karmaisabitch

karmaisabitch

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Mar 25, 2024
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she seemed happy, I wonder why she killed herself tho? She left a suicide note
 
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Helween

Helween

This is this and that is that.
Apr 13, 2024
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yeah.. like you never know what's in someone else's head.
 
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yeah.. like you never know what's in someone else's head.
Yeah, it can look all good on the surface but you just never know even if the person has their life "sorted out".
 
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Jorms_McGander

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Oct 17, 2023
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Yeah, it can look all good on the surface but you just never know even if the person has their life "sorted out".
Do you think it's done because the suffering don't want to trouble others with their problems?
 
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CTB Dream

CTB Dream

Injury damage disabl hard talk no argu make fun et
Sep 17, 2022
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cuz life all wrng cncpt no mtr wat life alws posbl ctb
 
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Do you think it's done because the suffering don't want to trouble others with their problems?
That's one factor, also because they feel like no one would probably relate or provide support where they actually show they're understanding of their struggles instead of hearing the same old platitudes which I know are coming from a good place but, those words are clearly not enough anymore. I don't like telling anyone my problems, family included so maybe that's why.

Edit: it could also be the fear in trusting themselves enough to open up to those they care about with their problems, not necessarily that they feel like they'll burdening them.
 
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Jorms_McGander

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Oct 17, 2023
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I also keep it to myself. It's something I wish to break out of before I CTB -- not to ask for help in not doing it but I just wanna be heard before I go
 
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Ernest1964

Specialist
Jan 6, 2023
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I just covered this poem in my high school English class (I'm a teacher). The students had to write an essay analyzing the most important literary elements found in this poem. I got some pretty insightful responses.


Richard Cory
BY EDWIN ARLINGTON ROBINSON

Whenever Richard Cory went down town,
We people on the pavement looked at him:
He was a gentleman from sole to crown,
Clean favored, and imperially slim.

And he was always quietly arrayed,
And he was always human when he talked;
But still he fluttered pulses when he said,
"Good-morning," and he glittered when he walked.

And he was rich—yes, richer than a king—
And admirably schooled in every grace:
In fine, we thought that he was everything
To make us wish that we were in his place.

So on we worked, and waited for the light,
And went without the meat, and cursed the bread;
And Richard Cory, one calm summer night,
Went home and put a bullet through his head.
 
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CTB Dream

CTB Dream

Injury damage disabl hard talk no argu make fun et
Sep 17, 2022
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@thealteredmind this put awfl yay
 
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UKscotty

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May 20, 2021
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You never know if someone is suffering with depression or not.
 
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Ash’Girl

Ash’Girl

Girl, Interrupted
Apr 29, 2022
386
There was a case a couple years back when a former Miss USA jumped to her death (I think from her apartment), and another where a top model did similar.

Beauty, prestige, talent, money, seeming that the world is your oyster - these days so much is invested in what life looks like online to the masses. Social media is a crock of shit. I think it actually causes more people to feel like they're failures because of all the fake "perfection" online.

Being a teen and young adult before social media imploded and before everyone 5+ had smart phones and iPads was hard enough. I feel like it must be so much harder now. You never escape the court of public opinion and it's much more difficult to not compare yourself to others and feel lacking.
 
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karmaisabitch

karmaisabitch

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Mar 25, 2024
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There was a case a couple years back when a former Miss USA jumped to her death (I think from her apartment), and another where a top model did similar.

Beauty, prestige, talent, money, seeming that the world is your oyster - these days so much is invested in what life looks like online to the masses. Social media is a crock of shit. I think it actually causes more people to feel like they're failures because of all the fake "perfection" online.

