Whats something gou learned that you learned over time

[FoxSauce]

Ill reply later this headache is killing me

Can be anything

 

[_Gollum_]

Sorry about your headache >_<

Over time I've learned that aging is not a process of collecting wisdom but of accumulating scars.

I've also learned that even the best things in life come with considerable cost, and that they're ultimately not worth it. These "good" things people speak about, they're only distractions. They can make life more tolerable, but they can't make it worth living.

 

[Lost in a Dream]

I learned about efilism, which is an extinctionist philosophy that says all life needs to go extinct to end all suffering. While I wish sometimes there was another way, I don't think there is.

Hopefully your headache is feeling better.

 

[Forever Sleep]

Regarding practical/ creative skills, there's always more to learn- quite often through doing things wrong and trying to work out a better way. The trick is to remember it, the next time you need to do said thing. Which I manage to annoyingly forget frequently enough.

It's taken many decades for me to learn that me worrying intensely about something doesn't usually help. Not that that is enough to stop me always. I think to some degree- ideation has helped in that. When you intend to kill yourself, how much can life things matter?

I suppose it's also taken a long time to learn my own mind. To know where I can be heading into trouble. I'm prone to limerence and binge eating. So- those two things for example- I'm conscious when my thoughts start heading in that direction- to try and nip them in the bud. It's not like I have full control over my mind and emotions but- in some regard, I feel more control over them- rather than them controlling me. I was such a mess in my twenties.

 

[iguazo falls]

lying and keeping quiet saves ur life