SHThrowAway213
That's the hell I live with
- Apr 19, 2018
- 658
Not the only reason, I have posted here plenty of times, but this is the latest.
Me and my ex has separated.
We bought a flat. I put down the deposit, but it is a joint mortgage.
He said yesterday that he isn't going to help me pay it while we are in the process of selling the flat, because he has to pay his Nan rent.
He refuses to talk to his Nan about our situation, saying it is unfair that I'm expecting him to pay it when he is going to get no money.
Luckily, we got a declaration of trust so I get my deposit back and we split the rest.
I can't afford to pay the mortgage by myself.
Also, on top of this, he put an overdraft on our joint account when I said it was a bad idea, and a paypal credit account, on which when are now 500 quid into our overdraft and he owes 3 grand to paypal.
I know I have to sort out the joint account, as that is affecting my credit score. But when the flat is sold he is expecting me to transfer the money to cover his paypal credit account.
I've decided I am not going to do that, but I will not be telling him his until after the flat has sold, if I'm still around.
But I am worried he will get the money for the flat sale, but we are finding it hard to sell as estate agents won't take provisional driving licenses as ID.
We also don't have any of the documents we need either as we lost them
I am thinking about getting a will written to say if the flat does get sold, that the money goes to my family, but that is going to be expensive. You also need 2 witnesses to sign it and no one I know would do it.
I know me dying will complety fuck him over, as he is on UC at 400 a month, and the mortgage is 379.
He wouldn't be able to sell the flat either, as all the documents are lost and he only has a provisional driving license.
It seems like the only way out.
Me and my ex has separated.
We bought a flat. I put down the deposit, but it is a joint mortgage.
He said yesterday that he isn't going to help me pay it while we are in the process of selling the flat, because he has to pay his Nan rent.
He refuses to talk to his Nan about our situation, saying it is unfair that I'm expecting him to pay it when he is going to get no money.
Luckily, we got a declaration of trust so I get my deposit back and we split the rest.
I can't afford to pay the mortgage by myself.
Also, on top of this, he put an overdraft on our joint account when I said it was a bad idea, and a paypal credit account, on which when are now 500 quid into our overdraft and he owes 3 grand to paypal.
I know I have to sort out the joint account, as that is affecting my credit score. But when the flat is sold he is expecting me to transfer the money to cover his paypal credit account.
I've decided I am not going to do that, but I will not be telling him his until after the flat has sold, if I'm still around.
But I am worried he will get the money for the flat sale, but we are finding it hard to sell as estate agents won't take provisional driving licenses as ID.
We also don't have any of the documents we need either as we lost them
I am thinking about getting a will written to say if the flat does get sold, that the money goes to my family, but that is going to be expensive. You also need 2 witnesses to sign it and no one I know would do it.
I know me dying will complety fuck him over, as he is on UC at 400 a month, and the mortgage is 379.
He wouldn't be able to sell the flat either, as all the documents are lost and he only has a provisional driving license.
It seems like the only way out.