Being a teen and young adult before social media imploded and before everyone 5+ had smart phones and iPads was hard enough. I feel like it must be so much harder now. You never escape the court of public opinion and it's much more difficult to not compare yourself to others and feel lacking.
I remember who you are talking about and I agree with you! Like if someone sees me here looking for resources they will be in shock too it's because people can't see inside us and most of us carries pain
 
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astonishedturnip

astonishedturnip

Like Christine Chubbuck, but sadder
Jan 16, 2024
224
There was a case a couple years back when a former Miss USA jumped to her death (I think from her apartment), and another where a top model did similar.
Cheslie Kryst was absolutely terrified and bummed about turning 30, she publicly stated she worried her value would run out. She CTB at 30. Online image is so youth obsessed, toxic and stresses perfection, and for some people it's in their hands and ready to trigger them every waking minute of the day. While I wish everyone had the right to a safe and peaceful CTB, I wish she'd have gotten help and recovered. Not being 21 anymore is not the end of the world but there's an entire genre of TikTok videos ready to tell you otherwise. Life is fucked.
 
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tbroken

tbroken

Wizard
Feb 22, 2024
689
Cheslie Kryst was absolutely terrified and bummed about turning 30, she publicly stated she worried her value would run out. She CTB at 30. Online image is so youth obsessed, toxic and stresses perfection, and for some people it's in their hands and ready to trigger them every waking minute of the day. While I wish everyone had the right to a safe and peaceful CTB, I wish she'd have gotten help and recovered. Not being 21 anymore is not the end of the world but there's an entire genre of TikTok videos ready to tell you otherwise. Life is fucked.
I think you touched the point. Even we that are not famous (idk maybe someone famous is hiding on this forum also, to learn how to use SN or N without being discovered) are afraid of aging, imagine if you put yourself under the spotlight and everyone is putting on you all these great expectations or constantly criticize you... you need to have strong guts... that's why i hate social media, i want to be able to win and loose without that serious impact.
 
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CTB Dream

CTB Dream

Injury damage disabl hard talk no argu make fun et
Sep 17, 2022
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@Goku Black mod plz this ppl make fun rly awfl @FitsTime
 
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Throwawayacc3

Throwawayacc3

Freedom
Mar 4, 2024
1,387
Awkward Season 1 GIF by Nanalan'
 
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Throwawayacc3

Freedom
Mar 4, 2024
1,387
I think you touched the point. Even we that are not famous (idk maybe someone famous is hiding on this forum also, to learn how to use SN or N without being discovered) are afraid of aging, imagine if you put yourself under the spotlight and everyone is putting on you all these great expectations or constantly criticize you... you need to have strong guts... that's why i hate social media, i want to be able to win and loose without that serious impact.
It's depends on personality type. People who are extroverted, narcissistic love attention and fame. To me that's the worst thing imaginable. Even going to the sanctuary and stuff I do it for the animals and not to post online and get "clout" as they call it now. It's just how my past way with animals so it's my only gateway to it today.

Social media means everything has to be put online. And it must be positive or drive engagement. It's cancer and trust me… I had cancer lmao.

Edit: I've just read this and I realise it sounds too autistic and I'm going to have to ask them about dyslexia as well; ultimately what I'm saying is that social media isn't social at all - it's isolating. It's all fake and for show and it seems like it creates voids for anyone who engages with it.
 
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tbroken

tbroken

Wizard
Feb 22, 2024
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It's depends on personality type. People who are extroverted, narcissistic love attention and fame. To me that's the worst thing imaginable. Even going to the sanctuary and stuff I do it for the animals and not to post online and get "clout" as they call it now. It's just how my past way with animals so it's my only gateway to it today.

Social media means everything has to be put online. And it must be positive or drive engagement. It's cancer and trust me… I had cancer lmao.

Edit: I've just read this and I realise it sounds too autistic and I'm going to have to ask them about dyslexia as well; ultimately what I'm saying is that social media isn't social at all - it's isolating. It's all fake and for show and it seems like it creates voids for anyone who engages with it.
Exactly!!! It's all fake also! You will never post something bad on social media! It is disgusting. They became all doctors, models, animalists and pure-souls!
 
