Firstly I'm sorry if I post that on the wrong section of forum.
Secondly what I'm planning to do is completly legal I'm not gonna do anything illicit.
And finally starting of the story is complicated and I really dont want to share private details about it.
A person take all of my oportunities to leave this shit hole country, starting a new maybe a happy life. She left me no choice but ctb. But now I have a chance to ruin her life, her family, her job and everything she has. I dont know should I do that to fulfill my desire for revenge. If I had any chances other than ctb I would done it without thinking for a second but what is the good of to satisfy a dead man's feelings? I cant stop thinking if it is worth it I really dont know what to do.
I passed up revenge, even prosecuting the woman that brutalized me, threatened to kill me and leave me in the wilderness where I would never be found, gas lit me, destroyed all my relationships, tortured me.
She got sick with a nasty debilitating disease and died rather quickly, loosing her ability to stand, walk, talk and eventually even breath. Couldn't happen to a nicer and what comes around goes around huh?
Yesterday, that bitch came back from the grave and violated me all over again. My children's identity papers that had been stolen from our home, our private file cabinet and our private papers, were found in her home, in terrible condition, torn, stained, curled, some of them missing, possibly sold on the dark net.
Do I wish I had not been the nice person, the turn the other cheek person and put that fucking bitch in jail? Do I wish I had ruined that woman's life and taken everything from her that I possibly could have?
If YOU have the upper hand, if what you are doing is above board and legal; if what she did to you was actually illegal, dangerous, life threatening; if she is the type of person that can/will/does the same horrid things to others she has done to you and will only continue to threaten, harass, harm others, especially children, then take the chance to ruin her life, because once she is dead, it will be a long and time consuming, and most likely expensive process to sue her estate, that is assuming she dies before you and that what she has done to you actually would be something you could sue for.