Discussion What makes you, You?

[Loaf]

Personality, appearance, acheivements, likes, dislikes, experiences, etc. What trait, traits, or the lack thereof makes you "You"? Not specifically asking what makes you unique though. Maybe just how you describe yourself.

Okay, I'll go first. I am Loaf. I'm someone who gets a lot of friends but not a single one of them knew my inner turmoils. I'm someone who would giggle at your jokes no matter how unfunny it is. I'm an introvert but i like bothering people lol. I'm noisy online but my mind is blank when socializing irl. I'm very spontaneous. The next thing you know, i might already be dead. I love people. Well... Most of them at least. I like hanging out with people who's alone may you be the popular person or the shy one, I'll ask you about how to do something obvious and evaluate how willing are you to talk at me. Shy, hesitant, direct, energetic, confused response? We might become friends! I'll tail you wherever awkwardly if you don't shoo me off hehe.

I'm just a bored friend who's be up to anything no matter how random hehe.
... Fine, I skipped schoolworks to hang out. I can't escape my escapism =w=

Sorry, i have adhd if it isn't obvious enough. I forgot why I'm writing this already xD

 

[Greyhawk]

You sound like a nice person. I can relate to having friends who do knot know about my inner struggles. I'm just incredibly socially awkward and have very bad conversational and social skills.

 

[Macedonian1987]

You sound like a nice person. I can relate to having friends who do knot know about my inner struggles. I'm just incredibly socially awkward and have very bad conversational and social skills.

Same here. I've got Asperger's syndrome. Everyone is avoiding me because I'm just too weird and I'm totaly unable to engage into smalltalk.

 

[ABadPerson]

Would it be weird to say nothing is 'me'? I am not sure of my genuine person, I just have so many different personalities that I cycle between that they all at once don't feel anywhere close to who 'I' would be; I can't even really decide if I would say I'm an introvert or extrovert, neither really describe me on a meaningful level.

All I know is that I'm a bad person who's interests and thoughts entirely depends on who I want to get really close to; not to say I lie, I just focus more on everything that person finds interesting/likes. I guess I'm a humanitarian due to my leftist ideologies though I feel as though that's more so just a given on a site like this, and I like playing the guitar.

Edit: to expand on what I was saying I mean that most/almost all of my interests/hobbies been built up either because of someone else or a weird subconscious train of thought to just want to build up interests that would interest others rather than anything I could potentially like for the sake of it.

 

[FoxSauce]

I have no idea how to respond to that tbh.

Personality, appearance, acheivements, likes, dislikes, experiences, etc. What trait, traits, or the lack thereof makes you "You"? Not specifically asking what makes you unique though. Maybe just how you describe yourself.

Okay, I'll go first. I am Loaf. I'm someone who gets a lot of friends but not a single one of them knew my inner turmoils. I'm someone who would giggle at your jokes no matter how unfunny it is. I'm an introvert but i like bothering people lol. I'm noisy online but my mind is blank when socializing irl. I'm very spontaneous. The next thing you know, i might already be dead. I love people. Well... Most of them at least. I like hanging out with people who's alone may you be the popular person or the shy one, I'll ask you about how to do something obvious and evaluate how willing are you to talk at me. Shy, hesitant, direct, energetic, confused response? We might become friends! I'll tail you wherever awkwardly if you don't shoo me off hehe.

I'm just a bored friend who's be up to anything no matter how random hehe.
... Fine, I skipped schoolworks to hang out. I can't escape my escapism =w=

Sorry, i have adhd if it isn't obvious enough. I forgot why I'm writing this already xD

You seem like a awesome person.
Energetic how??

 

[pthnrdnojvsc]

What am I? Just many meaingless time wasting destructive habits they programmed me with especially before age 18 but continue to this day

TV , youtube , social media, watcher addictions etc

Just a brain filled with all that above and more destructive beliefs and garbage

I like all sentient animals is a brain that can suffer unending constant unbearable pain

id say I'm a rat with these addictions programmed in my brain

I need to change to become a suicider

 

[WrathfulGloom32]

Hating life probably

 

[X-sanguinate86]

My never-ending failure?

 

[vanillamilkshakes]

Overthinking.

 

[Mooncry]

I need to change to become a suicider

Man, don't you know you gotta say "sewer slider," otherwise you're gonna get cancelled on Twitterrrrr smh my head

 

[Irisse]

My trauma, memories and personality.

 

[Lycoris]

I read this and my first instinct was probably to write something self loathing or self hating but honestly I dont even really believe that of myself. One of the only things keeping me here is the fact I feel like deep down I deserve better even if its a little delusional to think im any special. I'd probably describe myself as cold person to outsiders, warm to those i trust and someone who longs for stuff a lot. Basically the yearner, that family member that you dont hear from anymore and probably think is dead, the inconsistent friend that tries to make the small moments special and the invisible woman everywhere else. I don't really know how people see me but sometimes its better that I dont know because i want to keep everything that makes me, me.