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cicadafriend

cicadafriend

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Jun 13, 2023
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Wasn't sure whether to tag as vent, nsfw, or help.

For the most part I can go without s/h, but the urge to is coming back pretty noticeably today. Personally I want to avoid it, but I'm also trying to quit nicotine + under a lot of stress so it's hard to mentally talk myself out of it. I can't tell if it would make me feel better in the moment or not. Has anyone found any good distractors or something kind of like the skin-breaking sensation that isn't as harsh?
 
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UKscotty

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May 20, 2021
2,447
Elastic bands worked for me to get off SH.

Recovery is definitely possible, I am 10 years free of SH. Unfortunately I still have the disgusting scars but I can't get rid of them.
 
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pebpebpebpeb

i have no enemies
Apr 1, 2020
183
holding an ice cube helps for me sometimes. drawing on your skin or even making fake wounds on your skin.

i also really like this site, which is like a self harm simulator of sorts. (if on a phone, you drag your finger across the screen. if on pc, drag your mouse.)
 
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