Venting What is the root cause of all your suffering?

[pthnrdnojvsc]

What is the root cause of all your suffering?

All this is just my opinion.

Every bit of suffering was caused by the fact that u were born .

Why were u born? because ur parents had the belief that "life is good" in their brains

I think life is very bad the worst thing in the universe as it's the only thing that causes unending constant unbearable pain. So of course I won't be bringing any human into this hell. If ur parents believed what I do u would never have been born.

I don't blame parents in most cases. Imo the society/culture and other humans put that belief in them.

People think it's a natural instinct to want to have children. I don't believe that. I and many others never wanted to have children.

So the root cause of all suffering is the belief " life is good / sacred / important valuable" and those who push that belief directly , indirectly, on purpose, or not on purpose.

Yes they also had the belief that having children is beautiful but that is also only possible with the belief "life is good"

But it's not just ur parents but every single one of ur ancestors , grandparents etc had this belief "life is good" .

If a lot of people believed what I believe that life is the worst function in the universe we'd have guaranteed suicide methods available, suicide would not be so stigmatized , and this species would have died out.

It's the pervasive belief that life is good why we don't have guaranteed suicide methods available to all

It's this almost universally held false belief why millions people are in a trap of extreme suffering with no guaranteed suicide method as a way out
In conclusion. The false belief "life is good / sacred / important/ valuable" and those who push that belief are the root cause of all ur suffering and of all suffering.

That false belief and and All who push it are the cause of all suffering

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

It's me. I'm the cause of my suffering. I don't even like doing it to myself but I have to because I hate him so much that I want him to suffer as I have suffered.

 

[locked*n*loaded]

Why were u born? because ur parents had the belief that "life is good" in their brains

I was born, well maybe not born but, rather, created, because my father's condom had a hole in it. In the 1960s, abortion was not a popular option.

And life circumstances are at the root of my suffering.

 

[iloverachel]

A combination of things
Loneliness
My brain
Trauma just to name a few

 

[derpyderpins]

I'm more Jungian than Freudian by nature, but all roads lead to my mom the more I reflect on my life. She overworries so much, and definitely has untreated mental health problems of her own. I was mostly a model student in high school, but I remember every time I got in trouble - the screaming, the hours (usually days) where there was no warmth in the house, and it became me avoiding that at all costs. Avoid flipping her switch. It made me perpetually nervous and anxious, which in turn led to everything else.

 

[RemainingDubious]

Ultimately i guess it's me that's the root of my suffering. If i wasn't able to perceive the things that i dislike. i wouldn't have anything to dislike in the first place.

 

[LaVieEnRose]

Being autistic

 

[Jorms_McGander]

Mental and Other Humans are the same, for me. So I picked "other" and you get my full answer here.

 

[stuck_here]

Just a one word answer...ex...commitment screwed me up so bad...hms...

 

[ijustwishtodie]

The root cause of all of my suffering is due to my autism and how over sensitive I am to suffering. Suffering is inherent to life as everybody suffers but most people can still be resilient and push on despite that. They're okay with the idea that life has ups and downs but I'm not okay with that. I feel a lot of suffering from things that normies can easily push through.

I voted "something else" in the poll because that something else is life itself. Yes, I am suffering a lot because I am over sensitive due to my autism which would count as being under mental but I don't see it as autism itself causing my suffering. I see my autism as it instead being the gateway to me experiencing a lot of suffering which, mind you, already exists in life and will always exist in life

 

[bleak371]

Abuse, addiction, neglect and just being too far gone by the point anyone decided to intervene

 

[AmericanMary]

Men & trauma
The fact that American is about the end up in flames
OCD & BPD

 

[chestnut]

Being unable to form stable connections with humans and fit in with others, loneliness, trauma, body image issues, lack of self-worth, chronic illness...

 

[SilentSadness]

Other humans, all the way from birth to how I'm treated. But ultimately, existence itself is the root cause of suffering.

 

[bwerner]

Regretting financial mistakes I made over the past 10 years.

 

[waningmoth]

Ocd bpd and a crippling severity of emetophobia. Being house bound and alone while the non screwed up parts of my brain are highly ambitious and wish for things i cannot have

 

[derpyderpins]

The fact that American is about the end up in flames

While living conditions have definitely been in a sharp decline I'm very interested in watching the blaze. I say get on with it already.

 

[sserafim]

Hell is other people

 

[Scythe]

Where's the all of the above option, I hate society, I hate myself, and I hate humans.

 

[evannave]

BPD's a bitch lmao

 

[Z-A]

Mental health paired with physical symptoms. Resulted from too much stress and pressure in all areas of my life and missed opportunities.

 

[FuneralCry]

The fact that I was so harmfully forced into existence is the cause of all my suffering of course, I suffer as I was burdened with something so futile and torturous as human existence and more than anything I wish I never existed at all.

To me it's horrific how humans procreate even know there is never a need for existence with nobody being able to suffer from the absence of everything. To have the ability to exist truly is an abomination, I see existence itself as the true problem and I'd always prefer to not exist no matter what, non-existence truly is the only relief and only ceasing to exist can bring me peace.

It's just so hellish how they impose existence especially as there is literally endless potential for agony and torment as long as one exists, it disturbs me how a human is capable of suffering so unbearably in this existence that was always so meaningless in the first place, all that's ideal to me is staying eternally unaware of the evil that is existence, I don't want to suffer in any way, instead I just want nothingness.

 

[lovedread]

Me. Im the root cause

 

[halleyscomet]

The root of all my suffering is years of neglect and bullying in my informative years, causing me to develop a suicidal mindset so early on into my life, that I cannot fathom it being any other way. Yes I'm mentally ill and autistic, but things would be so much more manageable if anyone irl actually cared or listened to me. If someone loved me or appreciated me like 10% of how I do to others, I think things would be much different.

 

[Sadsadsad0000]

Being trans. I wish I was cis and didn't have to deal with this baggage

 

[jbleakness]

Always leads back to me and my decisions.

 

[LaughingGoat]

About 375 millions years ago, fish started evolving to live on land. It's been all downhill from there.

 

[dask]

mainly gender dysphoria, hearing people constantly being so hateful about it (they dont know thankuflly) and other things out of my control. I feel like i can't tell them otherwise they'll hate me from the point onward, i tried coming out to my family 2 years ago but they simply saw it as an excuse to grow out my hair

theres like 1 or 2 people that would be supportive but i dont think i can trust them to keep it quiet i just cant wait for the day i finally either move out or end it for once