Venting what is it like to have a loving family?

[Hibiki]

i could use this post to talk about my verbally abusive mother, but that's not the focus of my current feelings... i just can't even get along with my family. i always feel so uncomfortable because i can't be my true self around them. i can't take off my jacket for one second without my father freaking out because people will see my scars. i can't think of a single thing to talk about because all that goes through my head are sexual and suicidal thoughts. it's so clear that everyone else is closer with each other and i am just a shadow in the corner. i feel as though nobody would blink an eye if i suddenly disappeared. family trips are dreadful instead of exciting, like they should be, because i know i'll just feel out of place.

they don't seem to care about me as a person either. they only get excited about me when i'm doing something favorable, like playing music, and then they think it's okay to ask me to play whatever they want even though they never talk to me otherwise. you'd think that, as a dog, i'd be more than happy to follow their orders just so they wouldn't dislike me, but for whatever reason, i get so overwhelmed i can't do anything...

i don't even get a chance to breathe because my dad's always nagging me to be where everyone else is and interact with them. i blocked his number because he wouldn't stop texting me to do this, do that, come here, no matter how many times i expressed my frustrations to him. dad knows how i am and yet he still thinks it's easy for me to function all the time... it's exhausting... i want to go home

source: yukki bunny on gelbooru

 

[SunnySideSummer]

Feel the same but your case seems even worse

Be brave , if my own case is hard to me i dont know how peoples in this forum can survive through their life thats seems harder than mine

I feel guilty to have suicidal thoughts with all this

I know its not a compétition its just to say i feel what you say and wish you the best

Maybe you need something to affirme yourself , something but what ? I think about it on myself...
You know , i watched a tv show : Bob's burger

Did not watch the episodes in order but felt the évolutions of the characters, subtil, little , very good

Anyway its a good show peoples love it for being a wholesome show with a family that feel real and that really love each others in a realistic and relatable way

Watching it make me feel better and madenme want to have childrens

I love the Belcher's kids , spécially Tina i wish a daughter like Tina even if when i was discovering i used to dislike her and think she is annoying and just weird lol but she is so lovable, they all are lovable

Yeah this show may be will make you think about yourself, about stuff , make you feel good and give you hope

 

[Hibiki]

Feel the same but your case seems even worse

Be brave , if my own case is hard to me i dont know how peoples in this forum can survive through their life thats seems harder than mine

I feel guilty to have suicidal thoughts with all this

I know its not a compétition its just to say i feel what you say and wish you the best

i understand. i myself feel similarly when i see other people's posts sometimes. it's easy to get caught up in that way of thinking, but we are all here for the same reasons, so it's okay to trust your feelings

You know , i watched a tv show : Bob's burger

Did not watch the episodes in order but felt the évolutions of the characters, subtil, little , very good

Anyway its a good show peoples love it for being a wholesome show with a family that feel real and that really love each others in a realistic and relatable way

Watching it make me feel better and madenme want to have childrens

I love the Belcher's kids , spécially Tina i wish a daughter like Tina even if when i was discovering i used to dislike her and think she is annoying and just weird lol but she is so lovable, they all are lovable

Yeah this show may be will make you think about yourself, about stuff , make you feel good and give you hope

i'm very pleased to hear that watching the show works for you, but i imagine if i tried it, i'd be even more depressed, seeing the differences between their perfect family and mine, and knowing i'll never have that... lol

 

[SunnySideSummer]

i understand. i myself feel similarly when i see other people's posts sometimes. it's easy to get caught up in that way of thinking, but we are all here for the same reasons, so it's okay to trust your feelings


i'm very pleased to hear that watching the show works for you, but i imagine if i tried it, i'd be even more depressed, seeing the differences between their perfect family and mine, and knowing i'll never have that... lol

I dont think it will make you more dépression

Yeah I had this bitter sweet moment thinking about the parents and siblings i wish i had (even if my relation with my sibling wasnt that bad but hey its complicate)

But it will maybe make you want to have a family and just appreciate the moment watching this TV show

My favorite character is Tina the girl on m'y profil picture