What would you do if you had a chance to ruin someone's life who ruined your life?

[Oozzy]

Firstly I'm sorry if I post that on the wrong section of forum.
Secondly what I'm planning to do is completly legal I'm not gonna do anything illicit.
And finally starting of the story is complicated and I really dont want to share private details about it.

A person take all of my oportunities to leave this shit hole country, starting a new maybe a happy life. She left me no choice but ctb. But now I have a chance to ruin her life, her family, her job and everything she has. I dont know should I do that to fulfill my desire for revenge. If I had any chances other than ctb I would done it without thinking for a second but what is the good of to satisfy a dead man's feelings? I cant stop thinking if it is worth it I really dont know what to do.

 

[Suicidebydeath]

I wouldn't do anything.

 

[Shivali]

I also would do nothing.

 

[unredeemable]

It will just make things worse. Do you really want to risk carrying that guilt around with you, no matter what you end up doing?

 

[Foresight]

I've personally never found comfort in this kind of retaliation. I've found peace in defending myself in the moment if necessary but if I'm safely away from them I wouldn't do this.

 

[ExtraordinaryDefeat_]

Firstly I'm sorry if I post that on the wrong section of forum.
Secondly what I'm planning to do is completly legal I'm not gonna do anything illicit.
And finally starting of the story is complicated and I really dont want to share private details about it.

A person take all of my oportunities to leave this shit hole country, starting a new maybe a happy life. She left me no choice but ctb. But now I have a chance to ruin her life, her family, her job and everything she has. I dont know should I do that to fulfill my desire for revenge. If I had any chances other than ctb I would done it without thinking for a second but what is the good of to satisfy a dead man's feelings? I cant stop thinking if it is worth it I really dont know what to do.

Revenge is surely the best of all motivators but it's nowhere near being an actual solution to the problem. If you're going to chase your revenge, it will eventually destroy you and give you no satisfaction. The real solution to this problem is to learn to let go and forgive, find an inner balance to your emotional despair. You may think it will make you feel better, but this feeling will only last for such a short period of time, if ever.

Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future.

 

[FuneralCry]

Of course I am not in the same situation, but I would see it as personally being best to not do anything. Also if someone was planning to die, then they would not be there to see the consequences of it anyway.

 

[nopointinlife]

Don't bother doing it. There is no guarantee it will work. If it does work, it won't help you whatsoever other than making you hate yourself for doing it.

 

[outrider567]

Firstly I'm sorry if I post that on the wrong section of forum.
Secondly what I'm planning to do is completly legal I'm not gonna do anything illicit.
And finally starting of the story is complicated and I really dont want to share private details about it.

A person take all of my oportunities to leave this shit hole country, starting a new maybe a happy life. She left me no choice but ctb. But now I have a chance to ruin her life, her family, her job and everything she has. I dont know should I do that to fulfill my desire for revenge. If I had any chances other than ctb I would done it without thinking for a second but what is the good of to satisfy a dead man's feelings? I cant stop thinking if it is worth it I really dont know what to do.

Well, you said yourself that your story is complicated and you don't want to share any more personal info, so its not easy to facilitate an opinion without hearing the whole story

 

[Fadeawaaaay]

Nothing. I don't care enough.

 

[Life_and_Death]

Totally depends on the story. I could easily fuck up my "parents" life because the idiot drives to work high every morning and works security for the local permanent mental health place. But my brothers still live there so the last thing I'm going to do is take a paycheck from them.
Legal or not, you do at the very least have to think of the trickle down effect. Who else is your decision going to effect.

 

[la fin de tout]

I'm not certain the severity of your situation, my life has been ruined by a lot of people, it's not a great place to be. If I was in your position I wouldn't focus on revenge and just stick to ctb

 

[Anonymus]

Nothing at all, if I have any energy left to do something, let it be for my own benefit and not wasted to the detriment of another.
//
Res de res, si em queden energies per fer alguna cosa que sigui en profit meu i no malbaratades en detreniment d'un altre.

 

[ornitier199]

Nothing. I would've been dead anyways. Trapped in Oregon where I knew no one and died. I've no need, desire or interest. Revenge doesn't solve anything but bring about more pain.

