Help When should I do it?

[paska_paska]

I've been having some issues with coming up with a date for when I CTB. I have some scheduled plans coming up in a couple weeks, and I wouldn't want to CTB before them. There's also some relatives' birthdays soon and I wouldn't want to CTB on anyone's birthday.

But when I really start thinking about this, it starts feeling hopeless, like I won't actually have a chance to do it. Then I start thinking about what if I just do it right now, which doesn't feel too good either because of the already existing plans.

My question is: should I take everyone else into consideration when making my plans, or act completely according to my own schedule?

 

[FuneralCry]

I don't think this is something that other people on here can decide for you, it's up to you, none of us are obligated to continue existing for even a second longer than we wish to, I believe that people should be able to ctb exactly when they want to.

 

[RainLover]

You gotta ask yourself: "is this person's emotions important enough for me to reschedule it?" If the answer is yes, take their schedule into account when making plans. Now my advice would be to do it somewhere/sometime where nobody you know finds your body, as it would be kind of traumatic

 

[paska_paska]

You gotta ask yourself: "is this person's emotions important enough for me to reschedule it?" If the answer is yes, take their schedule into account when making plans. Now my advice would be to do it somewhere/sometime where nobody you know finds your body, as it would be kind of traumatic

I'm thinking about the plans only because it's a trip somewhere so it's already been paid for and only I and one other person would be going, I think that the whole trip is ruined if I happen to kill myself before it. I wouldn't go either if the other person died.