)

 

[Pale_Rider]

I can identify. Not because Im ugly, but because Im just to broken. This is one of those issues like SI. The instinct to procreate is strong within each one of us. No I dont have any answers to share however.

 

[dontletthembribeyou]

I can relate. People get away with being so shitty to people who aren't conventionally attractive because most people refuse to acknowledge that it even happens

 

[25dRvS9Ka]

I am attractive and I don't like how people treat me differently. These types of people don't want to know the essence that makes up our personality. They just want us as if we were a piece of meat, it's just gross

 

[FoxSauce]

Honeslty I wish there was advice i can give you but I don't. The only thing I can say that yeah people can be really shitty to both unattractive and attractive which I think can be suggestive? (Maybe)

But I hope you find a person that cares for you and you only not their idea of you.

 

[Dejected 55]

Some people are fake because it helps them mask their awfulness and gives them the ability to feed their own greed and selfishness.

Some people are fake because they legitimately don't know how to be real, or are scared to be real, and so they fake it to try and fit in.

Some people are fake because they are evil and even though they gain nothing from being fake, they do it because they can.

I might have forgotten a scenario, but the three above cover most. I try to be as real as I can, unless I'm in a situation where it is proven that being real will get me hurt faster. Then I'll hold back more.

But I don't lead people on, I don't let people think I like them when I don't, I don't hurt people on purpose for fun.

 

[myriapoda]

i don't hand around or show interest in people but i kinda get that, i'm quite average looking that unusually get compared to a default game character ((they aren't wrong sadly… ~_~)), overshadowed feels too strong of a word,, but it wouldn't hurt once in a while to give background characters some attention that isn't outright deceptive/ dismissive to get to the main lead

 

[kitkat9234]

I can relate. I'm so disgusting looking and I have no one. I used to be attractive until I started taking these stupid medications that made me gain all this weight. Teeth rotting out of my head and my once amazing curly hair is so damaged/breaking off/falling out. I legit went to shit/hit a wall. Have no personality anymore also because of these meds. I haven't been in a relationship since my ex died three years ago. Probably won't be with anyone else ever again I'm so gross. I hate this. Hugs to you.