Who here has never had a bf or gf?

[Makko]

i've never had a boyfriend but i do have a harem of hawt animu husbandos.....do they count?

Your harem needs at least a vampire, a werewolf, a serial killer, a tentacle monster and a submissive shota. Otherwise it doesn't count

 

[FireFox]

You don't have to compare yourself with the other women. Nothing good can come out of this. Think about your life and how you can make it a little better, compared to your previous self. And you don't have to feel immature for being virgin, because maturity is all about the way you see the world. Age does feel like a weight on us. I also want to ctb before 30 and I'm running out of time, but I try to think about the significance of my age at death, and it has none.
I'm not really good with supportive words, bur I hope you understand what I wanted to say.

By the way, I'm coming back after a long time and I remember you! We never really talked, but it's so nice to see you still around!

Thank you its nice to see you around too.

 

[Tiredsotired]

I'm 46 and never had a boyfriend, only 2 friends with benefits. It'll be almost 20 years since I've been intimate with anyone. I have some self-esteem issues where the thought of a man seeing me without makeup in the morning terrifies me. So I never wanted a boyfriend by choice but I do miss the sex. It would be nice to be intimate with a man at least one more time before I die.

 

[FireFox]

Some girls lose it at 14 and are sad about it because they've lost it with a stranger. Girls hate their boyfriends because they used and dumped them. Doubt you'd want to experience that. Don't compare yourself to other girls and don't think every couple has a perfechad t relationship. Maybe you wouldn't like sex much, because personallyasked guys out as a guy, after i had sex for the first time, i sat on the couch and thought "thats it"? Not to be mean but killing yourself because of being a virgin is like the stupidiest reason ever. You have a lot of time to fix that too, you're not 45 years old

I never used to be the pretty and popular girl at school all the boys liked. When I was teenager at school the girls at school had a boyfriend or close girl friendship group whereas I had neither so I just felt so left out. I used to be laughed at for being a virgin in my teens by the other girls who had boyfriends

I take an interest in guys but they never take an interest in me. I can compliment a guys appearance and have asked guys out but they always reject me.

I wish I had a blonde hair and blue eyes instead of being a brown female.

 

[Werewolf.]

Me. I'm in my mid-20s. Never even went on a single date. Everyone else around me is either a non-virgin or someone who's had a relationship. I feel like I don't belong.

 

[Fera18]

Nunca tuve novio y todavía soy virgen a la edad de 24 años, es tan vergonzoso y solitario. Me siento como una extraña entre las mujeres de mi edad porque no he experimentado lo que ellas tienen en sus vidas.

La mayoría de las mujeres de mi edad han tenido su primer novio y han perdido su virginidad cuando eran adolescentes.
La sociedad se burla de la virginidad adulta, independientemente del género, es decir, la sociedad piensa que eres raro si no lo has perdido a los 18 años.

Ver a todas las chicas de la escuela tener un novio, se veían tan mayores y sus vidas eran más divertidas que la mía.

Ser virgen es un recordatorio de cuán inmadura soy realmente.

Planeo suicidarme antes de los 30 porque a los 30 mi vida de mujer se acaba si sigo soltera. A los 30, la sociedad ve a las mujeres como viejas y un fracaso si la mujer no tiene todo, es decir, marido, hijos, carrera, etc.

Estar soltero es tan terrible no tener a nadie contigo que te amen y aprecien la persona que eres.

Hola no eres rara por eso yo tengo 21 y aún no lo hice, porque bueno no era el momento, casi tengo relaciones con un amigo cuando tenía 15 nada paso y un tiempo me arrepentí pero ahora a mis 21 siento que fue mejor la verdad pase o no me tiene sin cuidado, y estar soltero no es tan malo porque te conoces a ti mismo.
usualmente pienso que no se puede extrañar algo que no se conoce

 

[aminend]

Me

 

[upthedownescalatorr]

I'm 25 and never have. It used to bother me a lot but I was never suicidal over it. Since I lost my health I genuinely don't care anymore and would give anything just to feel normal again.

 

[Ozzyos]

I am 34 and have not. It genuinely pains me as I think relationships can give a lot of emotional support and be very beautiful if with the right person.

For me, I have dated a ton and had a bunch of sexual encounters which I think have damaged me and made it very hard to find the real thing that actually means something. So my advice to all is to avoid casual dating, it just builds an emptiness and always seek for love rather than sex.

 

[Hotsackage]

Meeeee

 

[it's_all_a_game]

I never have, and never will.

 

[Winklemate]

I'm lone wolf, then, now, and forever.

I've definitely experienced limerence but I don't believe that I ever truly wanted to be in a relationship, it was always the appeal of the narrative. Because lots of different media, for whatever reasons music comes to mind the most, this story thread of salvation through love has been something I've seen consistently. Gotye's "Save Me" jumps to mind immediately because I love that song. It's a great story you know, that true love can be the life jacket of someone drowning in their depression. I know that's a story experienced by some but for most it's a fantasy, as plausible as Narnia.

I honestly believe those instances of limerence were just my survival instincts manifesting because they were all preceding by either deciding I was going to off myself or just talked myself out of it. The reality of what a relationship actually is, is something I just don't want any part of. I have zero interest in starting a family with kids, sex is mostly a deterrent for me, kinda hate the idea of having a partner to look out for & help me tbh. The whole thing just seems like a hassle to me.

 

[Oozzy]

I've only had a girlfriend once I wish I never had. She really fucked my mental health and threw me away like trash. I still have trust problems.

 

[whywere]

I had a wife once. She drained me out of over 40,000 behind my back. When I figured it out I divorced her as quickly as I could. Walter