Discussion TO DO LIST

[Fire&Ash]

hello everyone. To those that know me and read my previous threads, thank you for your past responses. I'm posting this thread to ask for ideas past this list.
1) delete social media except Facebook, so that people can say RIP to me and my family members can see old pictures of me. I want to get a photo shoot because I don't have any current nice photos of me for family to look at.
2) organize my passwords from my bank app, my fb app, put the title of my car in it, and other documents. I can't think of anything else besides that so PLEASE ADD
3) donate or throw my clothes out and keep a basic set of clothes for the last few days. And maybe keep two sets for my parents to keep. Not sure if that's necessary.
4) I saw that I can't return my mattress and stuff so I'll have to sell that on fb. Sell desk.
5) Throw out most things since no one will probly buy it.
6) type up goodbye letters to some individuals, along with my medical history to show that I did try to get help. My experience with health providers. My diagnosis and how I still didn't get help. A detailed letter of my mental illnesses and how it hurt me for so long. Practically make it look like a professional history folder.
SUGGESTIONS??

 

[CommitSudoku]

Some of these points are reminding me of the opening of Koe no Katachi. I don't believe I've read you past posts, my apologies for that. The first thing that comes to mind for #2 is just any official documents you have, like if you have your own birth certificate for example. I don't know why but it came to mind that you could write your own eulogy if you know they'll have a funeral for you, or if you wanted one. I'd say clean the place you live in as well as best you can since it'll probably be hard for family to be there for a while themselves.

 

[Fire&Ash]

Some of these points are reminding me of the opening of Koe no Katachi. I don't believe I've read you past posts, my apologies for that. The first thing that comes to mind for #2 is just any official documents you have, like if you have your own birth certificate for example. I don't know why but it came to mind that you could write your own eulogy if you know they'll have a funeral for you, or if you wanted one. I'd say clean the place you live in as well as best you can since it'll probably be hard for family to be there for a while themselves.

Yes I rent my sisters extra room. I want to leave the room completely empty. No bed frame, no mattress, nothing. I want a cremation but I got no clue how to plan for my own funeral it's hard to research

 

[KimKevorkian]

Really impressed with your methodical inventory of tasks to be accomplished. So organized. So far, I have "scrub frying pan."

Really impressed with your methodical inventory of tasks to be accomplished. So organized. So far, I have "scrub frying pan."

What country are you in? I paid Neptune Society and they issue a card. After the cops evaluate or do an autopsy (as long as I'm not here to see nor feel it), I guess Neptune Society picks one up, pops you in the pizza oven and scatters your ashes where you'd like. I chose the sea. First choice was to be scattered in Hefner's jacuzzi at the Playboy Mansion, but I don't want my ashes getting a herpes sore.

 

[Fire&Ash]

Really impressed with your methodical inventory of tasks to be accomplished. So organized. So far, I have "scrub frying pan."

Hahah the clothes stuff was the first thing, but I got the idea of the documents and passwords from another poster. That stuck with me and seemed "smart" as in I really thought about this and it's not impulsive. I did everything in my own power to help myself. Now I just need to plan my own funeral but I got no clue how to do that

 

[KimKevorkian]

You don't need a funeral per se. When my mom's ashes were scattered out at sea, the Neptune Society sent notice they had done so. It would have been way too complicated and awkward to accompany the staff on a boat ride . Remember, they scatter lots of people's ashes, but law dictates each person's remains are separated by a certain distance. As long as it doesn't look like that scene from, was it The Hangover? The scene where the guy throws his friend's ashes into the air over the sea, and it all immediately blows back all over him? Hahaha.

Hahah the clothes stuff was the first thing, but I got the idea of the documents and passwords from another poster. That stuck with me and seemed "smart" as in I really thought about this and it's not impulsive. I did everything in my own power to help myself. Now I just need to plan my own funeral but I got no clue how to do that

We are so on the same page here. Maybe you cd star in a reality show for suicidals, helping them organize their own departures. I bet there are more than a few rapacious, slimy Hollywood producers loving that idea. When I die, I'll haunt your asses and curse your pastrami sandwiches if you don't cut us in heavily on royalties. Fair warning.

 

[Fire&Ash]

Really impressed with your methodical inventory of tasks to be accomplished. So organized. So far, I have "scrub frying pan."

What country are you in? I paid Neptune Society and they issue a card. After the cops evaluate or do an autopsy (as long as I'm not here to see nor feel it), I guess Neptune Society picks one up, pops you in the pizza oven and scatters your ashes where you'd like. I chose the sea. First choice was to be scattered in Hefner's jacuzzi at the Playboy Mansion, but I don't want my ashes getting a herpes sore.

Neptune society? So there are organizations that you can pay to handle your body when it's found ahead of time? What country are you in? I'm in america

Neptune society? So there are organizations that you can pay to handle your body when it's found ahead of time? What country are you in? I'm in america

Oh I found it! It's an hour away from my town so glad for that.

 

[Fire&Ash]

Hi y'all! I just order a futon to sleep on for the time being since one of my main objects to get rid of is my current mattress+box spring+frame. When I explained to my sister why I got this, I told her I'm going minimalist and mattresses hurt my back (which is true, even with a topper). So it doesn't look suspicious. Once I get it shipped here, I hope it turns out, and then my next object is to sell my desk. Clothes stuff I'll just throw away.

I did a quick skim of everything I own in my room and I realized I had a hard time parting with it. Like a I have a game console, and I feel guilty throwing it away but I don't think anyone would buy it. Stuff like that is hard to part

 

[surface2007]

Really impressed with your methodical inventory of tasks to be accomplished. So organized. So far, I have "scrub frying pan."

What country are you in? I paid Neptune Society and they issue a card. After the cops evaluate or do an autopsy (as long as I'm not here to see nor feel it), I guess Neptune Society picks one up, pops you in the pizza oven and scatters your ashes where you'd like. I chose the sea. First choice was to be scattered in Hefner's jacuzzi at the Playboy Mansion, but I don't want my ashes getting a herpes sore.

best comment ever

 

[Noctis]

Make sure you friends/family/loved ones know where your birth certificate and social security card are. It makes getting a death certificate and being able to close your accounts quite a bit easier.

My grandpa didn't have a birth certificate because he was born on a Native American reservation. It made lots of things much more difficult, like convincing his creditors to leave us alone.