What are the reasons why former members seek revenge against this forum?

[noname223]

This is not that seldom. I can remember someone who felt not taken seriously by the mods when he complained about the behavior of other people. His last posting was full of hatred against this website and he hinted he will take revenge. It was an argument between him and some other members. I can't judge who was right I did not follow the argument. But other people said this former member behaved like a dick. Disagreements on this website happen quite often. The mods who are the arbiters get often blamed when someone feels treated unfairly.

Another reason is probably people turn pro-life or at least disagree with the principles of this website. I find it amusing sometimes. When people hit rock bottom they are here on this website and fully pro-choice. But when they are the lucky ones who can recover they turn pro-life. This does not happen always. But I believe it happened not only once. Some join fixthe26 as we all know.

One thing which I really dislike is the following. Some had close friends on this website. Other member trusted them and talked with them about their secrets. Then they turn against them and betray them. I really hate such behavior. This is shabby. All this behavior to gain trust from other members in order to doxx or hurt them is horrible. Here are a lot of vulnerable people. I am sure many would kill themselves when they get leaked.

If I have a disagreement with this website or the pattern of behavior of some members I am rather in favor to criticize it constructively. Banning this website or leaving it won't make it better nor does it solve the issues which lead to suicide. In my opinion this is only the suppression of the symptoms.

 

[Dot]

Slf knw 2 ppl wh tk revnge

1 persn ws frnd wh/ ws vry senstv & lashd out cple tmes aftr flt ws nt b-ing listnd thrgh issus thy wre havnb w/ anthr mmbr & endd up feelng b-tryd b/ th ste & ws v hrt & dd nt hvr n.e.whre els 2 drect angr

Th othr slf thnk knws wh/ u r tlkng abt - thre ws a membr wh mockd hw slf typ & refusd 2 apolgse whn askd 2 by mny othrs & wld nt accpt ws n.e.wy in th wrng - thy also thght thy wre b-ing censrd thr sch cmmnts wre removd w/o reasn & flt v angry abt tht & thy sd tht sasu hd mde enmy out of thm

Thnk sme wh/ fl hrt or victmsd b/ sasu in n.e.wy wnt smwhre 2 drct thr angr & tht wll cme out in dffrnt wys - incldng joinng Fx26 / StpSS or tryn2 dx thse thy r angry @

Srry if txt nt v easy 2 undrstnd

 

[noname223]

Srry if txt nt v easy 2 undrstnd

No problem Dot. I always like to read your comments. :)

 

[Onthe29th]

Another reason is probably people turn pro-life or at least disagree with the principles of this website. I find it amusing sometimes. When people hit rock bottom they are here on this website and fully pro-choice. But when they are the lucky ones who can recover they turn pro-life. This does not happen always. But I believe it happened not only once. Some join fixthe26 as we all know.

Well a lot of people are motivated by self interest. Also, because they were able to recover, they probably think that others should reconsider because they can recover too.

Unfortunately, the circumstances that lead us to this site aren't equal and it's naive to think that everyone can be saved; I know I can't and I don't deserve redemption anyway.

 

[DieAnotherDay]

Slf knw 2 ppl wh tk revnge

1 persn ws frnd wh/ ws vry senstv & lashd out cple tmes aftr flt ws nt b-ing listnd thrgh issus thy wre havnb w/ anthr mmbr & endd up feelng b-tryd b/ th ste & ws v hrt & dd nt hvr n.e.whre els 2 drect angr

Th othr slf thnk knws wh/ u r tlkng abt - thre ws a membr wh mockd hw slf typ & refusd 2 apolgse whn askd 2 by mny othrs & wld nt accpt ws n.e.wy in th wrng - thy also thght thy wre b-ing censrd thr sch cmmnts wre removd w/o reasn & flt v angry abt tht & thy sd tht sasu hd mde enmy out of thm

Thnk sme wh/ fl hrt or victmsd b/ sasu in n.e.wy wnt smwhre 2 drct thr angr & tht wll cme out in dffrnt wys - incldng joinng Fx26 / StpSS or tryn2 dx thse thy r angry @

Srry if txt nt v easy 2 undrstnd

Anyone able to translate this for me please? I have absolutely no idea what is being said .

