What would your reaction be if someone judged you negatively for ctb?

[Foreversad]

I told this guy i met and he seduced me a lot ,trying to have me in his bed and know me better that he shouldnt put effort in this as im too sick and maybe i die before i could go or ctb .he was all judgemental making fun of it .you think i should ditch him ? He seems like a lot obsessed with me . talking to me about whats he wants to do with me in bed all the time ,so he knows my taste and get prepared for it incase we meet .he seems like he plays mind games to get me addicted to him and he says that im going to end up falling for him.its obsessive not flattering

 

[tabletop]

Sounds like a lot of red flags to me but Idk.

 

[Jumping_realms]

I'm not sure that's someone I would want to spend my last days on earth around.

 

[littlelungs]

It's ultimately your choice what you decide to do, of course, but for me personally: YUCK. Judgemental, insensitive, arrogant, obsessive, plays mind games, doesn't seem to respect boundaries...

I could be wrong, as I'm just going by the little bit that you wrote, but by the sounds of it, this guy does not sound like someone I would want anywhere near me.

 

[tabletop]

Also...sounds like his biggest concern is getting himself laid.

 

[Foreversad]

Sounds like a lot of red flags to me but Idk.

He obsessively talked over my body and what he wants to do it for 5 hours and he bragged about girls he had nade it with and then at the end was like ' you re gonna be obsessed in me ' .
He is a quadriplegic .he 'sexes' a lot differently like other people have sex and he said he would like to find out about me to be ready to satisfy my needs . though satisfying my needs has nothing to do with bragging about girls he had sex and telling me i m gonna fall for him .that is his desire and his need .to fall in love with him and the fact he does this so loydly makes me afraid

 

[Toonloon]

He sounds like an asshole ditch him. If someone brags about all the sex they've had before are just talk. If you're great at anything and are confident in it you don't need to brag. Those around you will brag for you. And if he made fun of you for talking about ctb isn't cool it's mean. You should just split from him and find someone nicer.

 

[Foreversad]

He sounds like an asshole ditch him. If someone brags about all the sex they've had before are just talk. If you're great at anything and are confident in it you don't need to brag. Those around you will brag for you. And if he made fun of you for talking about ctb isn't cool it's mean. You should just split from him and find someone nicer.

Actually not trying to find anyone .i would like to hook up but not that horrible way

 

[weepingfree]

It's good to have someone want you, and we usually start off trusting people. But this guy is showing that he's not thinking of you and that he's not very aware of himself. So it's a good time to reevaluate the trust. And you can definitely find someone else who wants you who will treat you worlds better. That's what you deserve.

 

[Foreversad]

It's good to have someone want you, and we usually start off trusting people. But this guy is showing that he's not thinking of you and that he's not very aware of himself. So it's a good time to reevaluate the trust. And you can definitely find someone else who wants you who will treat you worlds better. That's what you deserve.

Thats what i think .i like him too much hes an Paralympic athlete and very friendly guy .but either hes not that skilled and he pretends someone elae in order to get me due to self doubt and low self esteem or he is really that weird.ill be clear from now on to him everytime he acts disrespectfully that i dont like it and if he continues like that he is off

 

[Sprite_Geist]

My reaction would be to tell them that their view is invalid. Those who negatively judge the suicidal often times do not have their best interests in mind, and so they have no position in which to judge them in the first place. If you do not want to help me with my life then you have no business dictating to me what I should do with it.

Get involved, or get out of the way.

 

[forgotten15]

I would spit them in the face just kidding, but would not be far from that. I just get so annoyed by people who are pro life and dare to judge people who took their own life or are suicidal. Like how dare you, you don't know what kinda of pain these people feel and to what extent things have gone that they want to end it.
As far as the guy you mentiond in the post, my advice is get rid of him. He just wants to use you for sex. Seems like he is a narcissistic douche bag, please don't fall for that. After hel'll get what he wants he'll move to the next one and you will get hurt.