 

[sophie22German]

That would be a lot of work. But before I will ctb I'm definitely going to tell my parents how I think about them. They play the biggest role on how my life turns out to be. And the men who used me when I sold my body. And the fucking cancer that took my big love. So plenty to do

 

[At_The_End]

My sons gravestone has a quote. "There is never, ever a time to be unkind."

 

[whocareswhatever]

Don't do it. Guilt will consume you

 

[Oozzy]

I guess you guys are right. I will ctb anyway and probably wont see even if I do that.

 

[Messgram]

I would surely ruin their lives, they deserve it

 

[alliebear]

I would do nothing. Probably thinking about if they could feel what i felt, but unfortunately i wasnt built for payback. Too much empathy:'<

 

[Deleted member 847]

The people that ruined my life lacked the introspection necessary to even understand that they were ruining my life.
I'd say I'd retaliate, but not if it involved hurting people that had nothing to do with it.

 

[Euthanza]

Why not go for that sweet lil joy of revenge awhile before ctb, take the consequences with it

 

[Alex6216]

Do it dude. If am able to I would totally ruin the lives of those who did bad against me and my family

 

[Yakamoz]

Firstly I'm sorry if I post that on the wrong section of forum.
Secondly what I'm planning to do is completly legal I'm not gonna do anything illicit.
And finally starting of the story is complicated and I really dont want to share private details about it.

A person take all of my oportunities to leave this shit hole country, starting a new maybe a happy life. She left me no choice but ctb. But now I have a chance to ruin her life, her family, her job and everything she has. I dont know should I do that to fulfill my desire for revenge. If I had any chances other than ctb I would done it without thinking for a second but what is the good of to satisfy a dead man's feelings? I cant stop thinking if it is worth it I really dont know what to do.

I'd swerve...

 

[Wisdom3_1-9]

It won't solve my problems, but I think about it everyday. Nothing can fix my life, but I feel like there could be some sense of satisfaction if I was able to ruin his life the way he ruined mine. There are several people, actually, but one main culprit. I fantasize about things I could do.

And I do want to hurt him. I want him to suffer. I want him to feel so horrible about himself that he lives everyday wishing he was dead.

So, yes, I think about it constantly. It doesn't bring me peace. It doesn't make me feel better. In fact, I feel worse, because I know that they're only fantasies and I'll never be able to hurt him the way I want. So, all in all, it's a bad thing for me. But I can't help it. It consumes me.

 

[deathbecomesus]

It depends. If the person plans to hurt other people, then maybe. But that's a hard maybe. I still have a hard time imagining myself ruining anyone's life. Even when they ruined mine, I still don't want to push them over the edge. If I have to do it to stop them from hurting other people, then I must, but it wouldn't be fun or enjoyable at all. I'd hate myself the entire way through it. It makes me feel so helpless.

 

[Funeralprincess]

I'd take it in a heartbeat mainly because the person who hurt me gets joy out of harming mentally ill people. I'd make sure they end up disabled, THATS how much rage I feel for what they have done to me and others who have mental illness
I'd do nothing. They will know what they've done when I send them my suicide note and they'll have to live with that guilt

 

[Funeralprincess]

I would do it. The one person who put me in the position of wanting to CTB is the person I want to see suffer immensely and if I could get away with it, I would do it
I would do it. The one person who put me in the position of wanting to CTB is the person I want to see suffer immensely and if I could get away with it, I would do it

 

[silentnight]

I would ask myself this, if I was to die today, would I be in my grave for eternity wishing I had done it? Or would I be in my grave for eternity wishing I hadn't?

Wouldn't listen to a word anyone has to say in terms of doing or not doing it or feeling guilty, you're considering taking your own life, I doubt anyones going to feel guilt for you but I could be wrong.

Also consequences are something to bare in mind, if you do it and don't ctb what would come after?

I hope you make the right decision for yourself and no one else.

 

[Worndown]

I understand the desire to even the score.
The part that is more difficult to feel comfortable with is that they have already ruined their life by being themselves. Over time, they loose. In a world where we desperately need people to be at their best, some continually disappoint.
I am sorry that person left you in this situation. Getting revenge would lessen you and not them.