This is fucking humiliating

[jawdropped123]

Im currently working at this place and i had an incident with my boss a couple of days ago. He spilled his drink on the table no one helped him clean it up. I was standing at the table i helped him throw some stuff away. After that i went in the kitchen and grabbed a bigger towel than he had and i brought it to him. He didnt take it from me he told me...."its your turn to clean up now" as if i spilled the drink while its him that did it. I cleaned it up and at the time i didnt think its a big deal until now after a few day that i really think about it. Im never helping anyone clean anything anymore im no ones fucking slave. Thats was super humiliating especially because im literally black and his white. I will never put myself in a position like that anymore i just want to quit my fucking job. I dont know if im just fucking emotional right now thats why i dont want to act out of anger and regret it later on. I feel so ashamed because now people think they can walk all over me and i hate myself even more

 

[Seeking_Peace]

Leave, his respect is gone. Have a job lined up first of course.

On a more humorous note, I worked at cancer skin lab and the most popular dermatopathologist was openly eating employee lunches and even told one of the employees how good it was . The respect for peons is downright awful.

 

[wljourney]

Your boss is a racist arse and you have every right to be angry.
The job market is hot right now and jobs are out there. Start looking and once you find something throw that towel right in his effing face.

 

[jawdropped123]

Your boss is a racist arse and you have every right to be angry.
The job market is hot right now and jobs are out there. Start looking and once you find something throw that towel right in his effing face.

Thats you so much im already on a job hunt..im excited

Leave, his respect is gone. Have a job lined up first of course.

On a more humorous note, I worked at cancer skin lab and the most popular dermatopathologist was openly eating employee lunches and even told one of the employees how good it was . The respect for peons is downright awful.

Thank you. Im on a job hunt rn once i find something good im quitting

 

[FuneralCry]

Some people really are so cruel and awful. I hope you find a better job. I wish you the best.

 

[Cathy Ames]

Thats you so much im already on a job hunt..im excited

Good for you! It's much easier to find a job while still employed. Good luck!

 

[TheBroken]

Yeah, aren't people and especially many bosses just great! Sooooo great!!!

 

[absolute]

Im currently working at this place and i had an incident with my boss a couple of days ago. He spilled his drink on the table no one helped him clean it up. I was standing at the table i helped him throw some stuff away. After that i went in the kitchen and grabbed a bigger towel than he had and i brought it to him. He didnt take it from me he told me...."its your turn to clean up now" as if i spilled the drink while its him that did it. I cleaned it up and at the time i didnt think its a big deal until now after a few day that i really think about it. Im never helping anyone clean anything anymore im no ones fucking slave. Thats was super humiliating especially because im literally black and his white. I will never put myself in a position like that anymore i just want to quit my fucking job. I dont know if im just fucking emotional right now thats why i dont want to act out of anger and regret it later on. I feel so ashamed because now people think they can walk all over me and i hate myself even more

Your boss is a lazy asshole

 

[locked*n*loaded]

Thats was super humiliating especially because im literally black and his white.

I have a little different take on this. Do you actually know your boss is racist? He may have told you to clean it up because he is your boss and you are his subordinate.

 

[jawdropped123]

I have a little different take on this. Do you actually know your boss is racist? He may have told you to clean it up because he is your boss and you are his subordinate.

Are you kidding me? Couldnt he ask me if i want to clean it up for him instead of telling me to clean it up. Im not obligated to do anything i dont work at a restaurant i have a great job in an office. He treated me different from my other white colleagues in a disrespectful way that he never does to another colleague. Hes definitelty racist

 

[TrynaChingMyself]

Im currently working at this place and i had an incident with my boss a couple of days ago. He spilled his drink on the table no one helped him clean it up. I was standing at the table i helped him throw some stuff away. After that i went in the kitchen and grabbed a bigger towel than he had and i brought it to him. He didnt take it from me he told me...."its your turn to clean up now" as if i spilled the drink while its him that did it. I cleaned it up and at the time i didnt think its a big deal until now after a few day that i really think about it. Im never helping anyone clean anything anymore im no ones fucking slave. Thats was super humiliating especially because im literally black and his white. I will never put myself in a position like that anymore i just want to quit my fucking job. I dont know if im just fucking emotional right now thats why i dont want to act out of anger and regret it later on. I feel so ashamed because now people think they can walk all over me and i hate myself even more

You are completely justified with your anger to the situation and your boss. He sounds like he's hot garbage.

You mentioned that people think they can walk all over you now but that may be just overthinking? This one event doesn't override how your colleagues felt about you before. Unless you see them treat you differently, I would suggest keeping an open mind about it. Who knows, maybe they empathise with how you feel?

In your position I would most likely leave the workplace if I had the financial capability/another job available.

but, definitely take some time to think about what you want to do and see how your daily work life is going forward.

 

[m00nlyte]

Get a new job hun

 

[WorthlessTrash]

I have a little different take on this. Do you actually know your boss is racist? He may have told you to clean it up because he is your boss and you are his subordinate.

Why is my name in that quote even though I did not even post here? Lol

 

[Chronic]

Fuck...no good deed goes unpunished. Sorry this happened to you.

 

[Cathy Ames]

It sound like you work in some type of food service enterprise.

Yikes. No, it does not. She works in an office, and not as the janitor, either. She actually told you that directly, above, and it is in the quote you provided.

 

[Chronic]

Why is my name in that quote even though I did not even post here? Lol

Hmm...looks like the person changed the BB code like I just did to test. Not cool, locked*n*loaded and not cool attacking the OP either who is a victim of an abusive boss. No way cleaning up after the boss when they spilled their drink is in the job requirements.

