Who here was bullied at school and abused at home?

[Isadeth]

I wasn't bullied or bullied anyone else, but I was a fighter that would often get in trouble for fights with those that picked on others. I took my homelife out on them. I figured it was a win/win. Home was hell. I tried to hide it, but sometimes I wasn't able to.

I was abused at home by my alcoholic mother and then bullied at school because I had an alcoholic mother.

This. I didn't consider myself bullied, because I would beat the crap out of those that tried.. people "teased" (nice way of putting it) when it was discovered my mother was a horrible alcoholic. It was on the news and everyone knew... so I couldn't even continue hiding it. I'm sorry you also endured that ♡

 

[Stavrogin]

Bullied now and then, but I used to give as much as I took. I was very short in my first few years of Secondary School but I had a major growth spurt and didn't have as much of an issue in my last couple of years. Bullying is natural and it's nothing personal by the way.

 

[Zappfe lover]

I was used to suffer a lot of physical bullying during my school days. Thankfully, they didn't really leave any lasting psychological effects.

 

[ForensicallyAware]

Was bullied a bit in junior school
And I recall cruel comments from teachers

I forgive them though , I now know that they acted as they did because they were empty worthless people and resented my genius

 

[kinzokukae]

i was /: tbh i don't think the bullying affected me much in school though it probably had an affect on how i turned out.

i can't even remember what i was bullied for, just that some older kids called me some names and pushed me around a bit - i don't think i ever told teachers.

and then at home, my mother (for a brief period of time) used to hit me with a leather belt sometimes. most often when i cried. why? no fucking clue. why have a child if you don't like crying. but nonetheless, that instilled in me a distinct hatred of crying, and i haven't cried since august 2016. nearly four years, yay!

 

[BridgeJumper]

Honestly the things my parents and my classmates did to me, I dont even have the courage to type. Sexua, verbal and physical abuse, I was also drowned in the river which made me obssess about jumping into it as a means of death. Damaged beyond recognition and pretty sure I would lead a different life hadit not happened, because before all that I was a normal, happy child.

 

[ithappens]

School was weird. I got bullied a lot, but I managed to make some friends (at times) who were also on the bottom of the totem pole and if we occasionally stuck together there was relief. The worst was probably once I hit middle school/high school. Puberty just does something to people that makes them really mean. I've had my mean moments too of course, but I tend to feel bad afterwards and apologize and/or try to mend my behavior. My goal isn't to hurt people, but I do lash out when I feel like people are picking on me or trying to push me around or shove me to the bottom physically or verbally. I also grew up around people who have some really dark humor so sometimes I've offended people like that. I've been bullied for it too, for being pessimistic or trying to put a stop to some cruelty. Life just kind of sucks like that, it's a constant battle for some arbitrary hierarchy that I don't really understand.

Home life was like 1000x worse, but that's because if some of my teachers said and did to me what my mom said and did to me they'd be fired or even sued or something. So there's that.

 

[deadgirlahsatan]

Terrible bullying at school.
Some verbal abuse at home.

 

[My_name_is_Luka]

I was very skinny, black hair, pale skin. Kids older and often younger than me verbally made jokes over me in front of others, persistently, from primary school until lyceum. Most of the others were just avoiding me or trying to put me back in the shadow if I tried to stand out.
One school principal started to grow an antipathy for me and she suspected that my reserved behavior was hiding something. She took some of my personal things from my bag in my absence and she spread rumors about me in my class.

At home I was often seeing my parents beating my sister because of her psychological problems. I was scared by her screams, we were both very young. I still remember the evenings when I heard her imploring my father in the bathroom not to be beaten, as she was half naked and ready to wash herself; followed by the echoes of her body falling on the floor or against the wall and the sound of the beating on her skin, her cries; until, later, she calmed her anger biting her own body. How can a parent beat his own child in such a gruesome manner?

Growing up, I became the focus of the dissatisfaction of my parents; discussions over silly things often led to disagreements and to physical punishments.
As I started to become less proficient at university, they spoke to me less and less, sometimes for weeks, and they made me think I was a failure.
Even after graduating and trying to get a job abroad, I had to endure the silence of my parents toward me, that were trying to make me feel guilty for leaving them.

 

[Aonewayticketplease]

Verbal, economic, emotional and physical abuse at home.

Verbal and physical abuse from both boys and girls in school up until about the age of 16. After delivering a few severe beatings the abuse from the boys stopped. The girls, however, continued to slander me as they knew that I would not assault them them in the same way that I had done to the boys.

 

[MeriDeath]

Damn, so sad.
I know its a little to no comfort bit I can assure you that youre not alone in this.
Being born doesnt mean life will be all pink and glorious, it means you will have to fight your way up and so many people have gone through this including myself, sadly. I was never popular nor was i even close to being one. I would come back home from school and be treated like shit. In fact I dont go to school anymore since Ive graduated but while at home, you can never erase those memories. I know you said we cant convince you otherwise hutni just want you to know that storms dont last forever, you are more than a punching bag, and i send you lots of love

 

[the-eternal]

my upbringing was tarnished by my father. verbal and emotional abuse, some physical abuse, lying, manipulating, cheating -- the list goes on. my brain will only allow me to remember bits and pieces from back then, but i remember enough.