 

[waitingforrest]

Anyone able to translate this for me please? I have absolutely no idea what is being said .

I will try my best I guess, sorry if I mess up a bit Dot.

Self knows two people who take revenge.

One person was found with was and lashed out couple of times after felt was not being listened through issues they were having with another member and ended up feeling betrayed by the site and was very hurt and didn't have anywhere else to direct anger.

The other self thinks knows who you are talking about - there was a member who mocked how self typed and refused to apologize when asked by many others and wouldn't accept that they were in the wrong - they also thought that they were being censored that sush comments were removed without reason and felt very angry about that and they said that SS had made an enemy out of them.

Think some were/felt hurt or victimized by SS in new went somewhere to direct their anger and that will come out in different ways. Including joining fixthe26/StopSS or trying to dox those they are angry at.

Sorry if text not very easy to understand.

 

[DieAnotherDay]

I will try my best I guess, sorry if I mess up a bit Dot.

Self knows two people who take revenge.

One person was found with was and lashed out couple of times after felt was not being listened through issues they were having with another member and ended up feeling betrayed by the site and was very hurt and didn't have anywhere else to direct anger.

The other self thinks knows who you are talking about - there was a member who mocked how self typed and refused to apologize when asked by many others and wouldn't accept that they were in the wrong - they also thought that they were being censored that sush comments were removed without reason and felt very angry about that and they said that SS had made an enemy out of them.

Think some were/felt hurt or victimized by SS in new went somewhere to direct their anger and that will come out in different ways. Including joining fixthe26/StopSS or trying to dox those they are angry at.

Sorry if text not very easy to understand.

Thank you for doing that much appreciated

 

[Dot]

I will try my best I guess, sorry if I mess up a bit Dot.

Self knows two people who take revenge.

One person was found with was and lashed out couple of times after felt was not being listened through issues they were having with another member and ended up feeling betrayed by the site and was very hurt and didn't have anywhere else to direct anger.

The other self thinks knows who you are talking about - there was a member who mocked how self typed and refused to apologize when asked by many others and wouldn't accept that they were in the wrong - they also thought that they were being censored that sush comments were removed without reason and felt very angry about that and they said that SS had made an enemy out of them.

Think some were/felt hurt or victimized by SS in new went somewhere to direct their anger and that will come out in different ways. Including joining fixthe26/StopSS or trying to dox those they are angry at.

Sorry if text not very easy to understand.

Apprci8 - v knd of u - only crrctn = 1st pargrph - ' 1 persn ws 'friend" wth

 

[dustyfurcollector]

Apprci8 - v knd of u - only crrctn = 1st pargrph - ' 1 persn ws 'friend" wth

Hi dot. I'm not trying to stalk you, but I finally found out how to look up members and looked you up bc a very nice person told me how much she enjoys your posts. TBH, I've not known where to look and I hope you'll forgive me for wanting to learn more. Is that ok? Or am I making you uncomfortable. I don't ever want to do that.

 

[Dot]

Hi dot. I'm not trying to stalk you, but I finally found out how to look up members and looked you up bc a very nice person told me how much she enjoys your posts. TBH, I've not known where to look and I hope you'll forgive me for wanting to learn more. Is that ok? Or am I making you uncomfortable. I don't ever want to do that.

= ok dnt wrry

 

[thatguyakira123]

I remember when I use to be like that with some Power Rangers forums back in the days when I was a teenager. At that age I had the whole narcisstic light personality with a main character/attention seeking complex when it came to being on social media.

People do revenge becuase they are very self absorbed. And I am so glad I'm not in that frame of mind anymore.