Sex and sexual abuse.
Not happening in the present
But continued to occur in the past
Nagging and begging for sex is not consent when the victim finally "gives up" because they are HARASSED for it, THREATENED for it, INTIMIDATED to do it, FORCED BY CAPTIVITY, BY COERCION, by POVERTY, FORCED BY ABUSE.
SLAPPED. THROWN DOWN. THROWN ON A BED. A FLOOR. HELD DOWN. LEGS PRIED OPEN.
Oh, you'd do anything not to live with your abusive mother? Let me take your pants off.
Okay. I'll keep forcing my hand down your pants or between your legs. I'll keep poisoning. I'll keep lying. I'll refuse you a job that pays enough to escape your abuser. I'll keep ignoring your pleas for help. Okay I'll keep ignoring you. Okay I'll refuse to sign your time sheet so even if I am not NOW abusing you, I am still controlling your life.
Oh, you said no? Let me keep putting my hand between your legs even when you distance yourself and you keep telling me to stop.
Is that a corset? I'll shove my hands up it and ignore you while you tell me to stop.
Oh, are you sleeping? I'm going to pull your pants off of you anyway. And when you wake up angry with a huge headache I'll throw out pretend "sorries", even after you told me you didn't want to have sex with me.
What, why don't you like me?
How many times were you groped?
Can I grope you and slap your ass again?
This isn't okay.
Oh you're refusing to have sex with me? I demand sex, if you don't have sex with me get your shit and get out, oh and while you were asleep, I read your phone, and I called everyone you tried to find a safe escape to, oh and while you were riding down the freeway I got in my car and chased you using a gps tracker to scream at you and threaten you again, oh, and while you cried about my abuse I pretended you were happy while you faked smiles and begged for help.
Oh and because you refused sex with me, I accused you of stealing.
Oh you refused to be exposed to my crackheads? I stole from your bedroom.
Oh, you kept getting abused?
Well we like skinhead pieces of shit more than we do women who have been abused and attempted to stop the abuse or the stalking or the lying or creeping.
Oh were you trying to get away from your abusers again?
We smeared your name through the dirt and destroyed your happiness.
And then while you were trying to get away from attention seekers and sex naggers and creeps
We stole from you again
Oh, we bought you "gifts" instead of keeping a promise for a place to live and an education, it's easier to abuse you when you're here, so umm? Well just get you thrown out and when you search for another place well encourage the bastard to abuse you, even though you told us you didn't want STUFF, you wanted a place to live by yourself and an education. We bought STUFF instead of helping you get a place to live and stability, because we are horrible people.