 

[whatevs]

That motherfucker used his position to unload some frustration on you. What would've been normal was asking you if you could clean the mess because he had to leave or something, not act like you had to clean it because it was your mess.

Your boss is a racist arse and you have every right to be angry.
The job market is hot right now and jobs are out there. Start looking and once you find something throw that towel right in his effing face.

Wooh woooh hold on chief! There was no racism on sight there! Just a boss abusing an employee without race involved.

 

[locked*n*loaded]

Why is my name in that quote even though I did not even post here? Lol

I have no idea how/why that would do that. I have noticed, though, on other occasions, that when I quote something, that a previous quote/response to someone else in a previous thread is still "remembered" when I insert the latest quote and response to a thread I'm responding to. Like the previous quote doesn't clear after I post and then gets inserted into my next response. It wasn't done by me intentionally, I can tell you that. It's something with this system, at least for me it is happening.

 

[WorthlessTrash]

I have no idea how/why that would do that. I have noticed, though, on other occasions, that when I quote something, that a previous quote/response to someone else in a previous thread is still "remembered" when I insert the latest quote and response to a thread I'm responding to. Like the previous quote doesn't clear after I post and then gets inserted into my next response. It wasn't done by me intentionally, I can tell you that. It's something with this system, at least for me it is happening.

Ah, i see. No problem then.

 

[Graham]

Im currently working at this place and i had an incident with my boss a couple of days ago. He spilled his drink on the table no one helped him clean it up. I was standing at the table i helped him throw some stuff away. After that i went in the kitchen and grabbed a bigger towel than he had and i brought it to him. He didnt take it from me he told me...."its your turn to clean up now" as if i spilled the drink while its him that did it. I cleaned it up and at the time i didnt think its a big deal until now after a few day that i really think about it. Im never helping anyone clean anything anymore im no ones fucking slave. Thats was super humiliating especially because im literally black and his white. I will never put myself in a position like that anymore i just want to quit my fucking job. I dont know if im just fucking emotional right now thats why i dont want to act out of anger and regret it later on. I feel so ashamed because now people think they can walk all over me and i hate myself even more

Don't let idiots get to you

From what you say you were being helpful

Gx

Leave, his respect is gone. Have a job lined up first of course.

On a more humorous note, I worked at cancer skin lab and the most popular dermatopathologist was openly eating employee lunches and even told one of the employees how good it was . The respect for peons is downright awful.

I worked in Advertising for many years

Most Creative Directors are cunts

Could tell you many stories of these power crazed turds

Worst cunt I worked for used to steam in and kick the office door open and call you a cunt - often pissed and trying to cause problems

He was and still is a massive cunt

Big cunt

Small penis

 

[Seeking_Peace]

A long-time employee there would make him coffee every morning and kept her head down when he walked by. They treated him like a god.

Reportedly, he shouted so loud at a pregnant employee that she peed on herself.

I was new to the job like who da f is this guy?

He constantly commended my work and wondered why I was wasting my talent there.

I treated him like a normal coworker and he respected it.

At the end, I started drinking his cokes from the fridge when I heard he was stealing lunches. He would get so fired up I could hear him yelling from his office. Good times haha

 

[jawdropped123]

That motherfucker used his position to unload some frustration on you. What would've been normal was asking you if you could clean the mess because he had to leave or something, not act like you had to clean it because it was your mess.

Wooh woooh hold on chief! There was no racism on sight there! Just a boss abusing an employee without race involved.

Was you their? How do you know their was no racist intent if the situation didnt happen to you? Cause he surely treats hes other white colleagues really good

 

[whatevs]

Was you their? How do you know their was no racist intent if the situation didnt happen to you? Cause he surely treats hes other white colleagues really good

OK, you are right, YOU were there. Your opinion is much more valid. If you feel racism it might be there. I'm just saying many are eager to find racism beneath every rock.

 

[jawdropped123]

OK, you are right, YOU were there. Your opinion is much more valid. If you feel racism it might be there. I'm just saying many are eager to find racism beneath every rock.

What does that have to do with my post im just here to vent not to talk about your opinion

 

[whatevs]

What does that have to do with my post im just here to vent not to talk about your opinion

But you did just that above. Anyway, I'm leaving this thread. Peace out.

 

[Insomniac]

Thats was super humiliating especially because im literally black and his white

now I'm mad at you. how could you tolerate that :(

I'm black too and this is humiliating to read

 

[jawdropped123]

now I'm mad at you. how could you tolerate that :(

I'm black too and this is humiliating to read

Im also really shy and im about to get a autistic diagnose in about a month. When it was happening i didnt see anything was wrong until i sat back and think about what happened

 

[Chinaski]

Im also really shy and im about to get a autistic diagnose in about a month. When it was happening i didnt see anything was wrong until i sat back and think about what happened

You give a little person a little power and they will show you how little they are, and this appears to be the case here. You're also not wrong to consider the race aspect, there's obviously *something* which makes him think he can treat you with an extra layer of disrespect. Don't dwell on your own powerlessness here imo, the whole incident says nothing about you but a hell of a lot about him. You might not be there to see it, but those types frequently come unstuck at some point.

 

[Forever Sleep]

My Dad once gave me this example- 'So, you walk into an office with this important job that needs to be completed- on one side of the room, there are a bunch of people chatting- on the other- someone hard at work. Who do you give the job to? The one who's already working.'

Find it interesting that you said when your boss spilled his drink- no one else helped- you stepped forward to help out. It's really shit but workplaces seem to do this- if you're willing to work, they'll just keep piling it higher and higher till you feel like a mug for being so helpful.

Sounds especially appauling the way he spoke to you. I hope you find a better job soon.

 

[Arrow]

I wouldn't recommend quitting your job over something like this--if your boss tried something like this again it would be better to assert yourself a little more