Discussion What do you do when you miss someone so much you just want to die?

[FadingSnowFake]

As per title. Just when I think it's impossible to miss a person more, I wake up this morning, and I do. How do you get through another day knowing tomorrow is going to be worse without this person? How is it possible to just get emptier inside when you are already empty inside?

 

[Pale_Rider]

For me it takes time. Gain some truth from it at the end maybe. Recognizing it going to take time just like a broken leg would helps me. An injury to get through. Eventually I'll learn how to live with it. Slowly.

 

[AlighieriTTT]

I don't know. It never truly goes away. You can go years and be okay but one night those feelings will always come rushing back. I'm sorry

 

[outrider567]

As per title. Just when I think it's impossible to miss a person more, I wake up this morning, and I do. How do you get through another day knowing tomorrow is going to be worse without this person? How is it possible to just get emptier inside when you are already empty inside?

3.5 years for me, it just gets worse all the time, a lonely and depressing world without her, nothing helps, nothing ever will

 

[Nightfoot]

Think about the things you appreciate about them and let that comfort you. Time will do the rest.

 

[FadingSnowFake]

For me it takes time. Gain some truth from it at the end maybe. Recognizing it going to take time just like a broken leg would helps me. An injury to get through. Eventually I'll learn how to live with it. Slowly.

Thanks and sorry for your hurt too. I think for some injuries there may be no end. Perhaps only in death.

Think about the things you appreciate about them and let that comfort you. Time will do the rest.

Thanks, it's difficult. Now, it hurts more than it comforts. Best to deny it's even happening.

3.5 years for me, it just gets worse all the time, a lonely and depressing world without her, nothing helps, nothing ever will

I'm sorry. Do you just keep on hoping or believing in something? How do you keep going?

I don't know. It never truly goes away. You can go years and be okay but one night those feelings will always come rushing back. I'm sorry

I'm sorry too. Sending hugs.

 

[LastLoveSong]

Idk im just gonna die and find out

 

[Satori Komeiji]

Usually it helps to fill in the hole they left in their absence with new things. This could be new friends, new hobbies, anything really. It won't solve your problem outright but it can help. Easier said than done when you have depression, obviously but anything, no matter how minor will help.

 

[FadingSnowFake]

Idk im just gonna die and find out

Wish you could let me know, all the best.

Usually it helps to fill in the hole they left in their absence with new things. This could be new friends, new hobbies, anything really. It won't solve your problem outright but it can help. Easier said than done when you have depression, obviously but anything, no matter how minor will help.

Thank you. Depression, yes... I moved to a new country, started a new job, and still...

 

[Docc]

find a new someone

 

[Bardbarian]

I don't know. It never truly goes away. You can go years and be okay but one night those feelings will always come rushing back. I'm sorry

This is it. I don't think you ever stop loving a person. The way you love them changes, and overall those feelings become more manageable. But I still wake up with deep heartache after dreaming of a few people in particular.