Well what can I say, I'm back. Got called a "pedo" by a woman today and I feel I have no one to talk to about it.

[Area Man]

Suffice to say I am not a pedo and have not sought out to harm anyone, I'm just a bullied loser with too many issues and a lack of social skills. I find it too stimulating around people and get overwhelmed by anxiety. Now I'm too old for anyone to really have any sympathy and most people call me a weird pervert and want me dead. A lot of this is fuelled by my appearance and my OCD. I can't say this to anyone anymore though, they're just sick of it and creeped out and I'm fucked.

Over the past few years I've bit by bit lost more parts of the person I used to be and failed to launch due to mounting self-destructive anxieties and fallen short of expectations. It's in the past few months that shit has really hit the fan and my life has been destroyed and I've been piled on and accused of shit like what I mentioned in this title above. And the people who did this are people with power and position too. And they bent the rules to screw over me. Seems the situation is really beyond help at this point and I'm not emotionally cut out for this sort of life if I've already been a recluse for the past five years. I'm feeling so dead.

 

[FuneralCry]

Some people really are so cruel. It is such a horrible and unfair world we live in, I can imagine that it must be unbearable to be suffering so much. I hope you find relief from pain in whatever happens, I wish you the best.

 

[Bootleg Astolfo]

Pretend to be either of the following : Gay, transexual, jewish, autistic.
Then sue the absolute shit out of them for being ophobic

 

[Area Man]

Pretend to be either of the following : Gay, transexual, jewish, autistic.

I don't have to pretend. I'm autistic but the world just don not care. The powers aren't with me.

 

[Anxieyote]

As an unattractive single male who is approaching 30 with poor social skills, I have some experience with this.

As unfair and unreasonable as it seems—do not look at kids for very long, and do not interact with them unless you absolutely have to. Treat them exactly as you would treat bear cubs if you found them in the wild. Mama bear is probably closeby, so keep your distance. An autistic friend of mine I used to know would approach people who went to his church, and try to strike up conversations with their kids to be the "cool uncle" type or something. The parents would immediately try to disengage.

If you are attractive and have good social skills, you pass the shit test to speak with another person's kid, but otherwise, ignore them and pretend they don't exist.

 

[Area Man]

Yeah we're in a similar situation I think though I've already fudged it majorly. I have to avoid looking at most people because of Visual Tourettic OCD so I constantly am distracted by peripheral and private areas which people hate me acknowledging. I am also just awkward and weird looking though so there's that. It's such a seemingly small thing though but people will hate you for it more that a lot of things people say or do that can do harm. For a time I got stuck up about it but was totally tone deaf to reading the room.

I'm definitely avoidant now lol.

 

[CTBgenuine]

It's because you're autistic. They have trouble relating to others and the world around them and almost always leave a bad impression with strangers. Being called a pedo is random tho, what were you doing to be called that?....

 

[Area Man]

I explained it partially. I think someone spread a false rumour to see if it would stick...

 

[WorthlessTrash]

Another reason why i hate being male. Unless people deem you valuable, you are labeled a creep or pedo. I'd rathet be an unattractive female than a male... :/

 

[AloneInCollege]

Another reason why i hate being male. Unless people deem you valuable, you are labeled a creep or pedo. I'd rathet be an unattractive female than a male... :/

Yeah, I've heard alot that "women and children are valuable by themselves. Men have to earn their value." It's for sure a black pill but from what I've seen it seems like it's true.

 

[Hirokami]

I really hate how the word "pedophile" became a shorthand for "man I don't like". :/

 

[WorthlessTrash]

Yeah, I've heard alot that "women and children are valuable by themselves. Men have to earn their value." It's for sure a black pill but from what I've seen it seems like it's true.

Feminism and women empowerment has shown me that being a female is much better. Just my opinion.

 

[Area Man]

Yeah, I've heard alot that "women and children are valuable by themselves. Men have to earn their value." It's for sure a black pill but from what I've seen it seems like it's true.

If people believe that and enforce it then its true enough. I've heard the sentiment many a time.

Feminism and women empowerment has shown me that being a female is much better. Just my opinion.

You're given more space to appreciate the world around if you're inclined enough I suppose. Men always have to be on the go.

 

[Area Man]

Never has anything ever felt so over.

 

[KlMeNw]

Feminism and women empowerment has shown me that being a female is much better. Just my opinion.

You are incorrect, Just because it is easier to be a female today doesn't mean it's better.

 

[WorthlessTrash]

You are incorrect, Just because it is easier to be a female today doesn't mean it's better.

I will take the easier road over the harder one any day. Then again, I am dysphoric so my opinion is very biased.

 

[ojinzo]

I will take the easier road over the harder one any day. Then again, I am dysphoric so my opinion is very biased.

I'm dysphoric as well and your opinion matters to me

 

[Ernest1964]

Feminism and women empowerment has shown me that being a female is much better. Just my opinion.

I have worked for several hyper militant feminist women and they are the worst people I have ever encountered.

 

[spinningship]

Get a grip so someone called you a name and so you think you'd be better off female? You have so much privilege its unreal.

 

[Dot]

Get a grip so someone called you a name and so you think you'd be better off female? You have so much privilege its unreal.

That persn alrdy said thy have gendr dysphria

= vry diffrnt

 

[sadDaysAhead]

Bullies will poke holes in your vanity because they feel empty inside they are cruel humans who shouldn't exist bullies are the worse humans imaginable sorry for your suffering .

 

[LittleJem]

Fuck that woman, how dare she. Ignore. Fuck her, you have our support.

 

[LittleJem]

Pretend to be either of the following : Gay, transexual, jewish, autistic.
Then sue the absolute shit out of them for being ophobic

Im trying this one. I mean I am disabled and Jewish. And homeless. Are you discriminating against me because I'm…. I personally suggest video everything these fuckers do. Then you have evidence. It hasnt seemed to stop the discrimination but I'm working on the website.

OP just know you are a better person than these cruel nasty people.