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Throwawayacc3

Throwawayacc3

Freedom
Mar 4, 2024
1,387
Exactly!!! It's all fake also! You will never post something bad on social media! It is disgusting. They became all doctors, models, animalists and pure-souls!
When I say fake. I mean in the sense that the motive for making "content" or a post isn't exactly as genuine as it seems. If a page is for an animal sanctuary then yes you'd expect that kind of content maybe for donations or volunteers or to help, etc. however most account tend to be individuals or couples or a group of people and this is where it gets tricky especially when money and sponsors get mixed in.
Because doctors is linked with animal stuff I do get videos on my YT feed and it is doctors who have quit and do YT only now because of the money and extra time.
 
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tbroken

Wizard
Feb 22, 2024
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When I say fake. I mean in the sense that the motive for making "content" or a post isn't exactly as genuine as it seems. If a page is for an animal sanctuary then yes you'd expect that kind of content maybe for donations or volunteers or to help, etc. however most account tend to be individuals or couples or a group of people and this is where it gets tricky especially when money and sponsors get mixed in.
Because doctors is linked with animal stuff I do get videos on my YT feed and it is doctors who have quit and do YT only now because of the money and extra time.
Yes it can be, there are still passionate ppl out there.
But i don't know if it is my CPTSD or what, but i don't trust most of the digital content however. Youtubers are paid to make propaganda(and not only by sponsors/donators) and it is not a trustable platform anymore. Personally i search only for guides or really relevant news, like natural disasters or ter*****c attacks and similar.
 
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astr4

memento mori
Mar 27, 2019
513
There's something really validating and bittersweet about people who seemingly live happy lives who end up ctb. Like, I was right, it doesn't matter how much money or how many friends I have, life is miserable, and suicidal folks are the only ones that see it the way it really is. Everyone who says that you can get a partner make friends get a new job etc etc as though changing those things will magically make you happy are just delusional imo.
 
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juna

Exhausted...
Mar 4, 2024
189
The saddest people are the ones who laugh the most. Sorry for her.
 
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wiinterfrost

wiinterfrost

it only gets worse..
Oct 8, 2023
116
you reacted with the "yay" reaction to Dream's comment, and the yay reaction often represents laughing. there was nothing in Dream's comment that was funny. and if you looked right at the "descriptor" or how it's called - the words under the profile picture - she specifically states "Disabled. Hard talk, don't argue, make fun, etc"; and with the yay reaction you could be perceived as making fun of her post.

does that answer your question mark?
 
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Illegal Preclear

Illegal Preclear

The CEO of CTB
Sep 6, 2022
217
"A NYC icon." Have you ever hung around New York City? It seeps negative energy. I used to hang around NYC in my late teens/early twenties when I had some years of reprieve from the urge to CTB, and every time I was in NYC I felt the overwhelming urge to CTB. The way that city makes you feel is hard to describe. It's pure despair. All the ugliness and devilishness of this Planet saturated in one place. I'm guessing Eva Evans woke up to that. Or just woke up to the fact that our Planet is a social media, AI driven Hellworld, being that she was a Tik-Toker.

I have a feeling she, like many of us, just WOKE UP to what this Planet really is. And I admire her for it. Full suspension hanging is most likely going to be my method too, and it's good to be reminded it's a reliable method. Congratulations, Eva Evans, on not being a chickenshit like me.
 
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thealteredmind

thealteredmind

Experienced
Apr 2, 2024
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you reacted with the "yay" reaction to Dream's comment, and the yay reaction often represents laughing. there was nothing in Dream's comment that was funny. and if you looked right at the "descriptor" or how it's called - the words under the profile picture - she specifically states "Disabled. Hard talk, don't argue, make fun, etc"; and with the yay reaction you could be perceived as making fun of her post.

does that answer your question mark?
I don't even remember why I put "yay". anyways... if it affects her I removed it, but nah, wasn't making fun of her, I'm not a shitbag.

oh wait I do remember. I read the comment and I was "...what? I don't understand any of it haha"
 
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