Discussion What needs to change in your life to stop making you suicidal ?

[MeltingBrain]

List what all needs to change in your life to stop making you suicidal .

For me it's :
- My physical ailment goes away .

If this happens I will stop being suicidal. I will get the rest of the things sorted on my own or they will be tolerable enough for me to continue living .

 

[darkenmydoorstep]

I want my son grown up so I can move out of the family home without guilt. He is nearly 12 so I probably have another 6 years or so.

 

[DesperateOne]

Removal of mental illness which was caused by extreme isolation and internet addiction. For me to have a normal life I would need to restart it since my brain is beyond repair at this point.

 

[S like suicide]

I tried many things thinking they would be helpful but i am at a point now where I realized what will stop me being suicidal is being dead.

 

[tiredand]

I want an attachment figure to securely attach to and to hug and that won't leave me and tell me i'll be okay

 

[absolutelyyou]

A huge one for me was no longer having to deal with my mother/worrying about dealing with her reentering my life..... well she ctb a few months ago so I've for sure gone through a huge mental shift.

 

[peachchildtenshi]

nothing,
It doesn't matter for me anyways,
It's not like anyone would care

 

[GM28]

Can't undo past mistakes unfortunately sometimes. So nothing.

 

[BlazingBob]

List what all needs to change in your life to stop making you suicidal .

For me it's :
- My physical ailment goes away .

If this happens I will stop being suicidal. I will get the rest of the things sorted on my own or they will be tolerable enough for me to continue living .

Same here. Things would be so much different if I were physically healthy. Feeling like shit all the time has zapped my will to live.

 

[ctb7767]

Can't undo past mistakes unfortunately sometimes. So nothing.

yep

 

[suicidesheep31.1]

Having a partner with whom i can share random stuff and serious stuff.
Having my own family.
And not having to take pills for my physical illness as well.
But I think the two first are the most important and the third is a limitation that could unfortunately lead to not be ale to achieve the two first.

 

[ghostgirlxx_23]

List what all needs to change in your life to stop making you suicidal .

For me it's :
- My physical ailment goes away .

If this happens I will stop being suicidal. I will get the rest of the things sorted on my own or they will be tolerable enough for me to continue living .

Probably if I'm able to treat my mental health problems and addiction. But my family also plays a big roll because they treat me like shit. Once I move far away, I think it would help me a lot.

 

[candying]

Removal of my mental disorders (bipolar, depression, anxiety, autism, disordered eating)

 

[sserafim]

List what all needs to change in your life to stop making you suicidal .

For me it's :
- My physical ailment goes away .

If this happens I will stop being suicidal. I will get the rest of the things sorted on my own or they will be tolerable enough for me to continue living .

Capitalism needs to be dismantled, my Asperger's/autism, ADHD, and social anxiety need to go away, obligation to participate in and contribute to society, having to work for a living and pay to exist on this planet go away

If this happens I will stop being suicidal. I will finally have freedom from society and responsibilities. I really don't want to have to work for a living or become a wageslave to capitalism. This is so depressing and is one of the main factors why I'm suicidal. I really don't want to have to buy into this capitalist system. I would have no freedom at all, and instead would be chained to a job for like 40-60 years. This actively makes me suicidal. I don't think this is a meaningful existence.

The bigger issue is capitalism and our capitalist society, and life and having to live under late-stage capitalism. Therefore I believe that if the root cause of the problem is overthrown, then my suicidal feelings will go away

 

[R_N]

I need to be a billionaire and super healthy. Never get sick and die painlessly one day without expecting it.

 

[Duality]

Never needing to work again, which would require a lot of money, and being healthy all the time. This wouldn't change my mind regarding the choice people should have on committing suicide, but those two things would make me seriously reconsider taking my own life.

 

[FuneralCry]

To die, in my case I just don't wish to exist and I see wanting suicide as the only rational response to being burdened with the ability to suffer endlessly in this meaningless and unnecessary existence. Only death comforts me, and only death can bring me peace, existence is something completely undesirable.

I don't see any benefit to existing as conscious being trapped in a decaying flesh prison, existence was just a horrific mistake and only nothingness is ideal as one cannot suffer from not existing, once I die existence won't be my problem anymore which is perfection.

 

[serah]

for someone to love me probably, it won't fix my mental issues but i think it'd make life bearable.

 

[jonward55]

Clear my debts, as simple as that as a direct answer to the original question.

 

[Deleted member 65988]

Nothing

 

[ang3lz]

All my friends to no longer hate me and have me blocked everywhere (I still don't know what I did). Not have my almost $100,000 debt. Cost of living... dying seems easier than the constant threat of losing housing, even on decent income. For my body to not look as disgusting as it does.

 

[d3j3ct3dl0s3r05]

I wake up one day and suddenly just understand the world without feeling like an outsider all the time and am able to actually make friends myself. I only have an extroverted pity friend that not-so-subtly "adopted" me basically. I think she does like me but her friend group not so much, I always feel like I'm not supposed to be there when we hang out and generally just end up relegating myself to a random corner.

 

[Georgehelm]

List what all needs to change in your life to stop making you suicidal .

For me it's :
- My physical ailment goes away .

If this happens I will stop being suicidal. I will get the rest of the things sorted on my own or they will be tolerable enough for me to continue living .

I don't think I'll ever stop being suicidal not until I'm dead.

 

[Neverfeltdeader]

Financial circumstances. If only I had a large sum of money to specifically alter my face and perhaps some things about my body, I would be a much happier person. Also, perhaps a new brain that isn't obsessed with suicide/ anxiety ridden. Oh, and a much more mentally stable family wouldn't hurt.

 

[MeltingBrain]

I don't think I'll ever stop being suicidal not until I'm dead.

Still , even if that thing is impossible to get there must be something .

 

[sserafim]

All my friends to no longer hate me and have me blocked everywhere (I still don't know what I did). Not have my almost $100,000 debt. Cost of living... dying seems easier than the constant threat of losing housing, even on decent income. For my body to not look as disgusting as it does.

I hate the cost of living! I hate that we have to pay to exist and that existence costs money

 

[Forever Sleep]

It used to be that I needed to earn enough money to survive from doing the job that means so much to me. My heart's gone out of it to some extent anyway now. Besides that though- there are lots of other obstacles to that. Firstly, I'm probably not good enough despite devoting my life to this. I'm certainly not socially confident enough to work with other people. It would likely mean moving all over the country again which I'm sick of doing. It would likely mean working 16 hour days. So then- the question really becomes- just how happy do you think you'd be being exploited like that? Not very- is the answer.

The other option would be having enough money to not work- or, to continue to fail comfortably at what I'm doing. Lol.

Still- longterm- I don't think I'm willing to put up with illness and old age. Nothing would make that worthwhile.

 

[SN drinker]

Restart at 20 years old with no mental illness + less ugly.

 

[void kitty]

That likely depends honestly at the end of the day I'd happily prefer to death than anything, If there is something that could ease pain and make it more tolerable would be an overall situational and circumstantial and personal change that I get the help, I'm needed to comfortably affirm my own gender identity and help for my mental that I have always needed and acceptance and being able to follow my dream at least in this life.

 

[dmdmdm]

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