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What values are most important to you? Feel free to elaborate if you want to. :)
 
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Umm, I think I value simplicity and consistency. I think tho
 
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I value honest people, and their constructive criticism.
 
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Just reverse everything you see in the world...
 
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People being real with me.
Intuition. Sometimes you want people to understand why you did or said something without telling them.
 
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Broken

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People being real with me.
Intuition. Sometimes you want people to understand why you did or said something without telling them.
agree! going forward that's the most important traight I want in myself (being real and genuine) then whatever hardships come my way at least my conciounce will always be clear.
Umm, I think I value simplicity and consistency. I think tho
Consistency. That's a good one. Certainly a value I strive to live by now. I expect I'll make mistakes in the future but I will never make the same mistake twice.
 
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reveriewong

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Umm, I think I value simplicity and consistency. I think tho
Those are great values to cherish and uphold. We tend to make things more complicated than they need to be, perhaps because we're such intricate and complex creatures. Consistency is important, and hopefully we can strive to be consistent in ways that are helpful and healthy.
I value honest people, and their constructive criticism.
These are very important things. Telling the truth is necessary for a healthy self, for healthy relationships, and for a healthy civilization. Being able to listen to and accept feedback is an incredibly humbling and useful thing to do. <3
Just reverse everything you see in the world...
Everything? :)
People being real with me.
Intuition. Sometimes you want people to understand why you did or said something without telling them.
It's important for people to be real with you, but it really starts with us being honest with ourselves first... which is no easy feat! But it's certainly worthwhile once you get the hang of it.
 
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Those are great values to cherish and uphold. We tend to make things more complicated than they need to be, perhaps because we're such intricate and complex creatures. Consistency is important, and hopefully we can strive to be consistent in ways that are helpful and healthy.

These are very important things. Telling the truth is necessary for a healthy self, for healthy relationships, and for a healthy civilization. Being able to listen to and accept feedback is an incredibly humbling and useful thing to do. <3
I honestly think being consistent is one of the most important values you can have! If I'd understood the importance of consistency I wouldn't be in this mess. If I'd committed and been consistent I wouldn't feel like such a fake/fraud!
 
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honesty, altruism, patience, humility, comprehension, knowledge, perseverance.
I would like to be that way.
 
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FTL.Wanderer

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  1. That beings able to be suffer be, as much as possible, free from suffering.
  2. That parents owe their children the stable providence of reasonable life security--including financial, educational, health, emotional, personal development... elements. Children should not have to suffer because of their parents' circumstances.
  3. That non-human beings be, as much as possible, free from human exploitation.
  4. That the earth's ecosystems and resources be sufficiently freely available for other life forms to use and that these ecosystems remain pristine enough to broadly nurture life.
  5. That any being be entitled to as painless and quick as feasible an exit from life if this is what it consistently reasons is in its own best interest.
 
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Being free; not debasing or enslaving one's self just to belong to the herd or to satisfy one's ego.
 
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Intellectual honesty. I don't know if it's the "highest value" (that's subjective), but I hate how our society despises intelligence and values fake emotionalism. Intellectual honesty is not valued because it is not "fun" and doesn't make people "feel good".
The guy who always has the precise correct information you need, but always gets told he's "no fun at parties" is usually the guy I want to party with.
Bore me! Bore me all night long! Fact check me! Offer citations, I love it! More facts!
 
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Justice and compassion.
 
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Dreamcolleger

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Apr 26, 2019
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I don't think I have any anymore. I'd help anyone on here, but other than that I'm pretty much all out.
 
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Loyalty, sincerity, truthfulness.
 
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i really really love empathic people, but in general, those who hold the value of being a service to others; unselfish acts, doing things for someone and others and not expecting any gains or rewards. i think thats a really big value to me, just cause not many people are pure and genuinely uphold it.
 
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Apr 19, 2019
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Honesty, perpetual search of truth, and not being evil
 
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i really really love empathic people, but in general, those who hold the value of being a service to others; unselfish acts, doing things for someone and others and not expecting any gains or rewards. i think thats a really big value to me, just cause not many people are pure and genuinely uphold it.
I think the purer it is, the more unnatural it is.
 
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Kindness, empathy, honesty, sharing...all the good stuff we are mostly taught as kids, and all religions and other moral bases teach as righteous, and that are just common sense as good anyway, but that so few people follow.
 
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true, its really hard to judge, because we never know ones intentions.
And also we are naturally cooperative as a way to benefit ourselves, for our survival. I tried to be a very decent person, and look where I ended up lol.
 
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pole

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And also we are naturally cooperative as a way to benefit ourselves, for our survival. I tried to be a very decent person, and look where I ended up lol.
its different for every person to me honestly. but we honestly can never know. you might just be on the same boat as me lol, i dont do good things and expect good back, but it still seems my lifes fucked. with me, my luck is god awful, and thats an underestimate without knowing the details. i just think im destined to be sad and to have the worst luck ever. Some people just get the wrong side of the coin and are destined to live in sadness.

Like they always say, bad things happen to good people, good things happen to bad people. I usually dont believe in stuff like this, but man, is it ever true sometimes.
 
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21Neberg

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I always appreciate those who care for others. Solidarity is what I find most attractive in others, I think.
 
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Self responsibility, your responsible for your own decisions in life.
 
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Consistency and honesty.
 
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Divine Trinity

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Mar 20, 2019
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What values are most important to you? Feel free to elaborate if you want to. :)
Consistency, Curiosity, Compassion, Solidarity, Autonomy.
 
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not_a_robot

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May 30, 2019
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its different for every person to me honestly. but we honestly can never know. you might just be on the same boat as me lol, i dont do good things and expect good back, but it still seems my lifes fucked. with me, my luck is god awful, and thats an underestimate without knowing the details. i just think im destined to be sad and to have the worst luck ever. Some people just get the wrong side of the coin and are destined to live in sadness.

Like they always say, bad things happen to good people, good things happen to bad people. I usually dont believe in stuff like this, but man, is it ever true sometimes.
Same. It's like that with autism a lot. No matter how nice you're trying to be to people , they react with viciousness.
I think neurotypicals are driven at the molecular level to try to destroy autistics, like they destroyed Neanderthal. Just for being different.
 
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Patience and Justice
 
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Nov 14, 2018
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Kindness, humillity, respect, intelligence, honesty, self-awareness
 
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