
Sprite_Geist
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- May 27, 2020
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They say that if you do not stay at home and think that much your life would be better.
They tell me that if I would go to work I would not have time to think what problems I have.
Having a job doesn't stop someone from being suicidal; unless if someones suicidal thoughts are caused by unemployment or lack of stable income for example, but this isn't the case for every individual. There are a lot of people out in the world who do have jobs and still want to end their lives, and in some cases it can actually be the job which makes them feel suicidal - such as with cases of workplace bullying, or that their job doesn't give them a sense of purpose. Once again it all comes down to the fact that everyone has their own different problems/reasons for wanting to commit suicide, and there is no single silver bullet (pun sort of intended!) to solve said problems. This includes "Just getting a job!"
What kind of argument is that? They are telling me, "go and do some mindless work in order to not think what is your position in life compared with other people, like us. We manage to pass the day by doing some useless job, why can't you do it too??"
It is not really an argument; instead a way of avoiding an argument. It's a form of Crab Bucket Theory - "We've gotta suffer so you should too!" You may wish to read more into this theory.
What kind of argument is that when you're aware that other people have betterl ife opportunities in love and work. And then they say: that's life.
"That's life" is similar to the phrase: "Life is unfair. Get used to it." They are both used dismiss the problems and suffering of others. Sure life will never be perfect,
so in a way those phrases are true to an extent. However while we can never have a world that is perfect or completely fair, it still has the potential to be much fairer
The problem with building a better world, though, is that part of doing this would mean changing our behaviour; like trying to be more kind and empathetic to each other. Some people are either unable or just unwilling to change their ways; they prefer the good 'ol Dog Eat Dog game, and so they use the "The world is tough. Just get on with it!" attitude as a way to justify their apathy.