What part of existence bothers you the most?

[finishLana]

The fact that we have to work in order to exist, social factors, living standards, stress, inequality and injustice?

 

[mlha]

That there are needs to support your own life which will make you do things you don't want. And that you realize this when you already exist, i.e. when it's too late. You can't know it upfront before emerging. It's a very shitty deal.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

The fact that no matter what we do, our atoms will never be free from the chaos of reality. Even while nonliving, the molecules that composed our bodies will never be destroyed and simply be redistributed possibly into other creatures who will still suffer and/or cause other beings to also suffer and all for what? What's the point of it all? Another thing that sucks about existence is the fact that none of us will ever be able to learn or even grasp what the real point of it all was, if there even is a point.

 

[Gustav Hartmann]

If you enjoy your life, like I do, the worst part of existence is that we age. But I know without aging, disappearing and giving way for subsequent generations there would be probably no life at all.

 

[Kobusu]

The pain of awareness

 

[luten]

everything is commercialized

 

[Insomniac]

the fact that I'm alone and alone.

and also loneliness.

and also the fact that most problems have easy logical solutions but rationality involves breaking super taboos and committing sacrileges.

and also what everyone else said above.

 

[TheNorthernSilence]

The randomness of certain things that will have a role determing your future; like when you are born, where you are born and things like that.

 

[VoidDesirer22]

Just that suffering exists. That there are those free nerve endings that register the pain signal and then transmit it to the brain for processing. That is horrifying.

 

[Silenos]

It bothers me that existence exists.

 

[Sherri]

The fact that they are taking our freedoms little by little and they are destroying the planet. This tech word is creating more mental diseases, and no one stands up to it. At least our grandparents had the courage to fight for what was not right.

 

[chocolatebar]

No one mentioned the lack of consent into coming to existence yet?
I know it's a paradox and it would be impossible for someone to exist with its consent, but I think the right solution would be for no one to exist.

 

[mlha]

No one mentioned the lack of consent into coming to existence yet?
I know it's a paradox and it would be impossible for someone to exist with its consent, but I think the right solution would be for no one to exist.

Not just ordinary consent, it should be informed consent which makes the paradox even more pronounced.

 

[HeckingHecked]

The pain of awareness

Self awareness sucks lmao

 

[Fadeawaaaay]

I'm lonely

 

[Emu]

Just living and the thought of having to live for other people… this bothers me every second of every day it's misery and to top it off I'm in phys hospital.. it's bloody hell stuck somewhere where I shouldn't actually have to be..!!!! Gaahhhhh

 

[fox_wannabe]

The that future scares me, also having to live up to expectations or having to live in difficult times that will come. Having to fulfill my desires and needs, having to work in future when I hate working with other people and am lazy, unmotivated person. Also sexual urges I will never fulfill. The fact that as long as I live I will never be fully at peace, while I could just rest in peaceful void for infinity, without worry about future or past.

 

[Mashedout]

The fact that every important question has no answer and that we're left with a bunch of time wasting distractions waiting for death. What is the origin of consciousness? What happens when you die? Do we matter at all in the full picture of all reality?

 

[FuneralCry]

Everything about being alive bothers me, living is very painful. I see consciousness as being torture. I think what bothers me in particular is that there is a lack of peaceful/reliable ways to exit avaliable and the fact that society denies the option of euthanasia. If suicide was easier for me, it would end this existence and I would be free from all suffering.

 

[MelancholyMagic]

The suffering part.
Well, that's a little broad. I'd probably have to go with the fact that there is no universal RTD for anyone for any reason. If I knew that no matter how bad it got, I'd always be allowed to leave, I would feel better. But as it is now, my future is deeply uncertain. Something truly awful could happen tomorrow that sentences me to an even worse hell, and I may have no ability to escape due to government/society's horrific paternalism.

 

[Thequietone]

The survival instinct of your body. That your brain can wish for dying but in the same time it stops you from acting.

 

[deflationary]

It's mostly other people tbh. I feel like the vaaast majority of people are severely deficient in self-awareness and reflection. Everything is driven by motivated reasoning. It's an absurd horror show. Not like I'm that much better either, my own inability to escape the same tendencies is also bothersome.

 

[All Things Must Pass]

The fact that the ceiling can fall over you at this very instant crippling you for the next seventy odd years

 

[Callie Arcale]

The part which bothers me the most is the part about breathing. I'd enjoy my life a lot more if I wasn't breathing.

Ok, on a serious note: What bothers me the most is the way the medical community misstreats ME/CFS patients. Not having my suffering recognized by medical professionals for years, has been an almost unbearable act of violence. Almost all ME/CFS patients are dismissed out of hand and go through years and years of medical gaslighting. Some of us are lucky enough to get a correct diagnosis in the end, but for many, the sad reality is that they got told to exercise and change their thought patterns. And this advice is given to people who suffer from a profound dysfunction of the nervous system, the immune system, cell metabolism and virtually all body systems.

 

[ClownMe]

Toss up between working, everything being pointless because we will all die one day and people just being shitty in general.

 

[bettyboop40]

It's just pointless! Whether I die now of in 20/40 years time will make no difference to the world. I,m just a small ant in a factory waiting to be squished.

 

[knux]

The sheer mundanity of it. Brutal.

 

[Snake of Eden]

Having to compare ourselves with others in all aspects. Either feeling more superior or inferior. Both are really bad and undesirable

 

[fox_wannabe]

Sorry for taking to much space (that is kinda sad I feel I need to be sorry about it, but I will leave it here)

It's mostly other people tbh. I feel like the vaaast majority of people are severely deficient in self-awareness and reflection. Everything is driven by motivated reasoning. It's an absurd horror show. Not like I'm that much better either, my own inability to escape the same tendencies is also bothersome.

Be careful It might make you more suicidal. We were thrown into blender of life, where everything works like inanimate robots. From bacteria to countries, where real pain is felt by us, from sickness to war. I feel trampled or at least used by people many times over when they just pursue expansion of their little egos. It was expected of me to be like that too, because It pays.

The part which bothers me the most is the part about breathing. I'd enjoy my life a lot more if I wasn't breathing.

Ok, on a serious note: What bothers me the most is the way the medical community misstreats ME/CFS patients. Not having my suffering recognized by medical professionals for years, has been an almost unbearable act of violence. Almost all ME/CFS patients are dismissed out of hand and go through years and years of medical gaslighting. Some of us are lucky enough to get a correct diagnosis in the end, but for many, the sad reality is that they got told to exercise and change their thought patterns. And this advice is given to people who suffer from a profound dysfunction of the nervous system, the immune system, cell metabolism and virtually all body systems.

I am sorry about your condition, chronic fatigue must be terrible, I hate being fatigued for no reason. And healthcare is terrible for people with unusual illnesses. They just are useless and misdiagnose people to pretend they can treat disease that wasn't there rather than one which is real. But that is just my theory.

The sheer mundanity of it. Brutal.

I feel like extra in apocalypse movie, like that one sun ray which travels millions of kilometres to bounce of pile of shit. We have magnificent gift of consciousness which is miracle of highest order, but that miracle is forced to work half of time or study, and rest is used by eating and procreating. It is like joke without punchline. I was hoping I could at least see something epic like meteor killing all life on earth. But no, I just browse internet and stare at walls.

Having to compare ourselves with others in all aspects. Either feeling more superior or inferior. Both are really bad and undesirable

Wise words you said

 

[SuicidallyCurious]

Nothing ever gets better . It only gets worse.

We live in a system where most people pretend everything gets better and that drives me insane


"New towns from the 500s " in an area where people are shot on the regular . Only Americans will get this quote