Help what does it mean if a man says he wants space from u

[bnkshawty]

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[divinemistress36]

He needs time to think

 

[bnkshawty]

He needs time to think

is it a bad thing

 

[divinemistress36]

is it a bad thing

Not necessarily. Men dont like to talk about their feelings like women do sometimes they need space to figure things out

 

[Nobody'sHero]

Okay, so I'm going to try to be totally honest with you, but nice... If he told you he wants space it means jus that... HE WANTS SPACE... You told him that you were going to kill yourself if he broke up with you which is a MAJOR RED FLAG. You are trying to hold him hostage in a relationship that he no longer wants to be a part of, that is pretty fucked. I don't know the history, but chill the fuck out... As for you, time alone might also be useful in order to grow and reflect on things. An end of a relationship does not mean the end of your life, try to calm down and not do anything rash or extreme. You doing rash and extreme things will ONLY GUARANTEE that he leaves in the long run, he might be there for the time being (out of guilt) but I 100% guarantee that he will leave afterwards. I personally would not stand for this emotional terrorism (that's what it is). The only way to even have a possibility of getting him back is to chill the fuck out, reflect, listen to his concerns, have him listen to yours, and achieving an agreement on the future of the relationship.

 

[bnkshawty]

Not necessarily. Men dont like to talk about their feelings like women do sometimes they need space to figure things out

gross
no when i told him that is was like a ayhr ago but made it a silly joke ig this is now hes saying he wants space

Okay, so I'm going to try to be totally honest with you, but nice... If he told you he wants space it means jus that... HE WANTS SPACE... You told him that you were going to kill yourself if he broke up with you which is a MAJOR RED FLAG. You are trying to hold him hostage in a relationship that he no longer wants to be a part of, that is pretty fucked. I don't know the history, but chill the fuck out... As for you, time alone might also be useful in order to grow and reflect on things. An end of a relationship does not mean the end of your life, try to calm down and not do anything rash or extreme. You doing rash and extreme things will ONLY GUARANTEE that he leaves in the long run, he might be there for the time being (out of guilt) but I 100% guarantee that he will leave afterwards. I personally would not stand for this emotional terrorism (that's what it is). The only way to even have a possibility of getting him back is to chill the fuck out, reflect, listen to his concerns, have him listen to yours, and achieving an agreement on the future of the relationship.

no im acc very good at masking these scary emotions i have im very understanding w him but like it makes me peel my skin lowk hes very noncholant/avoidant type man and i try my best2 do everything4 him en i said id kms over him was very long time ago and i made it as silly joke and i do not guilt him at all ur assuming a lot XD

Okay, so I'm going to try to be totally honest with you, but nice... If he told you he wants space it means jus that... HE WANTS SPACE... You told him that you were going to kill yourself if he broke up with you which is a MAJOR RED FLAG. You are trying to hold him hostage in a relationship that he no longer wants to be a part of, that is pretty fucked. I don't know the history, but chill the fuck out... As for you, time alone might also be useful in order to grow and reflect on things. An end of a relationship does not mean the end of your life, try to calm down and not do anything rash or extreme. You doing rash and extreme things will ONLY GUARANTEE that he leaves in the long run, he might be there for the time being (out of guilt) but I 100% guarantee that he will leave afterwards. I personally would not stand for this emotional terrorism (that's what it is). The only way to even have a possibility of getting him back is to chill the fuck out, reflect, listen to his concerns, have him listen to yours, and achieving an agreement on the future of the relationship.

tho i do feel like i am overwhelming unintentionallybut i do mask these feelings i have very well and he always says he likes how i am and he likes "obsessive" girls im not sure if thats a bad thing or not

 

[Nobody'sHero]

gross
no when i told him that is was like a ayhr ago but made it a silly joke ig this is now hes saying he wants space

no im acc very good at masking these scary emotions i have im very understanding w him but like it makes me peel my skin lowk hes very noncholant/avoidant type man and i try my best2 do everything4 him en i said id kms over him was very long time ago and i made it as silly joke and i do not guilt him at all ur assuming a lot XD

What the fuck, you explain 0% of what the fuck is going on, and then I'm assuming. I am leaving you hahahah

No hard feelings, still love you, stay strong, please don't do anything stupid because of a man, not worth it. If you are going to do something stupid make sure it is 100% because of you

 

[bnkshawty]

What the fuck, you explain 0% of what the fuck is going on, and then I'm assuming. I am leaving your thread hahahah

No hard feelings, still love you, stay strong, please don't do anything stupid because of a man, not worth it. If you are going to do something stupid make sure it is 100% because of you

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