Discussion What should I do when I get bullied?

[SanctionedSquad]

Hi, until I ctb I want my life to be as peaceful as possible.
In school I get bullied, they make fun of my dead grandma that she had mental dementia and died and they make fun of me cause I tried to kill myself.
They know about my grandma cause I told a "friend" and they know about my suicide attempt cause I was away from school cause of the shitty psych ward.

The problem is that I had to repeat the school year so much that most of the people in my class are 15 and I am 18 so I can't beat them up cause they are basically just dumb kids.
I don't know if teachers can help.
It doesn't matter in the end but I would prefer it to be peaceful in school until I ctb.

But outside school I also get bullied, it is a long story, basically a guy my age bullied me and he didn't stop after I told him to so I planned to beat him up but he found out so now he always tries to hurt me more even though it is his fault cause I only wanted to do that so he stops hurting me in the first place.
I can go to the police but they probably don't care or I tell my brother that he should beat him up cause he is much stronger., I have no regret for him cause he is my age.

Any better idea or any idea at all for the school bullying?

 

[Unwr!tten]

What grade are you in?

 

[SanctionedSquad]

What grade are you in?

9th, why?

 

[Amaterasu]

I'm not sure how grade retention works in Germany…

If you're planning to CTB whilst still attenting, and you're indeed 18… what are you doing wasting your time with schooling?
Are you perpetually stuck there? I'm genuinely confused.

As for bullies, coming from someone who was bullied through-out their schooling years; ignore them.
Their words and opinions hold no value, the sooner you realise that, the better.

 

[SanctionedSquad]

If you're planning to CTB whilst still attenting, and you're indeed 18… what are you doing wasting your time with schooling?
Are you perpetually stuck there? I'm genuinely confused.

How should I get money to get an airbnb or hotel and the things I need to ctb when I just quit school and also how should I explain it to my mother?

 

[Grav]

Does your mother know? It may seem like "crying to mommy" but I'd get her reaction first. Just a "I hate school, kids are saying this, etc". It may not do anything. To me the best end to a bully is to beat them down mentally or physically and that makes them stop, real low-down dirty tricks stuff. But going that route can make the bully seem like a victim and it would probably make others see you in a less than good light. It sucks and no real good fixes. Schools in the US talk a lot about bullying but not sure how effective that is and I believe that's a big chunk of the "kid brings a gun to school" events, you hit a point where enough is enough. Is the bullying a big reason to ctb or is just something else?

Don't know your relationship with your mother but a full open explanation of what's going on and how it's affecting you, to me, is the best way for those conversations. Don't sugar coat it or it can get minimized. If a child says "I hate being in school and this happens daily, etc, and I'm going to ctb to stop it" that should (not always) be such a red-flag that the school gets pushed into gear. Perfect world and such.

 

[BougainvilleaBlooms]

This is just an idea but I'd secretly record them in the act and write all their names down to show as proof to your teachers or principal.

 

[SpiderLink]

Hi, until I ctb I want my life to be as peaceful as possible.
In school I get bullied, they make fun of my dead grandma that she had mental dementia and died and they make fun of me cause I tried to kill myself.
They know about my grandma cause I told a "friend" and they know about my suicide attempt cause I was away from school cause of the shitty psych ward.

The problem is that I had to repeat the school year so much that most of the people in my class are 15 and I am 18 so I can't beat them up cause they are basically just dumb kids.
I don't know if teachers can help.
It doesn't matter in the end but I would prefer it to be peaceful in school until I ctb.

But outside school I also get bullied, it is a long story, basically a guy my age bullied me and he didn't stop after I told him to so I planned to beat him up but he found out so now he always tries to hurt me more even though it is his fault cause I only wanted to do that so he stops hurting me in the first place.
I can go to the police but they probably don't care or I tell my brother that he should beat him up cause he is much stronger., I have no regret for him cause he is my age.

Any better idea or any idea at all for the school bullying?

I'm so sorry that these people are doing this to u! I wish people could see how their actions and words affect others. I've also been bullied, a lot of my life. I'm 18 as well. Do you have a CYC or a social worker at your school you can talk to? And have u told any teachers or staff that you trust that people are doing this to u? As for the other part of your message, it's a bit vague… do they live with u?

 

[WorthlessCoward]

If you get shoved, you shove back, that's the way the world works.

 

[SoftWorries]

Hi, until I ctb I want my life to be as peaceful as possible.
In school I get bullied, they make fun of my dead grandma that she had mental dementia and died and they make fun of me cause I tried to kill myself.
They know about my grandma cause I told a "friend" and they know about my suicide attempt cause I was away from school cause of the shitty psych ward.

The problem is that I had to repeat the school year so much that most of the people in my class are 15 and I am 18 so I can't beat them up cause they are basically just dumb kids.
I don't know if teachers can help.
It doesn't matter in the end but I would prefer it to be peaceful in school until I ctb.

But outside school I also get bullied, it is a long story, basically a guy my age bullied me and he didn't stop after I told him to so I planned to beat him up but he found out so now he always tries to hurt me more even though it is his fault cause I only wanted to do that so he stops hurting me in the first place.
I can go to the police but they probably don't care or I tell my brother that he should beat him up cause he is much stronger., I have no regret for him cause he is my age.

Any better idea or any idea at all for the school bullying?

I worked in a dementia ward. Those bullies are so ignorant and have no empathy making fun of the elderly.

Like it's going to be a bad life for them when their family members get sick. You should film them and ask, "why do you like making fun of elderly people with dementia?"

Post their abuse on YouTube and let the public square teach empathy to these bastards.