I'm 30 years old. My parents got divorced when I was 10. I was the only child and I was living with my mother. 15 years ago my mother had a kid with one guy. He moved out pretty quickly after that. Also, an alcoholic grandma was also living with us already.
In 2016 my mother met another guy. He left prison. There were 5 of us living in one small apartment (2 rooms). I had my own room. My mother, her boyfriend, my sister and grandma were living together in another room. I couldn't stand living in my "childhood home" full of alcoholics fighting. My sister took over my old room and I moved out.
I was able to move out only because I had an opportunity to move to the apartment that belongs to my father's partner. He already said it two times that I should move out from here. The conditions here are awful. Living here makes me really miserable and I really wish to move out from this shithole.
So currently in this "childhood home" there's a mother, still the same boyfriend that she's been living with since 2016, 15 year old sister, and sick grandma who is no longer drinking. Mother with her boyfriend are often drinking, screaming, creating bad atmosphere in the house. He is beating her. But she always forgives him. They occasionally take breaks from each other but sooner or later they always end up together and the cycle repeats.
My mother has been always like this. She is constantly finding bad guys and provoking everything and everyone to create traumatic atmosphere at home.
I have anxiety, depression and physical conditions (mostly gut and joints) which made me a really weak person.
I'm too asocial to rent a room. When it comes to renting a studio flat you need to earn more than a minimum wage. Currently I'm earning more than a minimum wage, but I hate my job and I wish to change it. I have to take few months break between jobs, to recharge my batteries. I cannot simply sign a renting contract with stuff like this.
I feel pathetic that I can't help my sister and she has to live with these monsters.
I fucking hate my mother for that. For putting everyone in this situation. She destroyed the whole house.
Sometimes I'm thinking about moving back there and living with them. Then maybe I would be able to control the situation somehow, by calling police etc. My sister wouldn't be that scared. But there's no space for me there, I would have to share a room with her, which probably would make us feel even more uncomfortable I think.
I have such bipolar thoughts about what approach to take. Sometimes I'm thinking about going all-in and moving to other city and just leave it all behind. On the second hand sometimes I'm thinking about going all-in and moving back to this sweet childhood home and just live with them.
I wonder what would you guys do in this situation?
Man, I feel like such a pathetic looser. I'm a fucking pussy.
In 2016 my mother met another guy. He left prison. There were 5 of us living in one small apartment (2 rooms). I had my own room. My mother, her boyfriend, my sister and grandma were living together in another room. I couldn't stand living in my "childhood home" full of alcoholics fighting. My sister took over my old room and I moved out.
I was able to move out only because I had an opportunity to move to the apartment that belongs to my father's partner. He already said it two times that I should move out from here. The conditions here are awful. Living here makes me really miserable and I really wish to move out from this shithole.
So currently in this "childhood home" there's a mother, still the same boyfriend that she's been living with since 2016, 15 year old sister, and sick grandma who is no longer drinking. Mother with her boyfriend are often drinking, screaming, creating bad atmosphere in the house. He is beating her. But she always forgives him. They occasionally take breaks from each other but sooner or later they always end up together and the cycle repeats.
My mother has been always like this. She is constantly finding bad guys and provoking everything and everyone to create traumatic atmosphere at home.
I have anxiety, depression and physical conditions (mostly gut and joints) which made me a really weak person.
I'm too asocial to rent a room. When it comes to renting a studio flat you need to earn more than a minimum wage. Currently I'm earning more than a minimum wage, but I hate my job and I wish to change it. I have to take few months break between jobs, to recharge my batteries. I cannot simply sign a renting contract with stuff like this.
I feel pathetic that I can't help my sister and she has to live with these monsters.
I fucking hate my mother for that. For putting everyone in this situation. She destroyed the whole house.
Sometimes I'm thinking about moving back there and living with them. Then maybe I would be able to control the situation somehow, by calling police etc. My sister wouldn't be that scared. But there's no space for me there, I would have to share a room with her, which probably would make us feel even more uncomfortable I think.
I have such bipolar thoughts about what approach to take. Sometimes I'm thinking about going all-in and moving to other city and just leave it all behind. On the second hand sometimes I'm thinking about going all-in and moving back to this sweet childhood home and just live with them.
I wonder what would you guys do in this situation?
Man, I feel like such a pathetic looser. I'm a fucking pussy.
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